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24 minutes ago, Birdie said:

I really need to keep working on getting "male" changed to "female" on my medical records.

Seems like there must be a way to do this.  It's not really a "transgender" kind of issue, more like correcting a mistake.

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20 minutes ago, Ivy said:

Seems like there must be a way to do this.  It's not really a "transgender" kind of issue, more like correcting a mistake.

If was a mistake since birth as far as I'm concerned. 

They should have opted for surgery way back then. 

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A fun trip to Costco. My wife and I spent more time shopping for clothes than anything else. I got 2 pairs of shorts, 2 skorts, a pair of pull-on crop pants and a white summer blouse. Of the 16 things we bought, 10 were clothing items. I've found that Rafaella and Nine West clothes fit me pretty flatteringly.

 

Score!!

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I had my first therapy session with my speech therapist and it went ok from what I was able to do. She said it was just a base line and will get to do more Monday. I'm so looking forward to working on that. Two of my recliners are stuck in the up position and they sent out a guy to look at it. He took pictures while I was doing therapy but I wanted to still keep going. I won't be on for the weekend. I'm heading to northern Mississippi to celebrate one of my nephews birthday and will be up there again next month for my one my niece's birthday. It's time to wine and dine and go to bed early so I can hit the road while hardly anyone is there. Have a good weekend!

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1 hour ago, Ashley0616 said:

I had my first therapy session with my speech therapist and it went ok from what I was able to do. She said it was just a base line and will get to do more Monday. I'm so looking forward to working on that. Two of my recliners are stuck in the up position and they sent out a guy to look at it. He took pictures while I was doing therapy but I wanted to still keep going. I won't be on for the weekend. I'm heading to northern Mississippi to celebrate one of my nephews birthday and will be up there again next month for my one my niece's birthday. It's time to wine and dine and go to bed early so I can hit the road while hardly anyone is there. Have a good weekend!

Safe travels and have a great weekend @Ashley0616. I'm looking forward to hearing more about your speech therapist work.

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Good morning, everyone!! Up, dogs walked and fed and I'm working on my second cup of coffee - always black for me. After checking in here, I'll head off to read the morning's paper.

 

No big plans for today - vacuum the basement family room, depending on the weather I need to knock down some weeds/high grass in areas I don't normally cut with the mower and hopefully have some afternoon time at the pool working on my tan.

 

Last evening, after hours of wearing one, I realized how much I wish I could have worn a skort all my life!!! Oh. My. Gosh! How comfortable and convenient!!!??? 

 

Be safe and always look for the goodness in the day - it's there.

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2 hours ago, April Marie said:

Last evening, after hours of wearing one, I realized how much I wish I could have worn a skort all my life!!! Oh. My. Gosh! How comfortable and convenient!!!??? 

I never want to go back to "britches".

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12 minutes ago, Ivy said:

I never want to go back to "britches".

Amen to that!!! I hope your day is awesome @Ivy!

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Just a quick good morning 

 

we changed coffee brands back to one we’ve had before, San Francisco Bay coffee.  Rather than an entire box open the pack like 6 pods in a sealed bag. Why, you ask.  Well, unlike kureg pods these are totally biodegradable and are not in a sealed plastic k cup.  They use more of a t bag concept so the sealed bags keep the pods fresh.

 

gotta go, I work today off Sunday and Monday 

 

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Good morning everyone,:coffee::coffee::coffee:

 

I'm on my third cup of coffee, HOT, black and strong. Folgers Dark Silk is my sponsor.

The house has been quiet this morning as I catch up and read the social platforms.

Transgender Pulse Forums have become my favorite place to read, and hang out. I don't comment on every post I read, but I do learn from them. I can experience the highs and lows of emotion here, crying with some, only to taste a salty smile on the next. I love that we're all in different places in the world, as well as different stages of realization, and transformation.

 

Happy Pride Month,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋💖

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5 minutes ago, Mmindy said:

Good morning everyone,:coffee::coffee::coffee:

 

I'm on my third cup of coffee, HOT, black and strong. Folgers Dark Silk is my sponsor.

The house has been quiet this morning as I catch up and read the social platforms.

Transgender Pulse Forums have become my favorite place to read, and hang out. I don't comment on every post I read, but I do learn from them. I can experience the highs and lows of emotion here, crying with some, only to taste a salty smile on the next. I love that we're all in different places in the world, as well as different stages of realization, and transformation.

 

Happy Pride Month,

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋💖

I feel the same way - spend a lot of time reading and absorbing, posting...probably more than I should.

 

Every time I read about someone struggling, I just want to offer a hug or a shoulder...and when it's my turn the kindness is returned.

 

Enjoy your day...and the coffee!!!

 

Happy Pride Month!!

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Good morning, everyone!!! I'm about to go back for my second cup of coffee and then read the local paper. The dogs had me up early this morning...so a nap will be in my future, today. Maybe by the pool. 🙂

 

I cut some of our grass yesterday before rain put an end to that plan - will finish it up today. We went to church last evening and the picked up some food at a local restaurant - then came home and ate dinner and had a glass of wine in summer dresses. I can't believe how good a simple dress and a little lipstick can make me feel. Oh, and a new set of big silver hoop earrings with a cz heart-shaped diamond. I smiled all evening.

 

Stay safe and find the goodness in this beautiful day we've been given.

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Good morning!

 

Yesterday was our town's 2nd ever PrideFest, volunteered from 8 AM setup through breakdown done at 7:30, except gave myself one two hour shift off to mingle and eat and drink. Such a good time spending a day with everyone just being nice to each other without judgy looks or comments. Then came home and had a big sad as I sometimes do, this time about 'why can't everyday be Pridefest?' with a dose of 'why did I wait so long?' when I see the much younger trans folks sprinkled in amongst the rest of the alphabet people. 

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1 hour ago, RhondaS said:

Good morning!

 

Yesterday was our town's 2nd ever PrideFest, volunteered from 8 AM setup through breakdown done at 7:30, except gave myself one two hour shift off to mingle and eat and drink. Such a good time spending a day with everyone just being nice to each other without judgy looks or comments. Then came home and had a big sad as I sometimes do, this time about 'why can't everyday be Pridefest?' with a dose of 'why did I wait so long?' when I see the much younger trans folks sprinkled in amongst the rest of the alphabet people. 

I do understand that emotion - in my late 60s and acknowledging myself is rife with looking back and asking "what if."  But, then I look at the many blessings in my life as it was, and I just try to focus on relishing what I have and will have in the time I have left. I can't change the past, but I can embrace the future.

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1 hour ago, RhondaS said:

a dose of 'why did I wait so long?' when I see the much younger trans folks sprinkled in amongst the rest of the alphabet people.

Like April has said, that part of my life had its place I suppose.  I certainly don't regret having my family.  But yeah, there are those what if? thoughts.

 

It is kinda weird to be going through a puberty of sorts in my 70's.

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@RhondaS sounds like fun.

 

Got so envious yesterday at work. I was on my way to a delivery in the morning. I passed by the spa where I get my hair, etc done. There was a bunch of tween girls outside, all excited. It must have been a princess party. First thing that crossed my mind was I wish I could have done that when I was younger. It would have been so fun.

 

My wife has been gone this weekend. Due home today. I just love the way she communicates with me. Nothing on leaving. A text when she got there. A couple texts yesterday saying she made it to the dealer we bought our bike from and their sister one. One showing the shirts she got. A couple with  Love you. No calls. but she can call our youngest. Nothing yet today. OH, well Nothing new there.

 

Got the fuel and return lines done on the wagon. Just a couple more things then the big 🤞🤞🤞 start up. I hope. Today some more work on it.

 

Have a great day all. I will try.

 

Kymmie

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good morning all,

The coffee was strong and good this morning. I haven't posted in a long time so here is my latest update. I retired March 15th, then moved to Taos NM to live with my partner Stevie. I had the first of 2 FFS Surgeries May 3rd and everything is healing up nicely. I will post pic later. I hope everyone is doing well.

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Well I'm back from my trip. My Dad refused to go to my nephew's birthday party because I was there. I was kind of hoping to put it behind us but I guess he is just too salty. I'm to a point where I only want a relationship with him just because of my kids but if he doesn't then I'm fine with that too. I'm almost passed the point of caring. I guess I double booked the appointments. I have one that is a video and my son has one. I think I'll reschedule one and just go from there. The party was nice and got to enjoy everyone. Unfortunately I was still called Scott but I guess at least they love me. 

 

When I arrived at my Mom's she said gross because that was the first time she saw me as Ashley. She did say it was going to take some time to getting used to. I'm glad to be back home and have the kids. Well I guess that is it for now. 

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I had a decent, low-stress weekend.  Went to a bachelor party on Friday night and then the wedding on Saturday.  Got to hang out with family and friends, eat well, and relax.  My husband cooked us one of our traditional big Sunday breakfasts this morning, and for some reason I was so hungry that I ate 3 plates of it. 

 

I'm still getting carried around most everywhere, and I'm definitely looking forward to being able to walk again soon.  I'm starting to be able to take a few steps, putting maybe 30% of the normal weight on my bad ankle.  I can move around the kitchen and bathroom without hopping too much.  I can't do it on uneven surfaces or very far away from something to grab, but it is more than I was able to do 2 weeks ago.  🙂

 

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Hi everyone 

 

off yesterday and today.  I had forgotten how nice it is to have two days off in a row.  
 

Myrtle Beach City Council dropped support for Pride last year and refused to take it up this year.  There was a Pride fest in The park next to city hall on Saturday.  I have to admit I don’t participate but that’s because there are too many shootings in the Pee Dee and Grand Strand.  I have enough issues right here by my home. No shootings but definitely lots of folk who hate Transgender people, just more civilized.

 

our church had its 40th anniversary celebration yesterday.  Turns out it was the last church of our denomination to be formed.  I won’t speculate but there could be several reasons for that.  
 

guess I should stop being lazy and do some housework.  I need laundry and the kitchen is crying out.

 

later gators 🐊 

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I just got done with my speech therapy and found out there is more to sounding feminine than just pitch alone. My average pitch was 138. Sorry I don't know why it's sideways and can't figure out how to fix it. My pitch did get too high and was told that I needed to be careful to not damage vocal cords. I was told that I didn't have as much of a masculine voice as I thought. I'm so glad. There is still plenty of work to be done but I'm on the right track. 

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On 6/4/2023 at 1:41 PM, Billie75B said:

I retired March 15th, then moved to Taos NM to live with my partner Stevie.

That's a great update Billie, I so happy for you.

 

18 hours ago, Ashley0616 said:

She did say it was going to take some time to getting used to.

Ashley, I'm sorry our dad is still avoiding you. However your mom sounds more accepting, and hopefully your dad will see that he's the one missing out. 

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@Ashley0616

 

my vocal feminization speech therapist said I was ok with my upper pitch but I needed to work with it.  But my biggest problem is remembering to use that voice and not get lazy and revert to my 74 year old male voice.  That’s the toughest part for me. 

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      Good evening to you as well @Mmindy   That is awesome that you have support from her side. My dad has communicated with me once and that was because he was forced to. His new wife wanted to spend time with my kids. He hated me so much he was in the process of taking my rights away as a parent to my two boys. He was talking to a lawyer and I called him out on it. I don't love him at all. I'll respect him because I wouldn't be here without him but I wished I had another father. My uncles don't talk to me and unfriended me on Facebook. Almost all cousins except for two are still Facebook friends but they don't give me any support. My mom said she won't support me with that but she has said that she loves me. I have nieces and nephews that are still Facebook friends but they have yet to talk to me. I have one sister that supports me out of three. The other's disrespect me by deadnaming me. They have never called me their sister. I think for them they think it's still a phase. They don't ask questions about me being trans. I have to bring it up and on the look of their faces they don't look comfortable about it. 
    • Mmindy
      Good evening @Ashley0616,   I just got offline with HP tech support trying to get my printer tool box icon locked to my tool bar. This is one of the most important features of my printer that I like because it keeps track of ink, paper, and scanned documents. I'm diffidently not a computer geek.   I'll catch up with the other bookmarks next week. We leave to go home for the Easter Holiday with our families. Saturday with her side, and Sunday with my side. What's odd about that is I'm out to more of her side and they're reluctantly supportive. My side on the other hand are less supportive, and my sister just under me in age will not acknowledge my being there. She will be constantly moving to keep from dealing with me. I'm dead to her.   Hugs,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋  
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      That stinks that nothing transferred, and no bookmarks were saved! 
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