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🤣😂 @Erica Gabriel Now that sounds like a thread/blog I would read with interest! 

l had a few regulars who would answer the door only in their dressing gown (and always men?!) when I delivered takeaways for a while, but to be fair they always covered the essentials, and they tipped best! I live in a small village and the postie stops and chats (well, waves from a distance now), and everyone knows male me so yeah, for now I try to be discreet. 

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22 hours ago, DeeDee said:

 

I am in leggings and a green tee today and the only difference between today and yesterday afternoon is that the tracksuit bottoms are only around just in case I need to speak to the postie in a hurry. 

 

17 hours ago, Erica Gabriel said:

@DeeDeebeing a postie I really appreciate your discretion. I have stories..........😳

 

That sometimes happens with me, particularly in the summer when I wear a mid thigh skirt, bare legged, around the house and garden. As the post is addressed to my male name the delivery guys / posties probably do have stories to tell. I am on friendly terms with our usual postie though so no real issues. It's probably easier for them at the moment as they are not generally taking signitures, just placing the parcel on the ground as they distance. Being friendly and un-embarrassed usually defuses any situation.

 

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I had planned to dress up a little for Turkey day but after cooking for 3-1/2 hours I just wasn't motivated. I ended up wearing black leggings and a Transformers T-shirt. For obvious reasons I giggle a little when I wear that shirt.

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4 hours ago, ElizabethStar said:

I ended up wearing black leggings and a Transformers T-shirt. For obvious reasons I giggle a little when I wear that shirt.

 

If only it took US about three seconds of screen time and a grindy noise to get where we need to be...

 

Oh well. I'm still dressed for the gym in my "If you want a perfect girl, go buy a Barbie" tank (gym time pays off, I can ROCK a tank) and my boot-cut jeans with the neat stitching pattern on the sides.

 

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I went down to my work yesterday. They're collecting boxes for our move. I'm on a vacation day so I wore what I wanted. Except my gray leggings. They were MIA for the last month. I found them while doing laundry later in the day.

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2 hours ago, ElizabethStar said:

I went down to my work yesterday. They're collecting boxes for our move. I'm on a vacation day so I wore what I wanted. Except my gray leggings. They were MIA for the last month. I found them while doing laundry later in the day.

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That's a wonderful look, Liz! Nifty boots, and your watch even matches. 

 

Astrid 

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2 hours ago, Astrid said:

That's a wonderful look, Liz! Nifty boots, and your watch even matches.

 

Seconded. I love those boots. Are they comfy and do they come in a size 13?

 

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5 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

Seconded. I love those boots. Are they comfy and do they come in a size 13?

Thank you. Honestly I don't know if they come in bigger sizes, I wear an 11. It took a few weeks to beak them in but they're good now. Got them at store called Off Broadway shoe warehouse.

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@ElizabethStarYou wear it well and look great.

 

My weight loss is causing me to buy smaller clothing, even my workout clothes are starting to sag. While shopping today my wife suggested two different times that we look in the women’s section. Inside I really wanted to, but I’m nowhere near my goal weight to start that. Once we got home I started trying things on, showing my wife how they looked and fit. She said I was like a teenager, every time I walked through the house I had on a different outfit. I’m finally wearing slim/small in the men’s Adidas, Nike, and Under Armor.

 

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Going out shopping.  Nice to get a bit done up to leave the farm
 

 

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Nimh you would be a lovely lady at any office.

 

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I don't have to go anywhere today, so I'm wearing my Maryland flag hoodie and my darth vader pajama pants. 

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Now that I'm quite sure I won't be throwing out my lady clothes anymore, I've begun to treat myself to some things I've always wanted...like fur lined moon boots.  They're so comfy and wonderful.

($25 at Target)

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Lovely Ann! I could use some of those this moring as there is a good frost outside.

 

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I have finally hit that point too @Ann W and now that I am not worried about tossing out what I buy, my purchases have become nicer. Those are super cute boots :)

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Just a simple top and skirt. Although now that I look at it I kinda look like I’m pregnant in this picture. 

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