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I have put an ad out on TS Match, and have gotten a few people that are looking. They just happen to be older men, I tell them I am looking for someone that is more of my age. Untell someone emailed me through the site.

He sounds like a good guy, but he seems to repeat him self, I just emailed him with my email address so we can talk directly when he gets back to me, it also sounds like he wants to talk directly on IM on MSN.

But any way he has mention a few times that he is in school, and also works 8 hours a day, Still lives with his parents, and not in it for the sex, He lives in Mexico, and maybe start a relationship and see where things go from there.

I know that caution may be required, for a few reasons, but I would like to see where this goes.

Anyone else have any ordeals of long distance dating.

:blush:

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I have put an ad out on TS Match, and have gotten a few people that are looking. They just happen to be older men, I tell them I am looking for someone that is more of my age. Untell someone emailed me through the site.

He sounds like a good guy, but he seems to repeat him self, I just emailed him with my email address so we can talk directly when he gets back to me, it also sounds like he wants to talk directly on IM on MSN.

But any way he has mention a few times that he is in school, and also works 8 hours a day, Still lives with his parents, and not in it for the sex, He lives in Mexico, and maybe start a relationship and see where things go from there.

I know that caution may be required, for a few reasons, but I would like to see where this goes.

Anyone else have any ordeals of long distance dating.

:blush:

Hello Amanda,

What you do on other sites is of course your business but here at Laura's Playground we strongly advise our users not to engage in the practise of online dating. This is a very dangerous and oft times deadly thing to be doing. You say he sounds like a good guy. I'm sure he does. Ted Bundy and Jeffery Dahmar sounded like good guys too. I would urge you to end this now before it goes any farther. People who contact you via the internet are almost never who they seem to be. He could possibly be a good guy but I wouldn't bet the farm on it. Remember this. Predators sound like the nicest, sweetest, most innocent person you could ever hope to meet but you wouldn't know any different until the last moment. By then, it would be too late. Don't become a statistic.

MaryEllen

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Guest shimmeringkristal

Amanda,

I have to agree with MaryEllen on this. Not that it is really any of my business how you live your life. I would just be upset with myself for the rest of my life if I didn't at least warn you as well. Please be very very carefull. Without close contact with the other person on mutual grounds and around lots of people information about the other person may be a total fabrication. Anyone can be anything on the net or even the phone.

I know that this is probly not something that you want to hear. Just know that we care about you. I want nothing more then to know that you are happy and safe.

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Guest Snow Angel

I'd be a bit more favoring if he lived in the States... but Mexico? It would be a very difficult relationship to pursue, green card issues aside. I'd say try to look for someone a little closer to home.

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Guest o0tg0o

I would have to agree with them.

Besides, the best kind of dates are made by ur friends introducing u to another friend...just gotta be patient :]

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