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15 hours ago, Miss idk said:

omg them shoe's I seriously need to go shopping. I don't have one pair yet xxxx

I would totally go with you if I there wasn't an ocean between us. lol

I'm up to 27 pairs and still, I can't find the right shoe for the occasion/outfit half the time.

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55 minutes ago, Bri2020 said:

I would totally go with you if I there wasn't an ocean between us. lol

I'm up to 27 pairs and still, I can't find the right shoe for the occasion/outfit half the time.

What would life be without those little obstacles to overcome?

 

Anyway, on my walk today, I encountered a woman with her young son (around 3 years old) and her two dogs. Being as I'm a sucker for dogs, and, quite frankly, most dogs are a sucker for me, I stopped for a nice friendly interaction. Two days ago, a similar happenstance with woman around my age, also with two dogs. Another worthwhile minute of interruption to my walk. Moral of the story - take advantage of such random interactions to build confidence in who you are. Picture is from when I finished my walk.

 

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15 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I actually got a dress with sleeves!

 

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and you're rocking it ❤️!

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On 4/12/2022 at 9:51 PM, Elizabeth Star said:

I actually got a dress with sleeves!

 

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That dress is fire!  I love the boots, too.

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On 4/12/2022 at 9:51 PM, Elizabeth Star said:

I actually got a dress with sleeves!

 

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very cute !  I think you need a hot pink one just like it.  ;) 

 

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1 hour ago, Bri2020 said:

very cute !  I think you need a hot pink one just like it.  ;) 

 

 

I mean the right pink that matches her complexion, sure. Maybe with accents. I mean not JUST pink.

 

Ooh, or a deep red... That dress would look good in red...

 

Absolutely keep the belt though, you're rocking that. Perfect accent. Honestly that whole style is super-flattering on you @Elizabeth Star.

 

Hugs!

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Feeling really happy about my eye makeup today, after watching tutorials and practicing for two weeks! I still need to get mascara for the eyes, and once I have foundation/concealer/powder that matches my skin, I'll begin practicing that also! Electrolysis is going to be a welcome service as well XD

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35 minutes ago, Pratana said:

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Feeling really happy about my eye makeup today, after watching tutorials and practicing for two weeks! I still need to get mascara for the eyes, and once I have foundation/concealer/powder that matches my skin, I'll begin practicing that also! Electrolysis is going to be a welcome service as well XD

It's certainly a process but looks like you're getting the eyes. Eyeliner is still my bane. Good choice in color!, Stay away from the whole dark sultry look unless you get FFS. Stay with lighter colors.  One thing that can help your eyes is start working on removing hair from the lower part of your eyebrows toward the midline/nose bridge to make your brows "look" higher and thinner. It lets more light into the eye area /less shadow and  highlights your eye shadow. Or you can have them waxed.  I use a #3 trimmer on my electric clipper to get the length down then this tool to "shaper" them because I just can't do the plucking thing. If you ever do FFS the brow ridge reduction and subsequent brow lift corrects this challenge. Until then this technique can help.  Bushy brows are a newer trend with women but if we try that it looks "heavy" and accentuates our brow ridge :(.   You have gorgeous eyes btw!

And you will be surprised how fast electrolysis will start helping given how dark your hair is.  It's a very long process so prioritize it if you can.

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Hey, @Bri2020! Thanks for the hints and tips! I'm actually working with a donated palette at the moment, so I don't have a lot of room to move outside of that just yet. Once I get a job, it's on! I will definitely consider removing some weight from the side of my brows that are closer to my eyelid; I've already been cleaning up the bottom of the arch away from my nose, so it's in my joy to play around with that heavier bit you're talking about.

 

FFS is already in my scope as something I'll want to do a year after starting hormones. My nose and jawline are extremely bold, and that needs to change if I'm hoping to pass for anything but a Greek girl (I'm fluent in the language, but not from there).

 

As for electrolysis, have you any thoughts/knowledge about the at-home units?

 

Hugs for you and thanks for the feedback!

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1 hour ago, Pratana said:

 

 

As for electrolysis, have you any thoughts/knowledge about the at-home units?

 

Hugs for you and thanks for the feedback!

At home units are not effective at all.  I'm not sure where you are in MD but if you happen to be inside the beltway then over the bridge in Alexandria is Alternative Health Associates which does great electro work and has been working with the trans community for 20+ years.

Unfortunately, electro is basically a nice car payment per month to get done around here. I was going once a week for 60 or 90 minutes for 18 months. I had to stop after FFS for a while to give the face time to heal. Kaiser pays for most of it except $30/visit if I use AHA. They're considered in network.

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13 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

At home units are not effective at all.  I'm not sure where you are in MD but if you happen to be inside the beltway then over the bridge in Alexandria is Alternative Health Associates which does great electro work and has been working with the trans community for 20+ years.

Unfortunately, electro is basically a nice car payment per month to get done around here. I was going once a week for 60 or 90 minutes for 18 months. I had to stop after FFS for a while to give the face time to heal. Kaiser pays for most of it except $30/visit if I use AHA. They're considered in network.

All of that is great to know, @Bri2020. At your suggestion, I've made note of AHA and will consider them highly upon my return to the workforce!

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On 4/4/2022 at 5:22 PM, Jamey said:

The tag says "Live and Let Live" 💖

@Jamey Thank you for posting this. I found a few outlets that sell the “Live and Let Live” ladies tops. The line is wonderful for us older gals. I love tunics and that brand carries many wonderful choices. I couldn’t find the exact one you were wearing in your pic but I did find several alternative choices that I really like.😁

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2nd date with a woman I went hiking with last week. I'm cooking her dinner and then we planned on "couch cuddles" and stream a movie.  I'm cooking a scallop Tajine. I think it's going to go well because I am having a fabulous hair day. lol. Only challenge (or is it) is this dress' propensity to have a wardrobe malfunction.  haha

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Tajine! Moroccan food! So Good! enjoy your date and i hope you have a wardrobe malfunction!!!

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Thank you everyone. and yes there was a wardrobe malfunction but went unnoticed :(. lol.   However, I think I've hooked her on my cooking. #mad-kitchen-skills-are-sexy

Today I get to see a girlfriend who I haven't seen in about two months since was away on work. Just a really good friendship. She was my first "new friend" after I came out and has been such an amazing part of my life this last 18 months or so.  She's having a brunch today. I don't celebrate Easter but thought an  easter style dress was appropriate for the day. (although the temps dropped :(.  ). 

Now that I look at this the boots aren't going to work so I will figure out something there. lol

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2 hours ago, Bri2020 said:

Thank you everyone. and yes there was a wardrobe malfunction but went unnoticed :(. lol.   However, I think I've hooked her on my cooking. #mad-kitchen-skills-are-sexy

Today I get to see a girlfriend who I haven't seen in about two months since was away on work. Just a really good friendship. She was my first "new friend" after I came out and has been such an amazing part of my life this last 18 months or so.  She's having a brunch today. I don't celebrate Easter but thought an  easter style dress was appropriate for the day. (although the temps dropped :(.  ). 

Now that I look at this the boots aren't going to work so I will figure out something there. lol

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At least you were prepared for such an embarrassing moment and were able to take the necessary corrective action.😁 Perhaps someday I will find myself in such a compromising circumstance.😔

 

I love your flowers - very spring-y. I have the same trouble regarding footwear. My daughter is able to help, though, assuming I even have something appropriate.

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On 4/12/2022 at 10:12 AM, Jandi said:

Having to wear ball caps as uniform in the military and then on my job turned me against ball caps.  To each their own I guess.

 

Been trying to get back in the habit of walks by the river.  I used to go regularly, but then covid, and also a flood washed out a lot of the trail.  But they're getting tings put back together now.  I was down there this morning.

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You look marvelous, @Jandi . This is a beautiful picture. 

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On 4/14/2022 at 11:31 AM, Bri2020 said:

It's certainly a process but looks like you're getting the eyes. Eyeliner is still my bane. Good choice in color!, Stay away from the whole dark sultry look unless you get FFS. Stay with lighter colors.  One thing that can help your eyes is start working on removing hair from the lower part of your eyebrows toward the midline/nose bridge to make your brows "look" higher and thinner. It lets more light into the eye area /less shadow and  highlights your eye shadow. Or you can have them waxed.  I use a #3 trimmer on my electric clipper to get the length down then this tool to "shaper" them because I just can't do the plucking thing. If you ever do FFS the brow ridge reduction and subsequent brow lift corrects this challenge. Until then this technique can help.  Bushy brows are a newer trend with women but if we try that it looks "heavy" and accentuates our brow ridge :(.   You have gorgeous eyes btw!

And you will be surprised how fast electrolysis will start helping given how dark your hair is.  It's a very long process so prioritize it if you can.

https://www.amazon.com/Finishing-Touch-Flawless-Eyebrow-Lavender/dp/B07M9Z5FD8/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=PHL769EIZLFA&keywords=eyebrow+trimmer+for+women&qid=1649949605&sprefix=eyebrow+trimmer%2Caps%2C79&sr=8-2-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUExSDRNOVFOVUlNWVQzJmVuY3J5cHRlZElkPUEwMzQ4MzYzMUtOWDYxRU1aSUlCRiZlbmNyeXB0ZWRBZElkPUEwMDk0NzI5MzRPRTk4UUJOU0dVTiZ3aWRnZXROYW1lPXNwX2F0ZiZhY3Rpb249Y2xpY2tSZWRpcmVjdCZkb05vdExvZ0NsaWNrPXRydWU=

Yeah I been using that 20 dollar trimmer and it's a little slow but it works. Then one of those brown ink brow pensto fill in the scant patches and accentuate the shape. 

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First day out of the house as Alice. Just wandering around town in the sunshine, but I feel like I have crossed another line.

Feeling very pleased with myself😊

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1 hour ago, WillbeAlice said:

First day out of the house as Alice. Just wandering around town in the sunshine, but I feel like I have crossed another line.

Feeling very pleased with myself😊

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Well you should. You look great.

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2 hours ago, WillbeAlice said:

First day out of the house as Alice. Just wandering around town in the sunshine, but I feel like I have crossed another line.

Feeling very pleased with myself😊

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Wow u look gorgeous and the outfit is spot on!! Rock on lady!

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