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By Colleen Henderson · Posted
I've been devoting time lately to my late-in-life hobby: an on-line radio station. I spent 13 years in the industry back in the 80s and early 90s, both out on the air and in copywriting and production. In terms of audience, I'm pretty much targeting people close to or in my age group. I think the scientific term is "fossils". I'm getting positive feedback from this toy of mine. It turns out that when you do something just for fun it can impact people in a positive way. Who knew? -
By Mara.something · Posted
Hello, One of my best friends has an autistic 11-year-old. I have known them for about seven years. When I transitioned 18 months ago, the child had questions about the new situation. I explained things as best as I could and answered every question. They have had no problem adjusting to my new name or my new pronouns. But they have repeatedly made comments in my presence like "when is she going to sound like a woman?" I have had two conversations about this topic previously with her. I tried "well, I have been speaking this way for fifty years and it has been very hard to change." Then I tried "not all women have to sound a certain way in order to be women." Neither has been effective. Is there another line I am not thinking of that will be clearer? Or is this just going to be an eternal thing? I do not feel my attempts at voice feminization have been very successful, so when I am among friends I often don't try very hard. I am not angry when they make these comments, but it does hurt a little when I am reminded of the fact that I am 'different' than other woman in their eyes. I intend to discuss this more with their parents, but I wanted to get any tips from y'all before I do so. thanks in advance! -
By Mmindy · Posted
Coffees for all. I wish we could really have coffee together. I would even make a coffee pot for the occasion. Mindy🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
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By Jani · Posted
Kymmie I am sorry to read of your family's loss. Hold on to your family. Jani -
By Ivy · Posted
Kymmie- sorry for your loss. It must have been a shock to you all. -
By Cyndee · Posted
@KymmieLSorry to read about your Brother in law Kymmie, how tragic, thoughts be with you and your family. @WillowHappy birthday young lady Cyndee -
By Mmindy · Posted
Good afternoon everyone, @KymmieL I’m sorry for your family loss, and hold you and yours up in prayer. Mindy🐛🏳️⚧️🦋 -
By VickySGV · Posted
While the Los Angeles area is much safer than many areas, even we have our problems from time to time. No direct evidence in this case, and maybe none ever, but the Holiday Season with parties in many welcoming and supposedly safe places have a problem with "Date Rape" drugging/ A Trans friend of mine whom @Carolyn Marie may know or at least know of was the victim of that a year ago. The person is a survivor but is still dealing with the physical and psychological aspects of the experience. I am there for the person, but they are having a tough time still. Please be careful about who you are with and what is happening to you. Make sure there are several people with you and that all of you have each other's backs. -
By Willow · Posted
@KymmieL oh my! What a terrible week for your wife. I am so sorry. My sincere condolences for your you, your wife and sons. Hugs Willow -
By Delcina B · Posted
Welcome Jennie! Glad you're here! Happy for you being accepted by family & work! As for bad decisions & consequences, hmmm, me too. There are posts on the forum here with tips on solving some of the problems you mention. I hope you find the wonderful support, advice & acceptance here as I have. Hugs! Delcina -
By Marcie Jensen · Posted
@KymmieL, I'm sorry for your loss. It's sad to lose a family member; so sad that mere words aren't adequate. It's especially hard during this time of year. You and your family will be in my prayers. May you all find the comfort and healing you need during your tie of grief. -
By Diana Stone · Posted
I am not on any HRT so my body is the one I was born with pretty much though it creaks and pops rather more in recent years. I am fairly well accepted in most places in the sense that people don't seem confused about how I present with regard to gender so that's OK. With regard to behaviour, I can't say I have adopted a different walk or way of moving so if that draws attention maybe I am to thick skinned to notice now to be honest. My speaking voice is different depending on if its people I know or not, so it tends to vary quite a bit. I would say if anything gives me away it might be my hands which are not huge but fairly long. I don't really think about being trans 90% of the time. I have to be a bit more careful in regard to presentation to try and look right but practice makes perfect they say. I have two different modes really, if I am out playing music on a gig I tend to go for a more showbizzy look. At other times I am a bit mumsey or grandma ish. -
By Lydia_R · Posted
My brother died at 48 a couple years ago from a lifetime of chewing tobacco. It sure is hard to see people never make it to recovery. I've been trying for years to pull my best friend out of his alcoholic retirement home. I can't help but to keep trying, but there is only so much you can do for someone else. I think he is better off where he is than locked up where he couldn't get a drink. He's a musician I grew up with and we never played together much as adults. It sure would be fun to play with him for real finally. Finally doing transition and getting on a formal road of recovery as a way to fix my social anxiety is starting to make me feel better. I've been trying to get up the nerve and figure out the logistics of hiring some musicians to record with for a couple years now. I can be pretty slow at making things happen, but I do make steady progress. It sure has been a challenge breaking out of my anti-social shell. You should see the notes in my journal from a couple years ago. I really have been working on this for years.
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