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Got home from the Pride Fest.

It went pretty well.  Really there weren't any protesters.  I saw a couple of guys with signs with them, but nothing really.  Someone told me they were up at the end of the block for a bit, but I never saw them.

They did have a drag show.  I had never been to one.  It was okay I guess, kinda fun.  But this was "family friendly" and on the court square of course.

I did see some people I knew, including my next door neighbor - which surprised the heck out of me.  I think she was there because a family member had a booth with baked goods.

Didn't see the BDSM folks though.

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aw well watching the Buckeyes vs the Ducks
 

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Things going well since I had my FFS,trachea shave and breast augmentation.Also checked on the progress on my wedding dress yesterday,liking it although it was a little too loose trying it on and they got it fixed

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19 hours ago, Willow said:

@christinakristy2021 NOVA!  I lived in NOVA from 1984 to 2006.  The traffic drove me out.  I lived in Centreville.  Which part are you in?  We loved riding the bicycle trails W&OD, C&O Canal, Mount Vernon Trail, Capital Crescent.  There sure is a lot to do in that area.

 

After NOVA we moved to Stephan’s City which is near Winchester.

 

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I'm in Prince William County. Dumfries.

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I am so very tired right now.  This weekend was the biggest field exercise (war game) for our County Defense.  Two other counties also participated, and it lasted 3 whole days.  Since my husband, two of my female partners, and two of my older stepkids were involved, I had a lot more chores and childcare to do this weekend.  Even both of my good friends were doing stuff, so I've just stayed home all weekend.

 

And I've been missing my husband.  He left home on Friday morning, and just barely got home an hour ago.  I don't think he has slept at all.  Part of the emphasis of the weekend is cramming as much into it as possible, and pushing everybody hard.  72 hours of busy, high-stress, sleepless, rough conditions.  I'm already preparing for the fact that he's going to get sick this week. :mellow:  And then he'll be busy next weekend with the "afterwards" part of it - meetings, discussion, analysis.  He and GF can't even stop talking about it together now that they're home. -_-  They're literally having an animated discussion in the shower right now....

 

So yeah.  Worn out and kind of lonely. 

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Yesterday afternoon my apartment started flooding. I called maintenance and started cleaning up. As I was grabbing a bucket of water I received an electrical shock. My fall detection device connected to an operator and offered to call the fire department. 


The electricity to my unit was disconnected until it drains, and I was asked to stay the night in a motel. 


It was a very eventful afternoon!


I won't be going to the centre today, and I have a later checkout here set for 6pm. That gives them time to get my unit ready. 


Management didn't pay for my motel stay and said I should save my receipt to give to the gentleman upstairs that left his water running. I don't anticipate being reimbursed my $80 USD. 


Hope your day is much better than mine. 🤣


Take everything with a smile is the best we can do!


 

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Just now, Birdie said:

It was a very eventful afternoon!

Yikes.

I hope there wasn't much actual damage to your apartment.  Getting stuck with the bill sucks as well.

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Just now, Ivy said:

Yikes.

I hope there wasn't much actual damage to your apartment.  Getting stuck with the bill sucks as well.

As I was leaving much of the drywall on the ceiling collapsed. I won't know the extent of damage to my things until I get back there this afternoon. 

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Good morning 

 

it’s Monday and I actually got to sleep in. I go in to work at 11:00!  And we have all four management working together.  Not something normal.  It is a “truck” day meaning we get deliveries but we have plenty of stock so the delivery should be small.

 

@awkward-yet-sweet that sounds like quite a war game. Do you split the group up so that there are two sides or are the drills just one group working together?  
 

have a good Monday, be safe.  South Carolina has been having a series of earthquakes again,  this time in the foothills.  Before they were all centered in the central area.  Clearly the Atlantic plate is moving again.

 

Willow

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Just now, Willow said:

that sounds like quite a war game. Do you split the group up so that there are two sides or are the drills just one group working together? 

 

Yeah, the annual October exercises are always 2 sides.  Sometimes they'll even add a "third actor" to simulate interference and add chaos. The scenario can be either Federal or foreign invasion, sometimes they simulate organized/disorganized civil unrest.  This year was bigger than in the past.  I'm not really sure how it all works, since I'm not part of it.  But oh, it is so noisy!  Afterwards, there's a lot of discussion and analysis, just trying to improve everybody's skills and thinking in case we have trouble here.  Its sad this is part of our world now - 2020 changed everything for us. 

 

5 years later, our area looks and feels really different.  In many ways, its been good.  We have lots more local business and local industry, and more diverse local agriculture.  We're much more resilient.  People are more connected to each other, and response to disasters like fires and tornadoes is much more comprehensive.  My county has a mutual-aid agreement with a couple of other counties, which has been helpful.  I'm not sure what the future holds, but hopefully we're in better shape than we were before. 

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As I was leaving much of the drywall on the ceiling collapsed. I won't know the extent of damage to my things until I get back there this afternoon. 

Wow, that sux.  Hopefully the damage isn't bad, and you can get compensation for it.  Crazy that your apartment owner doesn't think they owe you anything.  Getting something out of another tenant might be like trying to squeeze blood from a turnip...

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Just now, awkward-yet-sweet said:

Wow, that sux.  Hopefully the damage isn't bad, and you can get compensation for it.  Crazy that your apartment owner doesn't think they owe you anything.  Getting something out of another tenant might be like trying to squeeze blood from a turnip...

I have renters insurance with a $500 deductible, so worse case scenario it costs me $500.

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2 hours ago, Birdie said:

I have renters insurance with a $500 deductible, so worse case scenario it costs me $500.

Birdie, contact your insurance agent and they should help you by having the upstairs tenant pay or use their insurance. You shouldn’t need to pay a deductible since it was caused by someone else. If your insurance company doesn’t cover your housing costs while repairs are being made, check with the Red Cross and Salvation Army. These agencies help with housing when people are displaced by flood and fire damage. 
 

Prayers and Positive Vibes 

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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Started on the job today and it was a mess and my new employee is a hard worker. Got into it after telling him how I wanted it done listening to me. Also a quick learner on the spot. Have one bedroom almost finished doing the drywall replacement and start on the next one tomorrow. The new customers came in to check on the work and are 100% impressed with the work

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7 hours ago, Mmindy said:

Birdie, contact your insurance agent and they should help you by having the upstairs tenant pay or use their insurance. You shouldn’t need to pay a deductible since it was caused by someone else. If your insurance company doesn’t cover your housing costs while repairs are being made, check with the Red Cross and Salvation Army. These agencies help with housing when people are displaced by flood and fire damage. 
 

Prayers and Positive Vibes 

 

Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

The guy upstairs didn't have insurance, so there as no pocket to grab from. 

 

All the food in the refrigerator spoiled after 15 hours of no power, and a few items in the freezers were ruined. It maybe totaled to about $50 in food. The night's stay in the motel was only $76. None of my appliances were ruined, and maintenance did a wonderful job in clean-up. The electrical short that jolted me was found to be the fluorescent fixture in the kitchen, and they replace the whole fixture. Basically the only thing they have left to fix are the holes in the ceiling, but things need to dry out a bit more before they patch that up.

 

The manager will try to have the man upstairs reimburse me for my losses, but he is on Social Security and a very low income Social Security. The chances of him being able to pay for my losses are slim to none.

 

All in all I didn't lose that much so I was very blessed.

 

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Just now, Birdie said:

All in all I didn't lose that much so I was very blessed.

I guess that's the best you can hope for.  It's better than it could have been.

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I have an appointment with my therapist today.  It was supposed to be in-person (which I prefer) but Asheville got hit pretty bad, so it will be online.

She called me a couple of days after it hit to check up on me, and her other patients I assume.  She lost her house, herself.

I had that tree fall on mine, but it is still habitable - thankfully.

But I am glad the appointment is still on.  I'm still dealing with a lot of personal stuff.

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Good morning

 

this is kind of a crazy week.  Worked yesterday. Today we go to Charleston for an eye doctor appointment for my wife.  I open the little store tomorrow work at my regular store Thursday, Friday, we head to Presbyterian College for the weekend of class.  Next week I open the little store twice.

 

My week is never the same.  I wind up checking the online schedule every night before I go to bed just to be sure it didn’t change.  It actually does sometimes.

 

@Birdie i’m glad your losses aren’t too bad but I agree, contact Salvation Army if you need help including a place to stay temporarily.  They might give you some money to help for having to pay for a hotel when it was unlivable.  The Salvation Army is the best., IMHO.

 

Willow

 

 

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I am happy how the day worked out, got all the drywall up and luckily I brought a small piece I kept from another job. Even did put the joint tape and first application of the drywall compound on. Let that dry and sanded it down good and put on the second application of it down and sanded that down good. Will put down the 3rd and final application on tomorrow. New employee is impressing me more, on time and loves to learn. The customers are extremely happy with the work, told them the doors are next to be installed hopefully tomorrow followed by the trim. Seen we even cleaned up the mess too. The dumpster will be picked up on Thursday. Good news was they said a friend of theirs will be calling me. Having an issue with a door that open and closes horribly,her boyfriend installed it and it is probably installer error. 

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Good morning from NH enjoying my morning coffee and some music. Getting my day planned out, I have some apartment issues Im trying to resolve before the weather gets too bad. I’m also working on some projects that I’ll be proposing to a local business that frequent and have made some new friends and get support from. This started as a hobby to help while I get treatment and diagnosis medically and while I start my transition until the owner Joe and his crew at J. Pothecary inspired me with some requests. 

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My GF Tyler did call me, asked me if I wanted to take belly dancing lessons with her as Hailey and told her yes. She likes trying new things and I also do as well. She is going to set the date for it

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Hailey that is so exciting, it’s always fun learning something new especially when you’ve got someone who wants to learn with you and share a mutual interest. I’m sure the both of you will enjoy the experience together learning learning not just individually though as a whole ensuring that both of you gain the most and can enjoy the new experience together.

 

Silas

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Just now, SilasG said:

Hailey that is so exciting, it’s always fun learning something new especially when you’ve got someone who wants to learn with you and share a mutual interest. I’m sure the both of you will enjoy the experience together learning learning not just individually though as a whole ensuring that both of you gain the most and can enjoy the new experience together.

 

Silas

It will be and it does not hurt to try new good things in life

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Greetings SilasG

 

Will be interesting to read what you post. 

 

 

 

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I want to post an update for my post this morning. So my day has been very productive in regards to transitioning I called to schedule my appointment to start my journey to become Silas and expected to have to schedule out a week or so though they had an appointment available on Friday 10/18 at Planned Parenthood. I haven’t gone to J. Apothecary as of yet I’ll be stop by there for 2pm today so I can converse and provide some of my work to show them my abilities. I’m excited to let them know about the start of transitioning and how soon the process will begin. I can’t express how happy and grateful I am for all the support, positive affirmations and care I have received since I’ve joined the forum and am looking forward to sharing my experiences, progress and thoughts while I continue on my path.


Thank you T.P. Collective,

Silas 

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