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How often do you dress?


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Guest Claire-G

Heels inside and outside the house very often together with tights.

Skirts only started that a month ago and till so far mostly in the house and 2 evenings walks (yeeh)

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Guest trendiebrenda

I dress in female clothes 24/7, but wife won't allow skirts, dresses, etc. It's OK though, most women don't wear skirts or dresses either. At least I can wear a bra and panties all the time and a nylon nightie to bed. I'll take what i can... wife gave me a really nice pair of pink bikini panties for Christmas. :doh1:

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Guest joan eden

I dress in degrees. I think of as one thru ten. I sometimes drive or walk around the house, when no else is home, wearing a skirt and girl shoes.Maybe lipstick and brow liner.I didn't dress for about six weeks after the first of the year, just to see if I really wanted it.I do.I like to full ten once a week if possible.Ten is full make-up nail polish the works. I get the most excelerating feeling when dressed.I sometimes think my soul has transformed.Like maybe I am a male isotope. Male but, with an added female trait.I fuse like hydrogen into heliem, or something. It's addictive.Better than any drug I ever tried. And when I was younger I tried more than a few.Sorry to go on and on but, I've not had contact with others like me for a long time.I love Laura's. Thank you Laura.

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I usually dress up every Saturday night. That is "full dress" with my makeup, wigs, sexy dresses and high heels. On occasion I'll dress up during the week but usually that's only the clothes. It used to be not frequently at all, but I just keep enjoying it more and more. I even got up the courage to walk outside my apt for a bit. I think I might try that again, but not until next Saturday night:)

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Guest saffron

I dress every day. usually its just skinny jeans a top and heels but weekends it has to be one of my 50's style rockabilly dresses and thigh high stiletto boots.

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I try for everyday. But sometimes doing make up is alot. Or Im around people I havent come out to.

But every day I wear panties shave my body hair and paint my toe nails, and wear a touch of blush or pink eye shadow, plus lip gloss.

I love lip gloss...

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I think about dressing up every day but only get to enjoy it 2/3 times a week. Sometimes that can help feel even more special :)

Welcomen!

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I think about dressing up every day but only get to enjoy it 2/3 times a week. Sometimes that can help feel even more special :)

Welcomen!
Thanks :) great to join all of you - meet more people like me. Feels amazing xxx
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Guest ToughGuy

Hello Linda kay, I do have times where I go weeks without dressing, being the "Closet Queen" that I am that shouldn't be a surprise. Although I work from home, and my SO works 4-5 days a week, and there is ample time for me to be me!

It's not that the thoughts of CDing aren't there nearly all the time, but I have found that resisting the temptations, makes the times that I do dress all that much more enjoyable.

TG

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Guest AshleighP

I do it on 2 occasions, when I want to and when I have the opportunity. The 2 don't always coincide. I most always want to, less frequently does the opportunity arise. Sometimes I slip on a skirt and heels when my wife leaves for work and then change into my work clothes less than an hour later. The older I get, the more comfortable I am not having to get completely dressed to satisfy the urge. Sometimes underdressing at work is enough. Lots of variables in this question. I guess that's what makes it an interesting topic.

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Guest ToughGuy

Being the "Closet Queen" that I am, along with a busy work load, and the honey do list keeps growing, I would say I get to dress on average maybe 4 nights per month (on a good month).

The opportunities are there to dress more often, but I can't see dressing for 2 hours and being satisfied. I will stay up 'till the sun rises, if possible, and have done so many times.

The next day is always rough, I end up felling guilty for what I did the night before.

So if I can't spend at least half the day dressed, I'll pass, and wait for another chance.

TG

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Guest Jamie_cd

I've got a somewhat androgynous style more days than not so I technically dress most of the time. But two mornings a week I do get all done up since the house is empty. That's the fix I really need because I get much more into my feminine side those days. Lots of times I think to myself it would be nice to dress and act feminine everyday but the reality is that's not possible. At least if I want my marriage to work and avoid any issues I may have with people at work. So for now I'm content and enjoy my time as "me".

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Guest angelaiwish

I dress as much as I can, my wife doesn't really like it much so I don't dress around her . we are in two different states right now because we're moving, when she's away I dress everyday . as soon as I get home from work the boy clothes fly off and the skirts come out. Its the only way I can make the inside me match the outside me

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It used to be the case that I dressed sporadically but mainly to model for my artwork.

Since then things have progressed:

These days my male and female wardrobes are integrated so I just wear what is Ok for what I a doing and where I am. It cannot really be a girly dress out locally as it would raise too many issues so would need to be out as female some distance from home where I would not be recognised as few people know I dress to that level. That does not happen often.

On the other hand, I currently wear a cami dress as nightdress every night as I have several of these bought cheap but too non-descript for other wear. I have found them very comfy as nightdresses.

I use makeup daily and women's jeans, jeggings and tops most other times when out except at work.

I do mix and match quite a lot as well. For instance - At this moment I am wearing women's panties rather than men's. There was no real intent either way. It was a spur of the moment decision and what came immediately to hand in the pantie drawer (those I wear are both similar in either case except that the women's are somewhat thinner). That along with a short sleeved flowery shirt (male) and men's trousers. I'm just lounging about the house.

Such are things that it is difficult for me to say how often! Probably not as often as I would like but often enough to become part of my daily dressing choice.

Tracy

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Guest tellulater1964

Hi Linda,,

well for me, where I am and what I do makes it very difficult to even underdress, but I do manage to do so at least once a week, buying any sort of femme attire here is impossible, so I have to smuggle any clothing I have here :(

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Guest marsha leanne

i dress about twice a week. my wife has a schedule that allows me 4-5 hours each of the 2 days. she calls when she leaves to come home so that all is 'right' when whe gets there. My wardrobe is put away out of site, but she knows its location. there has never been a problem with her raiding it or purging it.

my time is alone, i stay indoors, and am done befor she arrives. I have no desire to upset that routine.

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Guest robin0417

I wear panties under my clothes almost every day. I dress as often as possible in private. I like wearing my wife's pajamas to bed without her knowing.

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Guest Sandy74

I only dress at home but I dress up all the time so every single day lately. I just shaved my legs last night so I am sitting her in tights and a black swimsuit and it feels so nice

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Guest Janine cd

I wear femme undies daily, but I can only dress fully about once a month. My wife is not accepting of my desire to dress and so I am only able to fulfil my desire when she is away visiting relatives.

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Guest Codille

I wear panties almost every day. Sleep in lingerie on weekends. And when the kids are out of the house as often as possible. My wife is pretty cool about the whole thing.

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Each day I prepare breakfast for my wife dressed in bra, panties and something soft. I will change into a skirt or dress after breakfast and remain dressed unless I have to travel for work.

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