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Guest Anna_Banana

The United States is facing quite a number of hardships during this early portion of the 21st century. We've essentially been dealing with a nine year war, an economic crisis, a huge increase in poverty, rising unemployment, and inequality among minority groups just to name a few. The world is turning against us. Our own people are turning against each other. Yet despite these conflicts and issues that affect us as a nation, we really find the time and money to do what's necessary:

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That's right. We erected a freaking 3.6 mile long, 18-foot-high fence across the U.S.-Mexico border near San Diego. This $57.7 million monstrosity was obviously the best choice of spending and political decision making we could make. No, who cares about creating jobs for the unemployed? Who cares about fixing our infrastructure? And honestly, who cares about giving equal rights to the LGBT community?

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Reporting from San Diego - The border barrier dips and curves, zigs and zags, hugging the mountain's contours like a slimmed-down version of the Great Wall of China.

Among the costliest stretch of fencing ever built on the U.S.-Mexico border, the 3.6-mile wall of steel completed last fall is meant to block trafficking routes over Otay Mountain, just east of San Diego.

People seeking to enter the country illegally have hiked the scrub-covered, tarantula-infested peak for years, trying to get to roads leading to San Diego.

"We're no longer conceding this area to smugglers," said Jerome C. Conlin, a U.S. Border Patrol spokesman...

...The $57.7-million project is one segment in the massive expansion of border infrastructure approved by Congress during George W. Bush's presidency. Homeland Security has erected fencing in small towns, remote valleys and high-desert mesas from the Pacific Ocean to Texas.

At about $16 million a mile, the Otay Mountain barrier cost about four times as much as similar border fencing built during this expansion, according to the U.S. Government Accountability Office.

The Border Patrol's San Diego sector was already one of the country's most heavily fortified frontiers before the mountain fence was constructed, with about 40 of the sector's 60 miles lined with vehicle or pedestrian barriers...

...When the federal government broke ground last year, environmental groups, including the Sierra Club, said the project would damage the Otay Mountain Wilderness. Portions of the fence and the 5-mile access road lie in the federally protected area.

The federal government, trying to expedite construction of border fencing, waived more than 30 environmental laws in 2008, including the Wilderness Act, Clean Water Act, Endangered Species Act and others that environmentalists said applied to the Otay area...

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When the economy improves, the mountain will once again draw immigrants, fence or no fence, said Pedro Rios, director of the American Friends Service Committee in San Diego.

"It seems to me, if someone is able to climb the mountains in the Otay Wilderness, a 15-foot wall will not make a difference," he said...

Good job, America. I mean, I just thought you were joking when you said you were going to fence the border, but now I see just how dumb you really are. *thumbs up*

.Anna

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Guest Nikki A

for that much it should probably be less ugly! i mean, you are completely right that it is a complete waste. but wat an eye sore! should have made it pink

hugs, Nikki

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Guest April63

Well, building a fence creates jobs. It also bolsters the security of this nation. I personally don't like the idea of a fence, but how else are we supposed to do it? There really isn't another option. As for fixing the economy an all that fun stuff, that's so complicated that one task won't be able to do it. In fact, it will probably never happen. We'll just have to learn to live with it.

I think the stupidity lies in the common, everyday person who just doesn't care and doesn't think about how to do anything the right way.

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Guest Anna_Banana
Well, building a fence creates jobs. It also bolsters the security of this nation. I personally don't like the idea of a fence, but how else are we supposed to do it? There really isn't another option. As for fixing the economy an all that fun stuff, that's so complicated that one task won't be able to do it. In fact, it will probably never happen. We'll just have to learn to live with it.

I think the stupidity lies in the common, everyday person who just doesn't care and doesn't think about how to do anything the right way.

Actually, building the fence reduces jobs. As the article mentions "The Border Patrol's San Diego sector was already one of the country's most heavily fortified frontiers before the mountain fence was constructed, with about 40 of the sector's 60 miles lined with vehicle or pedestrian barriers..." Now that the fence is in place they are going to use less border patrol for that area. And actually, it's pretty simple to handle the illegal immigration issue. The problem is, many employers opt not to do the background check because they know they can hire more illegals for less than the cost of one American citizen on the payroll. Whether people want to admit it or not, illegal immigrants are a significant portion of our economy's backbone. Could you imagine if every job had to pay each employee $40/hour like, say, the UAW forces GM and Ford? Sure, employees would be happy, but businesses would be hurting.

.Anna

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Guest Joanna Phipps
Actually, building the fence reduces jobs. As the article mentions "The Border Patrol's San Diego sector was already one of the country's most heavily fortified frontiers before the mountain fence was constructed, with about 40 of the sector's 60 miles lined with vehicle or pedestrian barriers..." Now that the fence is in place they are going to use less border patrol for that area. And actually, it's pretty simple to handle the illegal immigration issue. The problem is, many employers opt not to do the background check because they know they can hire more illegals for less than the cost of one American citizen on the payroll. Whether people want to admit it or not, illegal immigrants are a significant portion of our economy's backbone. Could you imagine if every job had to pay each employee $40/hour like, say, the UAW forces GM and Ford? Sure, employees would be happy, but businesses would be hurting.

.Anna

those troops can now be redeployed to other areas like Az, NM, TX there by making the fence employment neutral

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Guest sarah f

Not to sound like I don't care for illegals but just think how many jobs american citizens would possibly have if there weren't so many illegals here already. I don't like the idea of the fence but something had to be done. I don't have a problem for anyone that comes over here legally and pay taxes just like the rest of us do. My problem is that most illegals have all the benifits of the hospitals and if they get into a wreck guess who pays for the damage, not them because they don't have insurance. I would be ok if they just would give them a one month period to turn themselves in and become citizens of the United States. After that anyone caught here illegally should be deported back to their country right away. It really makes no sense to me that if an illegal gets into a traffic accident, the cop on scene can't do anything about it. They should have the right to take their vehical and take them to a detention center where they would be transferred to a border patrol facility.

Sorry for the rant but I believe illegals are taking the jobs of many americans that would do just about anything right now so they can support their family.

Love,

Sarah F

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All the fence, in the world will not deter someone coming into the USA if they really want to, they will always find a way.

Most of these projects are piggy backed on other more important bills in order for them to pass, the health reform bill is one example.

pork barrel at it's finest.

Paula

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Guest Anna_Banana
Sorry for the rant but I believe illegals are taking the jobs of many americans that would do just about anything right now so they can support their family.

Love,

Sarah F

I hear that argument all the time and I have to disagree. Americans moan about "THEY TOOK OUR JOBS!" but in truth, a lot of those jobs most Americans wouldn't do anyway. Our society has been brought up with a strong sense of entitlement. We "deserve" $40,000 a year or more. We "deserve" employer-paid health care. We "deserve" paid vacation. The lower class jobs that most illegals work are pure grunt work that many Americans stick their nose up at, regardless of the economic climate.

.Anna

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Guest Kaitlyn88

lol if I was trying to sneak into the country I would be happy about the way. There will be less patrols and you could bring a ladder, rope, break through or even dig under it and have a better chance of making it now.

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Guest Kaitlyn88
I hear that argument all the time and I have to disagree. Americans moan about "THEY TOOK OUR JOBS!" but in truth, a lot of those jobs most Americans wouldn't do anyway. Our society has been brought up with a strong sense of entitlement. We "deserve" $40,000 a year or more. We "deserve" employer-paid health care. We "deserve" paid vacation. The lower class jobs that most illegals work are pure grunt work that many Americans stick their nose up at, regardless of the economic climate.

.Anna

I wish I could find a low class job. Other than my sister who married a millionaire everyone I know makes between 7,500 and 20,000 a year. The most I've ever made was 16,000 something and I thought that was a lot of money compared to usually making around 8,000 a year and having to pay all my bills. I never could have imagined that people would think they need that much money a year and would turn down jobs unless they were like Bill Gates.

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Guest sarah f

Anna, this is a sore subject with me because I know my dad has been looking for about a year now and still can't find a job. He doesn't care about how much he makes because anything would be better than the 3500 he made all of last year. He is a contract labor guy so yes this does affect him. Sorry but I can't help to feel resentment to those that are taking jobs away from somebody like my dad. Like I said in the previous post, if they want to work legally and become a US citizen than I am all for it.

Sarah F

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Guest April63

Most grown Americans don't want these lower class jobs, and in reality, they don't pay enough to truly support a family. But if you're young, many of these jobs are doable.

It's a threat to everyone's safety to have undocumented people running around. Something needs to be done to keep people out. Stealing jobs is just one thing. The fact that they can get free services and cheat the system is another. It's a huge hole that needs to be patched.

It amazes me how much people mess things up. Imagine if everyone just did the right thing... wow...

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Guest Kaitlyn88

Well, on a plus note, this isnt the stupidest fence idea ever.... look at the Great Wall of China. That and this are very similar, ours is just, well, less expensive.

You see, as low to the ground as the fence is people will just climb over it. As short as its length is others will just walk around it.

And with less patrols due to this fence suddenly being there... its going to mean MORE people successfully immigrating.

China had a similar problem with the Mongols going around their big wall.

The Great Wall of China wasn't built to keep people out. It was built as a warning system, thats why it has look out points. It's 2 goals were that and to slow down the invading troops long enough to gather an army in defense. That's why it was constantly getting torn down and built back up. They didn't mind that they had to keep rebuilding it because the point was to slow them down.

As far as jobs go it's not just younger people with low paying jobs. I know many adults, some that are even college graduates that still don't make half of that and many that have been looking desperately for a job, any job at all. I myself would be happy getting paid below minimum wage just to have a job and I have graduated high school, technical school and have a good military record.

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Guest Anna_Banana
The Great Wall of China wasn't built to keep people out. It was built as a warning system, thats why it has look out points. It's 2 goals were that and to slow down the invading troops long enough to gather an army in defense. That's why it was constantly getting torn down and built back up. They didn't mind that they had to keep rebuilding it because the point was to slow them down.

As far as jobs go it's not just younger people with low paying jobs. I know many adults, some that are even college graduates that still don't make half of that and many that have been looking desperately for a job, any job at all. I myself would be happy getting paid below minimum wage just to have a job and I have graduated high school, technical school and have a good military record.

Well if you'd be happy working below minimum wage, I have good news for you! Fast food. Yep, and if your local restaurants aren't hiring, I guarantee you mine are. There really are plenty of low-low-class jobs if you don't mind making pennies. But, again, most Americans will not degrade themselves for it. However, if you are up for it, they are out there. I once met a homeless person who said they'd do anything to have a job. I gave him twenty dollars and I told him that I could get him a job as long as he didn't mind fast food. I told him exactly where to go and who to talk to. My friend (who was with me that day) spoke with the manager of the restaurant (because she worked under the manager) and the manager agreed to give the job to any homeless person willing to work. That guy never showed up to inquire.

Now I can't judge him because I don't know the reason for him not showing up, but I can speculate. I've met quite a few low income or no income individuals in my short time, and all of them refuse to degrade themselves to working in lower class jobs. They feel a sense of entitlement.

.Anna

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Most people feel that they are defined by their jobs - and for these people honest hard labor is demeaning but if you do your job well you can take pride in anything and pennies are better than nothing.

But I am one who has been underemployed for my entire life because I cannot bring myself to cheat anyone and when you lay off 7500 workers just before Christmas and divide $80,000,000 in bonuses among the Executives - You are stealing!

(General Motors back in the 70s)

But we are taught to admire these parasites and disdain the workers - no values at all just worship money and live a soulless life centered around your possessions - not for me - I m a hard worker but I am no better than anyone else so I cannot be a big boss.

All in how you look at it.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest praisedbeherhooves

This is a massive waste. Illegal immigrants are generally helping us. We should be encouraging immigrants to come here, not demonizing them. According to the Cato Institute, and various economists, immigrants create much more jobs than they take. So the whole "I lost my job to a Mexican" thing is not true. Some individuals do lose their jobs but more people gain jobs as a result. Their economic contributions greatly outweigh their costs because they do not get welfare or social security for obvious reasons. Do not believe what the pundits tell you. We need more immigrants. Still, illegal immigration does open up the concern that a terrorist organization could enter through the border. I think we should have nearly open borders where we allow nearly everyone in except people with known ties to dangerous groups. If you look at the studies, it would be better for the economy.

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Guest April63
This is a massive waste. Illegal immigrants are generally helping us. We should be encouraging immigrants to come here, not demonizing them. According to the Cato Institute, and various economists, immigrants create much more jobs than they take. So the whole "I lost my job to a Mexican" thing is not true. Some individuals do lose their jobs but more people gain jobs as a result. Their economic contributions greatly outweigh their costs because they do not get welfare or social security for obvious reasons. Do not believe what the pundits tell you. We need more immigrants. Still, illegal immigration does open up the concern that a terrorist organization could enter through the border. I think we should have nearly open borders where we allow nearly everyone in except people with known ties to dangerous groups. If you look at the studies, it would be better for the economy.

Yes, we want immigration, but it needs to be regulated. People need to have documentation. It's not safe to let people just wander in and out, and have no idea who is in. The government needs to keep records. And how are you supposed to stop people with dangerous ties if you're not watching the border anyway?

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Guest praisedbeherhooves
Yes, we want immigration, but it needs to be regulated. People need to have documentation. It's not safe to let people just wander in and out, and have no idea who is in. The government needs to keep records. And how are you supposed to stop people with dangerous ties if you're not watching the border anyway?

We do need to watch the border, but we would need a lot less people and would not need to build a wall if we let more people in. We should not be restricting the number of immigrants. We merely should be restricting the type of immigrants, and the only type we should restrict would be terrorists or criminals. Of course, we need to have a better standard of what we call terrorism. Currently Food Not Bombs is considered a terrorist group. *rolls eyes* Because cooking food for people is a form of terrorism.

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Guest praisedbeherhooves
Most grown Americans don't want these lower class jobs, and in reality, they don't pay enough to truly support a family. But if you're young, many of these jobs are doable.

It's a threat to everyone's safety to have undocumented people running around. Something needs to be done to keep people out. Stealing jobs is just one thing. The fact that they can get free services and cheat the system is another. It's a huge hole that needs to be patched.

It amazes me how much people mess things up. Imagine if everyone just did the right thing... wow...

Actually they don't get very much free services. Basically, they get emergency medical care and if they abuse their child the kid is taken away. That is it. However, the money they bring in through their work actually adds more tax money. Not only that but, surprising as it may seem, many of them do pay taxes with a program by the IRS which gives them an identification number that is not a social security number but they can still use it to file taxes. Most of them are not these big scary demons coming to take away our jobs. These are mostly hardworking people who are here in order to find a better life for themselves and their families. Here is the amazing thing about this: they will not get a social security check nor a refund and they are breaking the law already so they won't be risking much by not filing taxes, but they are filing them anyway. They are filing them because they genuinely want to contribute to American society. We need more people like that in the United States.

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Guest Alexander James
Yes, we want immigration, but it needs to be regulated. People need to have documentation. It's not safe to let people just wander in and out, and have no idea who is in. The government needs to keep records. And how are you supposed to stop people with dangerous ties if you're not watching the border anyway?

I have a little problem with that.... There are dangerous people within American, AMERICAN BORN DANGEROUS PEOPLE, that we don't even know are around. Serial killers that are unfaced, runaway murders, and whatnot evils of the unknown *insert spooky sounds*. With these people coming in it's not gonna effect us that much with the massive problems we have.

yeah.... I'm bad at politics.... Don't mind me.... D:

I don't really care if they come in, as long as they know English. careers I see them having aren't like the ones I wish I would be. I had a nanny, which I'm 99.9% sure was illegal, and she was okay at her job.... just.... she really needs to learn English...

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Guest Anna_Banana

I've come to the realization that the problem isn't illegal immigration. It's immigration period. And I'm not saying that I have a problem with it, no not at all. It's not a difficult process to naturalize these people and make them legal. But even if they were legal immigrants, all the people complaining about the jobs being "taken" would still have reason to complain. The only issue then is that it wouldn't be politically correct to complain about legal citizens "stealing" all the jobs. So really, this is a moot issue. The fact of the matter is, if you are opposed to illegals for reasons such as less jobs being available, you are simply opposed to immigration on the whole.

"But Anna, they also use our hospitals! It's not fair!" Yeah, and because they have no health insurance and little income, they get the same treatment that homeless people get: very little to none. Besides, when I go to the hospital (and I'm a frequent visitor so I know it well), illegal immigrants are not the ones making my wait time go through the roof. Every single person in line ahead of me is white. Not black, not Asian, not Pacific Islander, not Native American, not Middle Eastern. Should I somehow stop them from using the medical system now because they are making MY wait time longer? And the funny thing is, I live in an area with a large Hispanic population. I rarely see them in the hospital. In fact, when I do see them in the hospital, its because one of them is experiencing something major. I remember the one time I saw a Hispanic couple with their child at the hospital because the baby was having a 102 degree F fever. Why were all the white people at the hospital? Runny nose and the sniffles. Can't go to work cause of that! Sign me a slip, Doc.

.Anna

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Guest praisedbeherhooves

Anna, if you don't stop being so smart I'll fall in love with you. Just kidding, but you definitely hit the nail on the head. Not to mention that "illegals" is often a codeword for Latinos when used by some conservative commentators. It's often the same way sometimes "welfare queens" is often a codeword for lower class black women. Most people on welfare are white, but we all know what comes to mind when a demagogue is ranting. This is a classic propaganda technique known as dog whistle politics. It is when the commentator, normally a demagogue of some sort or a propagandist, uses a term that means something for most people but something entirely different for the people they actually want to sway. It works pretty well, especially with the addition of proof by assertion. It's when people repeat the same belief over and over again until it is accepted as fact. As far as I know, most people opposed to immigration that are not racist, but much of their opinion is being dictated by people who are. Many of the beliefs people have about illegal immigrants come simply from having heard those beliefs repeated a great deal. Things such as "immigrants take up all our social services" and "immigrants use up all our jobs" are good examples of that.

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Guest Melanieshaman
I hear that argument all the time and I have to disagree. Americans moan about "THEY TOOK OUR JOBS!" but in truth, a lot of those jobs most Americans wouldn't do anyway. Our society has been brought up with a strong sense of entitlement. We "deserve" $40,000 a year or more. We "deserve" employer-paid health care. We "deserve" paid vacation. The lower class jobs that most illegals work are pure grunt work that many Americans stick their nose up at, regardless of the economic climate.

.Anna

As long as i have been unemployed i am not above ANY work. Sadly i can't work for most of the lawn care companies here, because i don't speak spanish.

Mel

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Guest praisedbeherhooves
Not to sound like I don't care for illegals but just think how many jobs american citizens would possibly have if there weren't so many illegals here already. I don't like the idea of the fence but something had to be done. I don't have a problem for anyone that comes over here legally and pay taxes just like the rest of us do. My problem is that most illegals have all the benifits of the hospitals and if they get into a wreck guess who pays for the damage, not them because they don't have insurance. I would be ok if they just would give them a one month period to turn themselves in and become citizens of the United States. After that anyone caught here illegally should be deported back to their country right away. It really makes no sense to me that if an illegal gets into a traffic accident, the cop on scene can't do anything about it. They should have the right to take their vehical and take them to a detention center where they would be transferred to a border patrol facility.

Sorry for the rant but I believe illegals are taking the jobs of many americans that would do just about anything right now so they can support their family.

Love,

Sarah F

You know how many they would have? A lot less. Immigrants bring more jobs than they take. They do not have all the benefits of hospitals. Basically they just go there if there is an emergency but they cannot get preventative care. If an illegal immigrant gets into a traffic accident, they get serious stuff. They will get arrested and probably deported. If you have no problem with legal immigrants, why do you have a problem with illegal ones? They take jobs all the same.

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Guest April63
You know how many they would have? A lot less. Immigrants bring more jobs than they take. They do not have all the benefits of hospitals. Basically they just go there if there is an emergency but they cannot get preventative care. If an illegal immigrant gets into a traffic accident, they get serious stuff. They will get arrested and probably deported. If you have no problem with legal immigrants, why do you have a problem with illegal ones? They take jobs all the same.

Because they're here illegally. They have broken the law and they are not documented.

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      At least you tried!  Something equivalent or better may come up, and the waiting could be worth it.  Just keep trying and you'll eventually get what you need and want.      For me, having somebody to love was the most important.  Everything else follows after that.  I waited a long time to find somebody...and she ended up leading me to more than I ever thought possible.    Actually, I'm feeling pretty good right now.  I have something work-like outside of my home responsibilities to do for the first time in about 18 months.  Nobody seems to mind the real me.  And this evening, my husband said something that just really made me feel special.  He was rubbing my back, shoulders, and chest while we talked, helping me relax.  He told me that he thought I was really cute in my girl form, but that he thinks my boy form might even be cuter.  And that he's proud of his "smart little Pocket Fox."    For me, the combination of those sweet words and the physical affection was exactly what I needed. 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Hi!   That was probably hard to write and then read and say, did I really write that?  Been there.   I'm glad you call it a journey.  It is.  One step at a time, and sometimes two steps forward, one back.    Abby
    • April Marie
      Welcome to the forums, Violet! We glad you found us! No one here will judge you. Each of us is unique yet we all share some similarities. And many of us are in the relative early stages of self-discovery.   Take time to wander the sections of the forums. You’ll find lots of information and ideas.   Ask questions if you feel comfortable. You will find lots of people willing to share their experiences.   Is it possible for you to possibly work with a gender therapist? Many of us have found that to be extremely helpful in finding our identity and out true selves.   Just jump in. We don’t bite! We’ve all been in some version of where you are.
    • April Marie
      Literally. 
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Shameless plug for my "Taylor" story down in Stories You Write.  I am not Taylor and the experiences she goes through are not what has happened to me, but there is an emotional expression that I think is the best way to say some things that I don't know how to say otherwise.  I am not Bob, either.  But you might find out some things about me by reading it.  And I hope it is a good read and you enjoy it.  I am not done with it.  If you would like to comment on it, I would appreciate it.
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Tuesday night.  They had a quick supper together at a fast food place.  Bob went off to teach karate and Taylor locked herself inside her apartment and worked on her hiring plan.   First the web site problem.  The two guys who ran it were self-taught and knew little.  It currently had three pages, the Home page, the About page and the Contact page,  She asked them to work with Karen in terms of redesigning it and she needed three designs to show Gibbs tomorrow.  The problem was three fold: the two guys and Karen.  Millville was a small town and all three were relatives of members of the Board.  Millville, Millvale. She was doing it.  People here called it either way, sometimes in the space of a few seconds.  She thought it was Millville.  All three had complained about the work, because the two boys regarded it as done and untouchable, even though they actually had not worked on it at all for months.  Like a number of people, they showed up and collected generous pay checks and did nothing.  She had looked at a number of websites and she had been told the company wanted one both internal and external customers could log into.  Her chief difficulty at the moment there was that there was very little content.  She decided to send the three complainers out tomorrow to take numerous pictures of the thirty acres  Or was it forty?  No one seemed to care. She cared, because she needed to get it right.  She debated outsourcing the website to a company, but first she needed something to outsource, and before then she needed to decide whether to keep these people.  She didn't need to mess with them.  So she decided to recommend they hire an experienced website developer with management skills. Would such a person come to Millville?  The schools were good, because the company had poured money into them, and the streets were well paved.  The company had bought all the abandoned houses and maintained them, hoping someday they would be filled again. Millville was crime-free.  People did not lock their doors. Neighborly. Very conservative, but in a good way.  Hard working, ethical, honest. Maybe the Chinese money was corrupting the town?  Not sure.  So she thought they would hire someone, even if it were a remote position.  She would rather have them here, but she would take what she would get.  That would move the website out of her hair. Secondly, she needed an effective presenter.  She could not do all these presentations herself.  She had natural talent but a lot could be passed on. She needed another Mary and another Brenda, or their understudies, effective hardworking people.   Bob. Was he okay with this?  He said she was Management.  Was that a problem?  And she was now earning a ridiculous salary, which she put down to company dysfunction more than anything she had done.  Was that a problem? She was not sure.  He was highly competitive and he had that male ego.  She did not.  A feeling of guilt rose.   Her therapist had brought up her feelings of guilt about not making Dad's expectations, never being the man Dad wanted her to be.  She never could, and this physical evidence backed that up.  What would the doctor say?  She thought about it, and that her therapist said she needed to find a sexual assault survivor's group more than a transgender group right now. Was there one here?  She thought about serving in a women's shelter.  There was one here, oddly enough connected to the church they had visited.  That F on her drivers' license would help.  She was waiting until after she talked to the doctor again to move on that stuff.   Was Bob really buying 160 acres near the old air strip on speculation?  Much of the land around Millville had been for sale for a long time.  That land was being offered at a dollar an acre, the owners having inherited it and now living out of state. Common knowledge.  They would take the first offer, and it had been for sale since the airstrip closed twenty years ago. Airstrip.  That would help.  Not tonight. Focus, girl, she told herself, and read over her notes to do so, which were making less sense the further down she went. It was eleven, and she gave up and went to bed.
    • violet r
      .my name is violet. I'm new here and thus is my first try at forums. I'm 45 and just recently having came to terms of who I really am. Thought a lot of self discovery since I stopped drinking. Drinking was my coping mechanism to hide a lot of thing. There were plenty of signs though the years. As I look back. That i hid inside. Now really sure what made all of this bubble to the surface at this time in my life.  Mabye it was waiting for me to be open minded and ready to accept that I am trans. I have a very unhealthy environment at home that is anti trans. I really don't know what else to say but hi. I hope everyone here will be accepting of me and me work through my journey of finding the real me. I know that since I accepted it I have been much happier than I can remember. Being to real me makes me happy. I hate having to hide this all the the time at home. I work retail management and have no idea if I could even stay in this business if I am to fully come out. Wow that was scary saying all that. It's a first for me
    • Ivy
      It is a lifesaver for a lot of us.
    • Abigail Genevieve
      Thanks.  What I do as a man is what a woman would do if she were a man.  There is just something feminine about the way I act as a man.  It's not that being a woman is actually better, or something to aspire to, but it is just that I am one, while not being one.   If beating my head bloody to get rid off this stupid dysphoria would fix it I would find the nearest wall, but I know that if I did that, when I woke up, it would still be there.   If I did not have this struggle I would be someone else and I would be less of a person than I am.  They say an oak tree growing in an open field is far stronger than one in a forest.  The storms come and go and I stand.   This forum is the first time I have interacted with other people struggling with the same struggle and parallel struggles. It helps.
    • Ashley0616
      I'm sorry! :( Hopefully something better will come up
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