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@Susan RI agree, the connection I have with these ladies is so natural. I've always connected more easily with women, on a friend basis, than with guys, but this was on an even deeper level. 

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13 hours ago, Nicoleeolee said:

Yay I’ve got the rest of the weekend off!. Floyd shirt and shorts. Nothing dressed up but perfect for running errands. Hope everyone is having a good weekend.
 

 

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Looks very comfy, and very femme 💃

 

I can't help but notice the 'Torrid bag' in the background. 

OMG, that is where almost all my clothes come from. I shop there once a week to browse the clearance items. 

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12 hours ago, Nicoleeolee said:

April..Thank you… You make me smile…. What counts the most is being comfortable in my own skin..  But comfortable jeans shorts do help

You are so very right. Gaining confidence in how I look and being comfortable with myself is a process and a challenge. But, you are a wonderful inspiration to those of us starting the journey.

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6 hours ago, Hannah Renee said:

I had an absolutely wonderful time this evening with 2 women from work who are best friends. Dinner and a drink, stories and laughter. We've had a couple of times with a couple other ladies added in, but this was a really memorable woman-to-woman connection.

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I always love how comfortable you look in your pictures - just as @Nicoleeolee commented on - and making the connection with other women sounds to be so wonderfully affirming. 

 

For the vast majority of my life, my connections and friendships with women have been much stronger and easier than with men. And, being able to be part of the Zoom sessions, @Susan R, has been such a boost in gaining confidence in myself. Thank you for that.

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17 hours ago, Susan R said:

For me, these connections with other women are one of the best things about transitioning. Living in my current role feels so much more natural than at any time out in the past with the guys. @Hannah Renee I'm glad you're experiencing these connections. As women, they're so important for our happiness and well being.

I could not agree more Susan….  I literally have almost no friends who live near me..  Gaining friendships over the last couple of years with other trans. Women have literally saved me after losing my wife.  I’ve now taken multiple trips across several states because they have become some of my best friends. Also @hanna-renee cute comfy outfit 

12 hours ago, Birdie said:

Looks very comfy, and very femme 💃

 

I can't help but notice the 'Torrid bag' in the background. 

OMG, that is where almost all my clothes come from. I shop there once a week to browse the clearance items. 

Thank you very much….. and yes, torrid rocks…. Love that place.

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11 hours ago, April Marie said:

You are so very right. Gaining confidence in how I look and being comfortable with myself is a process and a challenge. But, you are a wonderful inspiration to those of us starting the journey.

My god that is so sweet to say that. … This journey is so hard on all of us and it’s a lot of hard work to get to where I’ve gotten to. I still on a daily basis don’t think I’ve gotten very far so it’s really great to hear that. Thank you.
 

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ladies you all look great 

 

good job

 

nicollee..love thé shorts but I'd pick à short skirt if given à choice..grins..n you have the legs to pull it off dear

 

hugs to all

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On 9/30/2023 at 11:21 PM, Hannah Renee said:

this was a really memorable woman-to-woman connection.

That's wonderful Hannah,

I'm so glad that you are finding acceptance at work with the woman-to-woman connection.

 

You're looking great too.

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

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1 hour ago, Mmindy said:

That's wonderful Hannah,

I'm so glad that you are finding acceptance at work with the woman-to-woman connection.

 

You're looking great too.

 

Mindy🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋

Thank you, Mindy. I must add that, having been at this workplace for 14 months now, I have been truly blessed to have been accepted and treated the way I  have been. That goes for the community where I live, as well as the communityhere on TransgenderPulse.

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simple white top b blue n white dot skirt with torrid blue wedges 

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4 hours ago, missyjo said:

simple white top b blue n white dot skirt with torrid blue wedges 

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 Very nice 

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My new eyeglasses. I might go to contacts. I don’t know 

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pondering contacts here too...go for it honey.:)

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Curled my hair a bit with the diffuser, minimal makeup, fairly androgynous blouse from Torrid, shorts, and black stockings. 

 

Just dressed for another day at the day-centre. 

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I just got back from a bra fitting and, have been wearing the wrong size.  So glad to have something that fits now following years of hating wearing the things.

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I'm wearing a skort with a white base that's covered in multi-colored flowers along with a yellow t-shirt and pink flip-flops. The last gasp of hot weather here. Next week I'll be in a sweater or a sweatshirt.

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cobgrats Gemma. now you'll need to gi shopping. smiles n hugs

 

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Not feeling great in myself today, but I have a nice outfit. Black short sleeved button up, cloth belt, cowboy boots, bolo tie, and my work jeans. 

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21 hours ago, missyjo said:

cobgrats Gemma. now you'll need to gi shopping. smiles n hugs

Yeah, I spent way too much today.  I love having time off work.  I bought 5 bras (the right size) 2 skirts, 4 leggings and a few other bits and bobs.

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Just now, Ashley0616 said:

My new wig from the VA

 

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4 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

 

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Wow, that looks really nice! 💞💃

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10 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

 

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Oh I love the colour!

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13 minutes ago, Ashley0616 said:

My new wig from the VA

That's nice.  

How do you get one?

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