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I can say what I *will* be wearing.....

 

A belly button bar. I’m getting it pierced. Again. I had it done a few years ago but let it grow over. 
 

Question is ....... plain bar or one with a jewel in? 
 

Solution: get one of each and swap when wanted..... ?

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6 hours ago, Stefi said:

I hope I am doing this right. This is what I wore at my therapist's773677184_20210513_100700243435.thumb.jpg.6a71c8f878b53efedba46384a8fe13c0.jpg office

In comparison, I often tend to wear similar except for the skirt. It would be a bit too provocative locally and stand out. I generally wear a short black tube skirt or longline vest under my top (effectively giving a skirt) for modesty. I do wear a top like you have often in the summer although more in the form of a longer tunic or dress, That said I generally present a more androgyne rather than girly look when I am walking locally or in the fields. Another point I would make, from experience, is that white is not a good colour for a dress or skirt. If you sit on a dirty seat, for instance, you will be showing it all day.

 

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1 hour ago, Maddee said:

@PixieOfTheHillsI vote plain belly bar.

Swap in the jewel for occasions worthy of switching.

Yep. That makes sense. Good excuse to buy two , also!! ?

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13 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

 

Something else that might help. There's company called unclockable that make tuck kits. They're supposed to be water proof and hide everything. I bought a couple kits a moth or two ago. I can at least say it worked good with leggings.

That's interesting, I'll check them out. I saw a video of a trans girl explaining her method and it involved extreme taping (4 pieces of tape), plus underwear 1 or 2 sizes smaller, all under the bathing suit. She claimed to use it in the pool and at the beach. It must take some rehearsing before getting it right AND being comfortable enough to move in the water.

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I finally got my pants back from the tailor. I think this outfit would’ve worked better with a spiked choker but work said not. Really, that’s where they’re gonna draw the line. Oh, and I really need my hair color fixed. I’m thinking turquoise next time. 
 

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9 hours ago, Maddee said:

@PixieOfTheHillsI vote plain belly bar.

Swap in the jewel for occasions worthy of switching.

@MaddeeSorry. I failed. I ended up getting two bars, one silver and one gold, both with two jewels. One jewel Just looked kinda unpretty. Anyway, I love what I got. I feel more me. ?

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@Elizabeth Star that is an amazing outfit...you look terrific!  Even without the spike collar.

@Niamh l really like your raincoat.

 

@Teri Anne was in my dream for some reason.  She's even prettier in person.

 

@Bri2020great selfie by the pool...it tells the whole story (except the part about showing through).

 

@Linda Marie I bet your closet is something to behold...love your style.

 

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My car cranked this morning, so I made it to the store.  

I might swap out for something cooler when it warms up this afternoon.

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I forgot and wanted to mention. I made the mesh top. My crochet project I started last week. 

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17 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

 

Something else that might help. There's company called unclockable that make tuck kits. They're supposed to be water proof and hide everything. I bought a couple kits a moth or two ago. I can at least say it worked good with leggings.

 

Carmen Liu Lingere also has tucking tape that IIRC is also supposed to work in the water. Not sure, but I think carmen liu's might be more economical, althouh it ships from england, so if you're in the US, it might take awhile.

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5 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

I forgot and wanted to mention. I made the mesh top. My crochet project I started last week. 

Wow! It looks great!

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All dressed up and nowhere to go tonight. The zoom call I was supposed to be on was cancelled, but I didn't get the message. I'm not too sad though - I got to dress in this gorgeous 50s style dress. I'll be going to a retro festival in my home town in August and just love 50s styling. Just ordered some lined stockings to go with the dress I'll wear - which will be a different one.

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1 hour ago, Niamh said:

All dressed up and nowhere to go tonight. The zoom call I was supposed to be on was cancelled, but I didn't get the message. I'm not too sad though - I got to dress in this gorgeous 50s style dress. I'll be going to a retro festival in my home town in August and just love 50s styling. Just ordered some lined stockings to go with the dress I'll wear - which will be a different one.

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Beautiful cute. Love it!!

 

I'm wearing an ice pack today.

 

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4 hours ago, Niamh said:

All dressed up and nowhere to go tonight. The zoom call I was supposed to be on was cancelled, but I didn't get the message. I'm not too sad though - I got to dress in this gorgeous 50s style dress. I'll be going to a retro festival in my home town in August and just love 50s styling. Just ordered some lined stockings to go with the dress I'll wear - which will be a different one.

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♥️OMG! that is super cute.

 

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11 hours ago, Niamh said:

All dressed up and nowhere to go tonight. The zoom call I was supposed to be on was cancelled, but I didn't get the message. I'm not too sad though - I got to dress in this gorgeous 50s style dress. I'll be going to a retro festival in my home town in August and just love 50s styling. Just ordered some lined stockings to go with the dress I'll wear - which will be a different one.

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Really pretty dress.

I wish I could wear something like that.

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23 hours ago, Elizabeth Star said:

Oh, and I really need my hair color fixed. I’m thinking turquoise next time. 

I have a tentative hair appointment booked for June 1st regarding hair colour. I was thinking blue-black at the time, but I've since been considering less "natural" hair colours. Something to do with being denied doing such things when younger and still presenting as a boy. ?

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23 hours ago, PixieOfTheHills said:

Anyway, I love what I got. I feel more me.

That's what matters, right? No need to apologize, just do you.

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I did the wild hair color when I first went 24/7 back in 2008.

Not sure why I did it and wasn't happy with it after a few weeks.

I guess it was the freedom of finally being out and I was trying to make a statement.

What that statement was I have no clue.LOL

Be free and do what makes you happy.

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This is what I wore at my therapist yesterday. I went out to Aldis dressed in this outfit. This was the first time out dressed in women's cloths. I was scared but anxious at the same time. I said hi to a couple of people and the store cashier with no  "scary" outcomes. I figured if I wore a short skirt, no one would look at my 20210520_140226.thumb.jpg.3249d346089d00b7b313c90a28f6400c.jpgs face.

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1 hour ago, Stefi said:

I figured if I wore a short skirt, no one would look at my

 

... look at your what? No fair leaving us in suspense.

 

Hugs!

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