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4 hours ago, AgnesBardsie said:

 

 

Everything seems too easy. All my life I’ve run into headwinds and had to slog through it. Someone is sure to remind  me soon that I’m not in Kansas anymore! When will the honeymoon be over? Is it ok to be happy?


 

Ride the wave!?‍♀️

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Good morning everyone,

 

It's really closer to afternoon here in the eastern timezone, and I'm about to leave for the weekend.

 

The coffee was, HOT, black, and strong, without being bitter. (Folgers Black Silk)

 

My Suzie, had a bit of an anger fit once my books arrived. She thinks I have another companion who is meeting my emotional needs, and she's not talking about my therapist. She went back to blaming me for dragging her into my closet.

 

We're hosting a birthday party for our youngest grandson this weekend, so hopefully things smooth over.

 

Hugs,

 

Mindy??️‍⚧️?

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Sent in my application for an apartment today. Looks like I will be officially moving out at the end of November.  Gonna be a -crappy-/hard xmas.

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1 hour ago, Bri2020 said:

Sent in my application for an apartment today. Looks like I will be officially moving out at the end of November.  Gonna be a -crappy-/hard xmas.

 

I'm a little torn here. On the one hand, I'm glad you're moving forward. On the other hand, it sucks that you have to leave your house. On the gripping hand, the Christmas thing is... not great. May the future bring your nothing but happiness, fulfillment and fluffy marshmallow unicorns!

 

Hugs!

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There is no freaking way that model is a 42A. Just saying. ?

 

Hugs!

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2 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

Sent in my application for an apartment today. Looks like I will be officially moving out at the end of November.  Gonna be a -crappy-/hard xmas.

Jackie has a way to say the same things that I feel, only in a better way. Hugs.

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1 hour ago, Jackie C. said:

There is no freaking way that model is a 42A. Just saying. ?

 

Hugs!

Well they never show what your size will look like or they would never sell any. I only wish I looked that good lol.?

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1 hour ago, Jamie68 said:

Well they never show what your size will look like or they would never sell any. I only wish I looked that good lol.?

 

One of my favorite shops does this. Their models are.. improbable. There are a lot of pieces I look at and think, "That looks amazing!" then remind myself, "That looks amazing ON HER."

 

Hugs!

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4 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

Sent in my application for an apartment today. Looks like I will be officially moving out at the end of November.  Gonna be a -crappy-/hard xmas.

I like what you said about riding the wave. The good thing is there’s an endless supply of them. Get back on that surfboard girl!

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5 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

Sent in my application for an apartment today. Looks like I will be officially moving out at the end of November.  Gonna be a -crappy-/hard xmas.

Bri I feel you sister as this will be my first Christmas alone in over 40 years. Hang in there girl.

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Billie

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4 hours ago, Billie75B said:

Bri I feel you sister as this will be my first Christmas alone in over 40 years. Hang in there girl.

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Billie

Probably my first ever. Unless you count Army days but you have your buddies at least.  I will figure things out.  I was the person in the neighborhood that decorated all the common areas and went all Clark Griswold in the front yard.  Heart definitely not into that this year.

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4 hours ago, AgnesBardsie said:

I like what you said about riding the wave. The good thing is there’s an endless supply of them. Get back on that surfboard girl!

I think I'm gonna just hang out past the breakers for a while and chill.

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Tomorrow is our annual golf tournament at work. I haven't been to one in almost 20 years and with my other "developments" I'm a little nervous about it. To start with the club is very exclusive and then there will almost all of my co-workers and their SOs, plus some of our vendors. I already know a few people have feelings about me. Granted I do have the complete support of the owner, VP and a few other high ups so I'm not overly worried but will be, as always, on alert for any haters.

 

Regardless, I have a cute outfit that meets the clubs dress code and I intend to have fun.

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1 hour ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Tomorrow is our annual golf tournament at work. I haven't been to one in almost 20 years and with my other "developments" I'm a little nervous about it. To start with the club is very exclusive and then there will almost all of my co-workers and their SOs, plus some of our vendors. I already know a few people have feelings about me. Granted I do have the complete support of the owner, VP and a few other high ups so I'm not overly worried but will be, as always, on alert for any haters.

 

Regardless, I have a cute outfit that meets the clubs dress code and I intend to have fun.

That sounds like so much fun! Big question. Will you play from the ladies tees!? 

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9 hours ago, AgnesBardsie said:

That sounds like so much fun! Big question. Will you play from the ladies tees!? 

I forgot about the ladies tee. I guess it's only appropriate that I do. Not that it'll make much difference since it's been a good 15 years since the last time I played. Who knows, maybe I'll be better now that have my head on straight.

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Glad you will at the least have the chance to rock "a cute outfit".  Have a great time Elizabeth!

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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On 9/9/2021 at 8:45 AM, Jamie68 said:

Just got it. Cups are too big. Maybe try 40b with band extender.

I measured 40B as well but have yet to get my first bra.

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On 9/8/2021 at 2:13 PM, Jackie C. said:

 

Need to know how that dress fits with your new profile though. I'm betting you're rocking it even harder.

 

Hugs!

I seriously think I'm going to have a wardrobe function any minute but women apparently have been wearing things like this for years and somehow they stay up. lol

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13 hours ago, SheenaT said:

I measured 40B as well but have yet to get my first bra.

According to the standard method of measuring, I am a 42b. Boy was that wrong.?

If I use the method from ittybittybra.com i'm a 42aa. So i'm trying a 42a. If it doesn't fit, i'll stuff it.

My breasts still tender, so supposedly still growing. If the girls don't achieve at least a full 42b, i'll be looking at getting a BA.

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10 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I seriously think I'm going to have a wardrobe function any minute but women apparently have been wearing things like this for years and somehow they stay up. lol

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@Bri2020, you look great!

 

I hit a new milestone today: I got classically, verifiably mansplained.  There was a discussion on the astronomy club mail list about going to the club observatory.  One fellow mentioned that there was a limit of 10 people, due to covid restrictions.  Not wanting people to be denied access on a beautiful night, I pointed out that the current limit was 25.  Him: "Yes, but club policy limits it to 10 people."  Me: "As the author of that policy, I can assure you it is currently 25."  ? ?

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10 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

I seriously think I'm going to have a wardrobe function any minute but women apparently have been wearing things like this for years and somehow they stay up. lol

 

Very nice! It looks great on you! Just don't do... I don't know... jumping jacks or cartwheels?

 

1 hour ago, KathyLauren said:

I hit a new milestone today: I got classically, verifiably mansplained.  There was a discussion on the astronomy club mail list about going to the club observatory.  One fellow mentioned that there was a limit of 10 people, due to covid restrictions.  Not wanting people to be denied access on a beautiful night, I pointed out that the current limit was 25.  Him: "Yes, but club policy limits it to 10 people."  Me: "As the author of that policy, I can assure you it is currently 25."  ? ?

 

Congratulations? Usually when I get mansplained it's something involving cars. As I'm clueless anyway, I don't mind so much. Anyway, I have a shirt that says...

 

Teach a man to fish and he’ll turn around and try to teach you to fish like he shirt

 

Never realized how true that was pre-transition. At least it means we're passing as women, right?

 

Hugs!

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