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By Carolyn Marie · Posted
Excellent article, Vicky. Thanks! Carolyn -
By Jandi · Posted
My ex and I had split before I faced my own transness. She was the first one I talked about it with. She wasn't much surprised. We never got back together, but are still friends. -
By Shay · Posted
Always liked this Dave Clark Five song and like it even better hearing Tom Petty doing it.............. -
By miz miranda · Posted
@Shay As a congenital nonconformist, I love the rebellion! I also think a monkees shirt and a leather skirt with heels matching the shirt would make a great outfit. A second odd pairing of bands . This also occurred in 1967 when the Doors opened for Simon and Garfunkel. Doors opened with and one of my favorite songs -
By Jandi · Posted
I like sports bras because the cup size isn't much of an issue. It's fine under a sweater or some cool weather clothes, but I'll switch off to something else with a lighter top - or lower neckline. -
By Confused1 · Posted
Correction, GCS in about two months, not one. Mike -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
I can echo all the above, and you may have read how I did it- Strangest ways of coming out... Not totally recommended if your relationship isn't as "Creative" as mine. The worst one I had to do was actually my boss. Everyone in the office knew about me and so I went to talk with my boss who is bit of a dinosaur. Nice fella, but opinionated. I told him about my depression and how it was started by low testosterone and some realisation about myself, when he interrupted me... "Well, we all get problems as we get older. the ones I don't get are those F*king Perves. Forty, married, Couple of kids. Suddenly decide they want to be a F*king woman! What's that all about?". I told him I would speak with him later and crept out of his office about 3" high. It took me six months to try again, and after several "Are you sure about this" and with 10 other members of staff looking on through the window, he eventually looked back at me and gave me a hug. He admitted he was a dinosaur, but said he wasn't afraid to evolve with my help. Actually, he's never failed to call me Tamsyn or call me She / her. in the six months since. I think the answer is- give her a chance. You need to be you. If it fails, it fails. Nothing can change that. -
By Tasha Marie · Posted
It is exciting and very scary too. I just wish I would have been true to myself so many years ago. I knew who I was. Just scared to live. I had no support system then. I had many gay friends but that’s the point they were gay and I’m trans. I do hate these titles so much. I am a women inside so even though we were very close and they didn’t get me, I was an outsider in the gay community funny how that works isn’t it at least my experience we are all in little groups segregated why can’t we all just be who we are. So. I’m slowly taking the mask down letting my true self hopefully shine through this is going to be a very long long process but it is a process that needs to happen. I thank all of you who listen. -
By SheenaT · Posted
Wise words. I know she has trust issues as evidenced by her behavior towards me i.e. wanting to know where I am and what I'm doing constantly. If I'm not with someone she knows she wants to know why etc. It has made me quite angry at times. I can't seem to go anywhere or do anything unless it's in secret unless she approves. -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
I received my first mail as Tamsyn today. It was a registered post / parcel. He asked if Tamsyn could sign, and so I did. It was my new glasses. I never bought female glasses before as I felt too ashamed as James to do so, but now I feel even more complete and comfortable -
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By Bri2020 · Posted
While I agree you MAY have a rough road ahead, it may not be as tough as you think. You are worried about hurting your wife, I get that. I felt the same way. However, my wife was hurting just watching me withdraw and suffer in silence. She didn't know why I was being that way but felt the relationship was about to crumble. When I finally came out to her she said it was a relief because being with a transgender woman was far better than a relationship without communication and trust which is where she thought we were heading. I was blown away. So here's the thing, hold back and not tell her and risk the relationship becoming toxic from deception or tell her and risk the relationship breaking apart because she didn't sign up to be a transgendered person's wife. There is a risk either way. Or- it may turn out to be good or at least something that can be work through with therapy. The risk factor always comes down to "how good of a relationship is it now". Good luck, I know it's torturous at this point in your decision process. and as Jackie said, have a life backup plan for support/housing etc in case it does goes south. I had already scoped out cheap housing and looked at my budget to see if I could survive without financial help and knew I could do it albeit with a lot of scaling back. -
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