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  2. Lady Ayu

    Epilating creams

    Does Nair count?? If that is what yall are talking about, i just recently tryed it and it worked pretty good for me. Legs and Arms went fine but i missed a few patches on my arms, so i would just ensure total coverage next time. Results were pretty good and for me i may prefer this to shaving but it's not perfect and it does burn if you arent careful: read read read the instructions and maybe test a small patch before doing a coat. I tested on the small hairs just above my ankle. Hope this helps!! ~Mayumi~
  3. Charlize

    Remote worker. How do I talk to my boss?

    It sounds like you're working with a great, accepting group of fellow employees. Wonderful news. Enjoy. Hugs, Charlize
  4. A year ago, my friends and I made jokes that I acted so much like a dude that I might as well be one. I used to call everyone dude or bro, regardless of gender, and was funny and outspoken. This is because I grew in the 90s and was obsessed with the Ninja Turtles as a child and formed the habit of calling everyone dude early on. I joined a Discord server that was primarily for FtM trans guys. There was one MtF in the group. I was careless and made the mistake of addressing her as a dude, and she lashed out at me. The other chatters quickly sided with her since I was the newbie. I was given a lecture on using gender neutral terminology. Lots of other stuff went down before I eventually left the server. The whole incident has left me pretty much afraid to be myself. I always ask permission now before I address someone as dude or bro, if at all. It wasn't until earlier this week, a year after the incident, that I felt comfortable enough chatting with my friends to address one of them as dude. I feel like I'm learning how to be myself again.
  5. Lady Ayu

    My Progress(?) ~Lady Ayu~

    Hai haiiii, I meant to add this to yesterday's post. My therapist wanted me to take a picture!! I just felt like sharing, have a good weekend everyone!! ~Mayumi ~
  6. MaryMary

    Passing starts from within

    I feel like it's always been that, I have to find new stuff and do what I should have done when I was 12 and just learn to know myself for real 😂
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  8. Charlize

    Passing starts from within

    I love the Mary. When i no longer thought about myself and gender i think that might have been an end to a process. My mind went back to all the old stuff filling it. Hugs, Charlize
  9. SaraAW

    Remote worker. How do I talk to my boss?

    That is great to hear! Really happy for you. 😀 *hugs*
  10. Yes I relate to that too. I spent years trying to force myself to be male and it drove me to sever depression. I recently had to stay with family I am not out to and after a few days I was really wanting to be feminine. When I finally got out, putting on a cute dress and doing my makeup made a world of difference.
  11. Krisvm

    Good things about Coming Out

    I have started being out at work and seeing people using my name and pronouns keeps giving me little shot of euphoria. Strange to keep smiling when I see work emails coming in!
  12. Krisvm

    Remote worker. How do I talk to my boss?

    Just wanted to update everything seems to have gone great. Everyone at work has been really supportive and supercareful to start calling me Kris and using my correct pronouns. Made me very happy!
  13. gennee

    Journey of my life

    Welcome to TransPulse, Debra.
  14. gennee

    Hi from England

    Hi Daphne and welcome.
  15. gennee

    Why didn’t I know sooner?

    Hello Violet and welcome to the site.😃
  16. MaryMary

    Passing starts from within

    I can pinpoint exactly where it starts from using a MRI, it's the region of the brain that overanalyse every little trait of mine to purposefully find reasons to be dysphoric : that's where passing starts from for me 🤣🤣😂
  17. Debra Michelle

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    seller was the thief,arrested him on the spot.
  18. Cyndee

    Passing starts from within

    Me too on above, it can be very validating, however many cis women feel that this type of recognition is "objectifying" them as sex objects (it's a thing). Eventually you would grow tired of it. My daughter is an "attractive" young woman, she tells me she is burned out on "-excited- guys". C -
  19. Jani

    Passing starts from within

    Heathick I would spend time watching people to see how women carry themselves and move differently than men. Also notice now women speak, in the inflection and tone they use. You don't have to go "over the top" and get all super fem. Most women are not, they're just themselves. You can be also. Jani
  20. Cyndee

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    Wow Charlize, that's something. 3 cords should be a good supply for winter. We only go through about a cord per winter here, depends. Have a great day C -
  21. Charlize

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    Debra, Did they catch the thief? Amazing that they tried to sell them in a legitimate market. Samantha, Admitting to ourselves who we are and then accepting that is a long term process. I wouldn't worry too much about being hairless. Many men are. If it becomes too difficult then showering at home may be the only alternative. I'm almost done cutting the firewood for the house. I've got 3 cords cut, split and covered on pallets ready to move near the front door. We unfortunately have hundreds of dead ash trees on the farm. The emerald ash borer is killing them all. I feel like crying as i take them down but at least they make great firewood. I've also set some pieces aside for hafting axes and hammers. In time wooden baseball bats will disappear. Another ecological disaster. Hugs, Charlize
  22. SamanthaC

    Good morning All. Coffees on.

    Good morning everyone. Woke up yesterday morning and confidently announced to myself, "I'm a trans woman". Made feel feel incredibly content and happy. Went about my day and left a voice mail for a endocrinologist, "I'm a trans woman'. And it felt so good to say it aloud and to someone else, even if it was an answering machine. Lost a bit of this bravado when back with my family last night, butbtjis morning, I'm feeling good again. This site really has and continues to help me. Sorry rambling on. On a side note, I assume most of us here dont change and shower at the gym? Im reluctant to go to the mens locker room with a shaved body. Any thoughts?
  23. Cyndee

    Happy Birthday's

    Happy Birthday Lizzie I hope today is simply wonderful for ya Cynthia -
  24. reyindium

    Geek time! Any other "otaku"/J-nerds out there?

    Howdy, I'm a fellow "J-nerd" but I have to admit, I haven't read the mangaka you mentioned. I prefer action genre. My current obsession is Boku no Hero, which I follow the manga and anime for. Looove One Punch man. Still watch classics like DBZ, Yu Yu Hakusho, Rurouni Kenshin. Liked Naruto before the Great Ninja War arc--by then I was "character fatigued"... I also like some of CLAMP's work. Also LOVE Naoki Urasawa's masterpiece Monster. My first ever manga was Fushigi Yuugi by Yu Watase. That began it all for me. She is a very talented artist too. My only thing with her is that all her stories follow the same love triangle pattern and I don't enjoy how predictable that is. But the Fushigi Yuugi will always have a special place with me as my first.
  25. mochi90

    Hourou Musuko (Transient Son)

    This is a seinen manga that has both a FtM main character and FtM side character. It depicts gender dysphoria at the onset of puberty. For those of you who don't know, manga is Japanese comic books or graphic novels that are read from right to left. Seinen manga is catergorized as "men's manga" because it deals with more adult issues. There is also shonen (boy's manga), shoujo (girls manga), and josei (women's manga). Hourou Musuko is available to read online at mangareader.net, and is also available in hardback format on Amazon.
  26. Timber Wolf

    Happy Birthday's

    Good morning everyone,🍁 Happy Birthday Lizzie Mc Trucker!🎂 Happy Birthday Annie!🎂 Hope you have a beautifiul day! Lots of love, Timber Wolf 🐾
  27. Timber Wolf

    Just Got Out of the Hospital

    Hi Mochi, I'm glad to hear the med is working. I'm really glad. My stepmom struggled with depression and I saw what it can be like. Lots of love, Timber Wolf 🐾
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    • Lady Ayu
      Does Nair count?? If that is what yall are talking about, i just recently tryed it and it worked pretty good for me. Legs and Arms went fine but i missed a few patches on my arms, so i would just ensure total coverage next time. Results were pretty good and for me i may prefer this to shaving but it's not perfect and it does burn if you arent careful: read read read the instructions and maybe test a small patch before doing a coat. I tested on the small hairs just above my ankle. Hope this helps!!   ~Mayumi~
    • Charlize
      It sounds like you're working with a great, accepting group of fellow employees.  Wonderful news.  Enjoy.   Hugs,   Charlize
    • mochi90
      A year ago, my friends and I made jokes that I acted so much like a dude that I might as well be one. I used to call everyone dude or bro, regardless of gender, and was funny and outspoken. This is because I grew in the 90s and was obsessed with the Ninja Turtles as a child and formed the habit of calling everyone dude early on.    I joined a Discord server that was primarily for FtM trans guys. There was one MtF in the group. I was careless and made the mistake of addressing her as a dude, and she lashed out at me. The other chatters quickly sided with her since I was the newbie. I was given a lecture on using gender neutral terminology. Lots of other stuff went down before I eventually left the server.    The whole incident has left me pretty much afraid to be myself. I always ask permission now before I address someone as dude or bro, if at all. It wasn't until earlier this week, a year after the incident, that I felt comfortable enough chatting with my friends to address one of them as dude.    I feel like I'm learning how to be myself again. 
    • Lady Ayu
      Hai haiiii,   I meant to add this to yesterday's post. My therapist wanted me to take a picture!! I just felt like sharing, have a good weekend everyone!!   ~Mayumi ~
    • MaryMary
      I feel like it's always been that, I have to find new stuff and do what I should have done when I was 12 and just learn to know myself for real 😂
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