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By LusciousTheLock · Posted
Yep, the news gets you like that. I try not to read anything regarding LGBT+ anymore, as its always negative. -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
This is a great thread. My self doubt came from the fact that I had tried so hard to be a cis male. What a great bloke I was. Bought my first house at 24, married at 25, four children. Worked hard, played hard. Petrol-head and sex addict. We even made adult movies in my 20's! It was all lies, and I was hiding from the truth. The self doubt was always am I mad? What happens when someone finds out? later it became am I too old to do something about it? I can pretty much mirror Jackie C's timeline. Thank god World of Warcraft had bald female orcs! -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
I've also worked crazy hard my whole adult life. A few years back, when I came out to my wife, things were tough and thinking that was the end of our relationship, my wife went back to work after 15yrs (We've got four children). Now things have settled down between us, we've got twice the income coming in and money is not a problem. Last night I had a callout at 2am for four hours and I sat there in my lorry and questioned. What's the point? I don't need to do this anymore. I don't need to work my ass off for little reward in a job I hate, working silly hours, phone ringing 24/7, thinking all week about what's happening next week and preparing or worrying about that. I'm considering giving it all up and doing something I would enjoy. Maybe a Postman / Woman? I love walking Then have more time for myself, not bringing stress home and yes, cracking on with projects. -
By RhondaS · Posted
Got a little depressed last night...long couple days of work, which means these days alone in a room with an occasional phone talk or email about the work, then get on the internet to see what the news is and some Republican was trying to attach a ban of trans people from sports law to the COVID relief package. Just decades of denial followed by now months of waiting for more progress to get to a point where people will hate me for what I am the more I present as what I need to be. ugh -
By RhondaS · Posted
I was worried when I was getting the medical part of the transition started that it was weird that I wasn't having that many doubts, especially compared to the amount of anguish I put myself through to get to that point. Have found that my results so far have matched Elizabeth's...I feel more connected to the people I've come out to...don't have much interaction with the rest of the world under current conditions. -
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By Sarahnr1 · Posted
We can all have bad days as youre friend seemed to had said day so i wouldent take that to hard youre friend was probaly just blowing of steem. As for fixing youre nails after dose 2 just make shore you do use cation still (the vacinne does NOT give you 100 % protection same as protecting others 100 % ) Even after the vaccination is done im afraid until the majority of the entire population is vaccinated (minimum 70 + % ) So the night club idea im afraid i have to agree with them its NOT a good idea (and most definetly alredy in June ) But just because they reacted dont mean there mad or pissed on you dear im not. This situation will NOT be forever so killing youre self just for this is just stupid dear. Yes im afraid it will be for a long while yet and we will have to learn to live with this & certain restrictions etc... As this will not just go away its here to stay BUT this said it dont mean full lock downs 24 /7 and we WILL get back much of our life in time and gradually. The vaccine is NOT a magick potion thet makes everything go back to normal its a valuble tool to in continuing to learn to adapt and live our lifes as Post corona. Im well aware that cali have been hit hard (i both have family as well as friend s over there ) but you cant give up on life Katie . shore it wont be the same as pre corona but it will be WAY better then it is now it just need time . And yet you have managed to get all of us Katie . Again its good that they are super cautious as this is FAR from over my friend & as i said even after the vacinne we still need to continue using caution for long time yet im afraid As long as you use cation and they are too And minimum 2 weeks AFTER the 2 shot it shouldent be a problem Katie. Thats sadly what can happen with roommates I would be the same if i had been abused like that Katie and it breaks my heart you seemed to have been. It all depends on how you are as a person for me with my diagnosis id say 98 % of my social life is online 1 % phone & 1 % in reel life if that. So for me its okey . BUT for others i can most definetly agree its not easy and its not the same with online as reel life -
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By Willow Farmer · Posted
I feel so privileged to read all the emotions in this thread. I have my, signed by the judge, name and gender marker documents sitting on my table. I just need to use this instrument to change everything to Willow McKenzie ******. I have been looking at them for a couple weeks. I was tense and a bit scared before I went through the Court. It was all done on line, (covid). So painless. They only mailed one original document. I had to go to the Courthouse to get more legal copy's. The lady behind the window took my money and then handed me the documents. She smiled and said genuinely, "congratulations Willow". I felt so good inside I smiled and teared up as I walked down the hall with my head held high. I have waited two weeks out of respect for my other half. It really isn't that they passed or I killed them with this legal action, just that I am allowing my female side to thrive. They can ride along in the back seat and I will protect them just as they did me. Thank you Holly and the rest of you for sharing. It is helping me finish this. Next step, DMV. Willow Mckenzie -
By Transgirlkatie · Posted
Huh, I don't feel like I'll ever be able to make new friends. I didnt get to know enough people before covid and many of my friends are super cautious and even after they get vaccinated they still don't want too see me without distancing. And on of them doesn't even think I should go to a nail salon after getting my 2nd dose. And I also dont have good roommates, I tried to stay with a friend, but then she suddenly changed and kicked me out. And my mom isn't very supportive of me, she doesn't call me Katie and wrote off my concerns of not trusting mental health professionals over being abused at a mental hospital, and she thinks online friendships are just as good as in person friendships. -
By Mia Marie · Posted
For me making friends is never easy. It never has been throughout my 51 yrs on this life. Before i realized my true self, I tried to talk to people only to be ignored and sometimes blocked for no reason other than being asses. -
By ElizabethStar · Posted
I started the same way. Ok, I was 45 but still a lot of self doubt. I quickly realized I liked the direction it was going. I feel a lot more connected to the world and myself these days. -
By ElizabethStar · Posted
I pretty much wear whatever I want to work these days. It's "Flannel Friday" (something we made up at work). Black Cami, green flannel, blue flare jeans and the way the sun hit my hair just right. It was a feel good day. -
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By ElizabethStar · Posted
I do a little bit of electrical work but mostly low voltage stuff, phone wiring and alarm systems. I wear a skirt and carry a tool bag.
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