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1 hour ago, MelanieTamara said:

OK, i really like it. You've got a Boho chique thing going on. Short sleeves or a tank. I must know!

 

Neither, it's spaghetti straps. The turquoise one is a tank though.

 

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1 hour ago, Jackie C. said:

Bought my first ever dress yesterday and a new top, so... sharing!

Quite fetching!

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On 6/29/2021 at 11:41 AM, Bri2020 said:

Here's my second dress from that consignment shop in my last post. I really needed to feel better about myself today and I know this makes me look great so.....  It's amazing how clothes can either reflect a mood or make your mood.  I love fashion!

 

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I agree. I love going out all gussied up. I enjoy your pictures.

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Thank you! Now I just need somewhere to wear it. ?

 

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This is a double slit skirt that I wore to Denver Pride on June 27th. It’s my favorite skirt except for when it gets windy. It likes to fly ?.CA7FB35B-5E97-4855-A061-A455BFAC3A8B.thumb.jpeg.475342fd4cdc5bf6d27cd0e0fd7f65fb.jpeg

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Double slit? I imagine it would fly EVERYWHERE!

 

It looks lovely on you though.

 

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@Erica Gabriel you look lovely and the woman makes the clothes not the other way around.

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@Jackie C. miss you dress a few posts up and besides liking the look I love your cute hair style I think a new avatar is in order. It makes you look younger.

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1 hour ago, Shay said:

@Jackie C. miss you dress a few posts up and besides liking the look I love your cute hair style I think a new avatar is in order. It makes you look younger.

 

1 hour ago, Shay said:

@Erica Gabriel you look lovely and the woman makes the clothes not the other way around.

Thank you. I’m slowly building my new wardrobe. My new Faire customer involves an underbust corset. That’s an adventure to wear all day.

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@Erica Gabriel saw that several posts above - you look cute in that. I love Renaissance Faire's. Gosh I just love your hair, wish mine was anywhere near as lovely.

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1 hour ago, Shay said:

I love Renaissance Faire's. Gosh I just love your hair, wish mine was anywhere near as lovely.

Haven't been to the one here for a few years.   One reason I liked it was I could loose the britches for a tunic.  How could I not see?  Internalized transphobia strikes again.

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@Jandi I always loved what the ladies got to wear and the envy boiled over .... I did see but was too afraid ...... at the time.

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1 hour ago, Shay said:

@Erica Gabriel saw that several posts above - you look cute in that. I love Renaissance Faire's. Gosh I just love your hair, wish mine was anywhere near as lovely.

Thank you. I started growing it again in May 2020. I just recently had it styled a bit. There's plenty of gray in my locks.

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1 hour ago, Jandi said:

Haven't been to the one here for a few years.   One reason I liked it was I could loose the britches for a tunic.  How could I not see?  Internalized transphobia strikes again.

Wearing kilts (I have 4) was my way of coping with my dysphoria. I learned to sit in a skirt before I came out.

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@Erica Gabriel your hair must grow quickly - I let my semi-long hair start when the pandemic hit and it is a bit longer but sadly too much T far too long - I hope to have a topper made when I'm allowed to come out to my step-kids and grand-kids (my wife is ok to let them know when my daughter's father-in-law passes - he's dying of bone cancer and has already outlasted predictions of 6 months - it's almost 18 months - but I heard he is going down quicker now). I hate to wish death on anyone but I kind of would like to see him pass before too long. 

And gray hair - heck - mine to pretty gray and that is another thing I'm trying to convince my wife of - letting me play with lightening and adding some color - oh well - I'm almost 1 year HRT, have changed my name and am feeling wonderful where I am so far and look forward to the phase passed the kilts....

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@Erica Gabriel Ah, kilts. What I didn't know then . . . I  must have intuited.

At a costume party when I was nine years old (1957), I wore a plaid kilt. I begged my sister to sew one for me. Not sure why I picked it, but I was determined after I saw pictures of Scots men in an encyclopedia. I wore a plaid bathing suit underneath, which was prudent because there were many up-skirt actions by both the boys and the girls. But I got respect. The girls liked it a lot and the boys respected my courage—though in all honesty it was naivete. I was a good dancer, thanks to my older sister, so I got lots of opportunities to show it off. I only wore it that one time, but my memory of it is strong. I kept it in my closet for years, as I remember now. Now I know why. It makes me smile to remember this.

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Davie

PS: Where would a shopper find such a thing as a kilt?

 

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Like this one?

 

rainbowkilt, hybirdkilt, Nylon, Cotton

 

It comes from here.

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3 hours ago, Erica Gabriel said:

Wearing kilts (I have 4) was my way of coping with my dysphoria.

One of my daughters sent me a link for some kilts when I was first coming out.  I thought about it, but figured why?  I just started with skirts, I mean, why half step it?  It wasn't like I was trying to maintain some level of masculinity anyway.  It was already too late for that.

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Whatever it takes whenever half measures will do so be it. I played a leader of one of the whatever-you-call-them in Brigadoon and the kilt didn't feel wrong but it didn't help my dysphoria either - kind of neutral - but that was me then.

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First time buying. Wife got me leggings before but I actually got to shop for clothes. Don't ask me what style I'm going for, I have no clue. I loved every bit of them until I got to the long dresses with the plunging necks. That's the quickest way to remember. 

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On 7/5/2021 at 7:12 AM, Jackie C. said:

Thank you! Now I just need somewhere to wear it. ?

 

Hugs!

Wear it anywhere. It's a great evening drink OR going to the market dress!  Welcome to the dress world!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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