What Do Yall Think Is Wrong With Me

[Guest debo]

ok like im not even sure im transgender crossdresser or what i mean my friend gave me this site.so i figured id try it out but ok anyways i feel like i was born in the wrong body but then i start thinking y do i even think like this.u know.i like to were womens clothes and stuff but idk.then i feel gulity for dressen up but it just feels so right u know so idk.im just so counfused bout nuts anymore im only 15 i try not to think bout it alot but i just cant get it off my mind.so tell me what yall think and sry if stuff aint spelled right

[Guest Sofiadragon]

Honestly from what I can tell you already answered your question 'cause I was @ about the same age when I really came into who I was & I had the same feelings of guilt when I did it but then I came to realize that, that was how I was supposed to be.

[Sally]

The feelings of guilt have nothing to do with weither or not you are a cross dresser or transsexual, just the way society has programmed us. We vary from the 'norm' so it must be wrong, we must be horrible people - we feel guilty. The hardest part is breaking through that cycle of guilt - if you feel better in women's clothing then you owe it to yourself to explore the possibilities. You are still very young so I would advice caution about going public right away and as always I would advice you to go to a therapist who specializes in Gender Identity Disorders (lovely sound, isn't it?) who can help you to find your way along this path to your own level of comfort, any where from dressing in private all the way to SRS and actually becoming a woman - only you can be sure what is best for you.

Good luck, take a deep breath and enjoy the journey.

We are all here to support each other, ask a question and you will usually receive about a dozen very good opinions - there are no definite answers, you must pick the ones that speak to you.

Sally

[Guest CharliTo]

You looked at the right place.

back at your age, I also came to tooo....but unlike a picture perfect way of realizing things, I went back to hiding...because yes, I was embarrassed that I was so different.

Alas, I had no internet at all back in the days and didn't have support like I do now. If you aren't sure, don't worry. I was just like that. Take your time.

[Guest Nelly]

Hi,

the thing is that the society make rules and sometimes you do not fit into it. But, who cares? I mean what is wrong to wear the things you like? Someone like fishing other like football. Is it wrong to play football or fishing if ohter people does not do it? It is the same thing with crossdressing. Once you say to you it is not wrong you feel much better. Take it as a hobby like fishing and not as the biggest thing on earth. It take time to handle it this way but it helps.

Once I found out that I am not normal my live was better from that moment. But I do not stop doing the things I do.

So you are not normal, who cares! Nobody is normal. The average of all strange people is normal but everbyody is strange in one way.

Greetings

Nelly