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I Got A New Part Time Job.


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I have a new part time job outside of my full time job. It was a good day on my first day, There was no HE, SIR, MAN. It was all HER, MIS, MA-AM. I thought that it was only going to be a part time job. Untell I park the truck, and we were standing around shooting the brease when The Big Boss came out, "Gosh darned you know what you are doing, dont you." When I got done with the last load for the day, he happend to drive by, stoped and said, "I would like to have you on full time starting this Monday. I have tons of work." but if I go to work for him on Monday I will have to make up a reason that I can not go back to work for my other job. At least for a few days. It is a fresh start as me and not some one that was in my past.

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Guest Sheila

hi amanda_henderson,

i can only dream of being in your situation nothing matters more to me than to be accepted as a woman. i hope everything works out for you. :)

sheila

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Guest shimmeringkristal

I have to agree with Shiela. This would be a dream come true for me. I am soo happy for you. I truely hope that everything works out for you.

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Guest Amanda_Henderson

Well I am just under a full week and The boss is really liking me. I wound up running a little late because the boss wanted me to pick up a flat bed Trailor. Strap the load down, I have relized that since I have been on HRT, I have gotten weaker, I had a little bit of a hard time with winching the straps down.

The other thing is, I told my other company that I was going out of town for about a week for a family member passing on. A LIE I know but I want to make sure that this is going to work out. So far it is, But any way, Word of the mouth must have gotten back to my boss, because I got a call today that he was over that my new job, my old boss was looking at my car, trying to firgure out why it is parked over there :angry: . My new boss covered for me and said that I was not working there I, that I am up at a funeral somewhere and I just parked the car there, or let someone use it while I was gone. Come Friday this week I will call them with a good reason, and also tell him that I can not work for him anymore.

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Guest raydub

its cool your new boss covered for you. he must really be a cool guy.

i hope the new gig works out for you..it sounds like it already is!

congratulations!

Ray

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