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*older, not holder, oops :P

No problem!

Old topic, but I gotta say my favorites are: "Stop hitting on minors" (doesn't work if you're holder tho) and "Sure as [squid] not you"

Abigail, I think we will just leave the other posts where they are, and the discussion can start anew here. It is possible to do what you ask, but would disrupt the flow of the discussion in the other thread, and would require more work than it's worth. Carolyn Marie

I am in too good a mood to earn my certificate today. I am sure something will happen that will put me on the path to earning it.

It's likely most cis-women consider a fitting unnecessary "because they know what they wear" and get used to the wrong size. The instructions for what your size is are simple and why go to any further effort? You measure your bandsize and you measure your max and subtract the two to get the needed info for the cup size. Then you buy the same size for years until it hurts or something.

Congratulations Lorelei! Yes, it is a powerful feeling to have the documents that say "you are you".

Hahaha

Here is space for discussion on this, since the topic is large and could derail another thread SOMEBODY started. Could some dear, sweet, kind Moderator pull everything related to this from the Voting for Trump thread and put it here? I don't know if you can do that; I am the new girl on the block after all (blinks sweetly).

I think I lost a friend :(

I will have arrived when I have a b*tch certificate of my own. I think someone called me one once.

That’s fantastic Lorelei. I’m so happy for you. Hugs, Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

Good morning everyone, It’s Thursday well as least I took my Thursday Medications as sorted out in my weekly dispensary caddy. Today’s coffee is Folgers Breakfast Blend served HOT, black and strong. My wife and I are going to explore the Western and Southern coasts of Saginaw Bay and hang out in Bay City, MI. today. @Willowonce @Abigail Genevievepointed out the word usage in your post. I read it and laughed, enjoying the snarky tone of the comment. Since it was spelled correctly I thought maybe you meant for it to read just as you typed it. Then the kinder gentler me thought it would be better if I changed it. I’m not saying I corrected it, I just changed the severity of the sentence. Hugs, Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

Adore: : to worship or honor as a deity or as divine : to regard with loving admiration and devotion : to be very fond of

Every new thing feels so good.

Things are moving quickly now that I have my drivers license and social security card in my new name. It was really affirming when I got my first paycheck in my new name.

Amazingly I have found many cis women are absolutely wrong in their assumptions about bra fittings. I knew an elderly lady that said, "I have been a C cup since school, I just buy a bigger band size as my breasts grow." This is completely WRONG as the band should always fit snug with they gore firmly against the chest. One of CNA's came into Torrid and I helped her pick out a new bra. She didn't even understand band size was inches and cups/band combo were based off Victorian shirt sizes. She said, "how do you know so much?" We found her proper fitting band size, then found a cup she fit. How can people that take the vast majority of bra users know so little about them? Seems most cis women just use "try it on" only.

As has been said many times, this is not a black and white issue. Sure. I get it that a MtF person that has gone through full male puberty and "transitioned" 6 months ago probably has an advantage in some sports. But these bans affect elementary school kids too. I mean, banning trans women from Darts? Chess?

Do you have achievements you make to mark your progress to becoming the true you?

believing forward movement is just ahead.

Worry refers to the thoughts, images, emotions, and actions of a negative nature in a repetitive, uncontrollable manner that results from a proactive cognitive risk analysis made to avoid or solve anticipated potential threats and their potential consequences.