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8 hours ago, Linda Marie said:

have other's felt like

they are trapped between black and white,,,hunting for color.

Yup. I live for colour! Even my boy clothes I'd be looking for colour all the time, but black and white must be the most economical colours for manufacturers, and probably the safest, so they seem to be the most prevalent. Consequently, most of my clothing (boy or girl) tends to be drab with a bright relief of colour here or there.

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Last night a close trans friend of mine called me.  It was nice catching up with her and we made a tentative date to get together for dinner.  Before the pandemic she and I got together two or three times a month and we both admitted to each other how much we missed that.  The last time we met was in October, just before the cold weather put a damper on outside dining. 

 

Tomorrow, I am taking the afternoon off so I can get in some Sally time.  I'm looking for a new blouse, and I need a watch battery replaced, so I am planning to go a the local mall where I've had watch batteries changed before.  I'm looking forward to the outing.

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3 hours ago, Jamie68 said:

On to a different subject.

Do I need to get electrolysis down below for bottom surgery? There seems to be different answers for this. I'm trying to get as prepared as possible ahead of time to speed up the process. Also, has anyone used Dr. Loren Schechter in Chicago for this? If so, are you happy with your results?

 

Depends on the surgeon. Some doctors want you to have electrolysis on the area for at least a year. Others do a scrape that removes the hair from the skin they're going to use. This is usually, but not always effective.

 

3 hours ago, Drayse said:

As an 80s teen, I can relate. Gawd I dressed so gay back then! How da -don't dodge the filter- did I not know?!

 

Some 80s fashions were kind of flamboyant for straight guys. Bright colors and outrageous hair. Personally, I was wearing black t-shirts and jeans. I was going for invisibility.

 

Hugs!

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Good morning everyone,

 

My first two cups of coffee and a travel mug, were home brew Black Rifle Coffee. C♠️F :coffee:

 

I'm in the waiting room of Andy Mohr Ford having my F-250 worked on... Diesel Exhaust Fluid (DEF) Sensor is telling me I'm out of DEF, even though I added two jugs. The coffee here is just okay, however the Customer Waiting/Business Center it as good as any Hotel I've been in.

 

@KymmieLI'm glad you're seeking family counseling, and there's nothing wrong with being fashionable in your manor of dress. On another note, I'm the oldest of five siblings and no mater who started the ruckus, we all got the same punishment. My parents said that way they could be sure to get the perpetrator.

 

Hugs for all, (still masked)

 

Mindy🐛🌈🦋

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I have a friend that got a paratenial bottom surgery.  Did not need electrolysis and self lubricates according to her.

 

I love color but as a man did not.

 

keep-up the counseling 

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Elizabeth Star

My coffee tastes better than usual this morning.

 

The 80's Ugh. Father and step-mother were so unGodly strict and conservative. I was stuck wearing preppy K-Mart clothes 🤮 when I was drawn to (in a non-sexual way) big hair and newspaper skirts. Of course, now it all makes sense.

 

We still haven't had our "big talk". She hasn't been feeling well, I guess it's on her schedule. But how can she be mad at me now? I got us scheduled for the covid vaccine where her and her mother were making zero headway getting in. I had to pull a few strings at work but they were all happy to help. I've been able to get so much done by just firmly stating my case and not getting angry about things.

 

We got the our roof replaced yesterday. I did realize how bad the old one was but then again it snowed right after we moved in. Freaking 30k for a roof but it does come with a 50 year, unconditional, never pro-rated, transferable warranty. It's a lot of money but I shouldn't be playing on roof-tops anymore and won't have to. It will never be my problem again.

 

I woke up to my stimulus check in my account so I already started filling out the paperwork for my name change. Unfortunately I will have to wait a week or two to file it. I have to go in person. Today would be good since I took the day off to get the vaccine but I don't trust the courthouse to move swiftly enough to get out in time. Arg! It's right there. Corrected name! Just...out...of...reach! Time for a deep breath.

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Bri2020

Happy St Paddy's Day friends!

I've had my Irish coffees this morning so I am in a great mood. lol

Slàinte Mhath

Bri

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AgnesBardsie

I read this on someone's facebook feed this morning. <sputter...> {clean up coffee spill...}

 

"Get some roosters for eggs and raise some bulls for milk. Then you'll see that gender matters. Especially at milking time."
 

So should one of the manliest men be selected to impregnate all the women? Should we castrate the rest?

 

 

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1 hour ago, AgnesBardsie said:

"Get some roosters for eggs and raise some bulls for milk. Then you'll see that gender matters. Especially at milking time."

 

Then it's probably good that nobody wants to eat anything that comes out of my body.

 

Hugs!

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Elizabeth Star
1 hour ago, AgnesBardsie said:

I read this on someone's facebook feed this morning. <sputter...> {clean up coffee spill...}

 

"Get some roosters for eggs and raise some bulls for milk. Then you'll see that gender matters. Especially at milking time."
 

So should one of the manliest men be selected to impregnate all the women? Should we castrate the rest?

 

 

One of my friends posted that a few days ago so I posted this.

 

 

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Hi everyone 

 

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

 

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1 hour ago, Willow said:

Hi everyone 

 

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

 

 

Congratulations! May it be everything you dreamed!

 

Hugs!

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KymmieL

Well my wife and son are on their way to Lincoln , NE. They got home and with in a Half hour was gone. My wife did ask me to come. Being that we are mending fences.  but I said no. I didn't want to be stuck in a hotel room while my wife and youngest are seeing our grand kids.

 

I got the when are you talking to your son question. I didn't want to be a smart alack. I said soon. But I wanted to say. When ever he wants to be my son again. or I have made myself clear. Don't know what my son was told by my wife. Wither or not she tells them. I asked my wife if she would tell my grand son and Daughter the truth  of why I wasn't visiting them. That there parents didn't want me too. but probably either won't be told or not told like I asked it be. making me the bad guy.

 

Kymmie

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2 hours ago, Willow said:

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 

Freedom 

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KathyLauren
2 hours ago, Willow said:

Hi everyone 

 

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

 

Congratulations, @Willow!!

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Susan R
2 hours ago, Willow said:

I don’t no longer care who sees me.

Congrats Willow! Big Step in the right direction?

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Delcina B

 

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

Wonderful Willow! Happy day!

 

Hugs!

Delcina

 

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Delcina B

KymmieL

 

Haven't been in your heels Kymmie, but I hope things work out the way you want them to.

 

Hugs!

Delcina

 

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Elizabeth Star
3 hours ago, Willow said:

Hi everyone 

 

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

 

Congratulations! Now you're free to be you.

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Linda Marie
4 hours ago, Willow said:

Hi everyone 

 

I just wanted you to know that starting today, I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

 

Very good news. I hope the best for both of you. 

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Confused1
6 hours ago, Willow said:

Hi everyone 

 

I am Out, Full Time!  I don’t no longer care who sees me.  This was done with the full support of my wife. 
 

Willow

 

 

 

Congratulations Willow! I'm so glad to see your wife supporting you.

 

Hugs,

Mike

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Elizabeth Star

My wife and I finally had our talk. It started this morning, finally and it was calm and rational. It went really good. Apparently the root cause of our conflict is that I didn't trust her enough to tell her what I was going through. She paralleled my inner struggle to her life-long fight with her weight. We now have a lot more understanding of each other so for now at least we're good and I really do have her support and she does understand that I am doing this for me.

 

We also got our first round of covid shots today. While we we were there the staff used she/her with me without any prompting and my wife didn't argue with them although she used he/him. On the way home she asked me if I had used the ladies or men's room while getting our shots. I replied honestly that I had. I think maybe she didn't understand why until I asked how she thought things would have gone for me if I used the men's room. This lead into me trying to explain all the different genders and what they mean. She had no idea that there are trans-guys too. I'm going to direct her to Jackie's YouTube videos so she can learn more.

 

A couple days ago I told my wife about a conversation I had with my mother. I had asked my mother if I was going to have any problems with her family when I go up there this summer. She said if I tone down my clothing I "should be" OK. Just jeans and a t-shirt like the other girls. I had to explain that I wasn't going to show up in a pair of booty shorts and bikini top. Today my wife decided to give me her opinion on it. She out-right told me that I am going to wear cute dress and high heels. So she wants me to be hyper-feminine for a couple days? Try to stop me. She also told me a few things she wants to tell my mother but was using "son" when refering to me, I had to stop her and suggested she uses daughter instead. OMG! she is all for it. She is really pushing to show my family how accepting and supportive she is. Kinda sucks it's not until the end of July.

 

 

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Omg, my jaw nearly hit the floor reading this turn of events between you and your wife, @ElizabethStar! I'm so happy for you! 🎉🎉🎉

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