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By Princess-audra · Posted
Same here. Hope hear more from you. -
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By Shay · Posted
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By Susan R · Posted
@CBabe Please reconsider closing your account. You are potentially losing friends that you may have for life. Please read my PM before you make your final decision. Please! Susan R🌷 -
By Shay · Posted
A nice version - I've always loved playing "While My Guitar Gently Weeps" - the last 3 guitarists I played with all nailed the lead and it's great to jam on. -
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By VickySGV · Posted
One of us on the Admin staff will have to do that for you, the mods cannot, and even then one of the Admins will try to talk you out of just pulling up tent stakes and leaving. You have less than 100 posts here and have been with us for less than two months. I on the other hand have nearly 16,650 posts +/- and have been here for nearly 10 years. Several of the longer term folks and I have met IRL over the years and it is wonderful to do so but I do greatly value the ones I know on-line here as well and know I will never meet them in person. It takes time and patience for Trans people to get to know one another but both are going to be fruitful. Trans lives are full of anxiety and it is hard to break out of our personal shells and offer friendship. In being Trans before we realized it, many of us did not develop skills at creating friendship. Some are truly awkward as they get used to their True Selves, but it wears off. The weak and uncertain are terrible when they attempt to appear strong and that is what happens often in the Trans community. You appear to be stronger and more certain of yourself which is wonderful but others here are not there yet. Some of us, like myself as an Admin are too busy to just strike up an individual conversation with every one of our several thousand members, but I do answer PM's and am happy to talk with anyone who sends me a message, but I also have a bunch of stuff hidden back in the ancient history of the Forums here too. Leave, and while you can still see the stuff, you would miss the chance to add helpful information to places that need it, which opens us up to seeing you more clearly and which will show your friendship for others to seek in the days ahead. If you really want to leave PM @MaryEllen, @Carolyn Marieor @Petra Jane because I will not do it just off hand because I think we have more to offer you yet and you have more to give. . -
By Willow · Posted
Hi Jamie. Nice to see you here. it’s been a quiet day. My wife and I had a nice talk this morning. Little by little we are working things out. It’s been just over a week out of six to recover and I’m already anxious to get back on my feet. I’ve got a lot I need to be doing and wasting all this time sitting around is difficult to accept. -
By Jackie C. · Posted
Wait, what? Alright though, if you really feel that way, ask one of the admins or devs. They'll take care of it for you. Hugs! -
By Jandi · Posted
Same. My experience with them has been good so far. I’m out anyway. -
By CBabe · Posted
We transgender people treat one another like garbage. I've contributed quite a bit here already during my short time, with a total of 3 trans women interacting with me out of dozens. We don't support one another much, that's why we can't make friends. I'll be deleting my account here as soon as I find out how. I don't need the same kind of attitude here that I get in real life. -
By Jamie68 · Posted
I never was into cutting myself, but I did stuff larger and larger objects deep as possible up my butt. If it didn't hurt, it wasn't big or deep enough. I did testicle stirring with syringe needles to try to kill those horrible things between my legs. I had even plans of castrating myself, either by burdizzo or surgery. Came real close to doing it several times. Now that I have come out to my wife and started transitioning, I rarely get the urge to do these things. When I do, I think about the fact that I might need that stuff for vaginalplasty. That helps. There may just be a light at the end of this tunnel. I've never mentioned this to anyone. This life seems so difficult. It shouldn't be that way. My wife doesn't understand dysphoria. She just keeps telling me, "Why can't you just be a woman to yourself and not let anyone else know". Hell, I barely understand it myself, but I have it. Always there to torture me. Jamie -
By Lee H · Posted
Hi Tomi I'm in the VA Health Care system, and for three months, I've been in MtF transition. The VA is seriously committed to helping people like me, with HRT, a Gender Therapist, an online Trans group, and other occasional needs. I really appreciate it all; however, they "chart" everything into my medical file, which is available to every medical professional in the VA across the country and I suppose in military hospitals world-wide. Without the VA, I couldn't afford it, sooo, "Screw it," I said. I just stopped worrying about it. They're supposed to maintain confidentiality, but if they don't, t'hell with it. I don't know these people, they're not my judge or family members, and, it's none of their business anyway, unless they're treating me. You are violating no policy with HRT [if your employer has such a policy, it's not legal -- see recent discussion under "Thank you, Joe], but they would be in violation of HIPAA. I figured they've got a lot more to loose. Let me add my welcome ~~Big hug, from Lee~~ -
By magical realism · Posted
Ive gone most of my life now with no friends of any kind due to health issues. I recently met a couple people online on an app. But never managed to see them again,and i felt i made such an embarressment of myself on it I had to just delete it. Most of my life ive hardly even met people my own generation let alone people i can relate to. All that is slowly beginning to change but it takes time,especially with covid now. I guess this is just me saying youre not alone in the boat. -
By Jamie68 · Posted
I lived in Tacoma Washington between 1975 and 1985. Beautiful country. Had to get used to working in the rain. Was vegetarian for all that time out there. Like you I ate eggs and dairy. Felt great. Health food stores and vegetarian restaurants were plentiful. Moved to north end of Chicago for 6 months after that. Plenty of health food stores there also. then to Central Illinois in the middle of farm country. Health food stores scarce here. Ended up becoming a meat eater again. It's ok though. Learned some healthy eating habits in Tacoma, Like eating the peels with potatoes, and making a salad with everything but the kitchen sink in it, and baking instead of frying. My family thought I was nuts, but I'm healthier than them. Now days, grocery stores are carrying better food. I do like a good cup of coffee. I have a grind and brew machine. I like 8 o'clock brand with cold stone creamer. Have a great day all. Jamie
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