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Hi there,

I live in southwestern Virginia and I'm discovering (not to my surprise) that there just don't seem to be any competent transfriendly electrologists anywhere nearby. Despite going on another forum and scouring the web for months, I've turned up nothing that isn't several hours away. The best that the local transgender group could suggest was a referral to a nearby laser provider - search results online turned up some unsavory comments about them.

I just want to see if anyone knows of electrologists in the area and can speak to their experience. Thanks so much for any feedback you may have.

Best wishes.

justkeepswimming.

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First of all welcome to Laura's. While i do not know an answer to your question i do hope you can find the support and information i found here.

You might want to post in the introduction forum to meet more people.

Hugs,

Charlize

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Were the "unsavory" comments made by Trans* customers, or by customers who realized the Laser Tech worked on Trans* folk?? If your Trans* support group made any mention of the person, they may think the person is OK. Even here in the more open fields of Los Angeles it works that way. I do not know how you are gauging local electrologists as "Trans* friendly" since very few will pass up a client with money in their pockets no matter what hair the client wants removed.

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