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By Lee H · Posted
Hi Jae Bear I appreciate your YT vids for your laid back style and the reassurance they offer. It's very important for someone like me, on the front end of this journey. I heard you tell the story of your bike-wreck injuries. My cruiser high-side was 7 ribs broken in 11 places, a flail chest and a punctured lung. Compared to you, I was only bruised up a little. I'm glad you survived. And I'm glad to know that you're in Oakland. I lived for awhile just uphill from Tele and Claremont. Three roomies from Cal College of Arts and Crafts, and me, just arrived from Reno, mind totally blown by Telegraph Ave before the "Summer of Love" brought the speeders, waiting for Cal residency for SF State. We were good friends with Owsley Stanley, but I'm old as dirt, so a young girl like you might not have met him. We could stand on our front porch, look directly out under the GG Bridge, past the Farallons at beautiful sunsets, while loaded, playing acoustic guitar and feeling soooo hip, slick and cool.... Charlize might know that feeling, too.... ~~Thanks, and a big hug from Lee~~ -
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By Delcina B · Posted
Thank you Vicky! For too long my thinking was stuck in the binary belief, but inside the real me was saying that's wrong, driving me crazy. -
By Carolyn Marie · Posted
These live streaming event will be held on Saturday, April 3, 2021. http://southbaytdov.org/ Carolyn Marie -
By Jandi · Posted
I haven't gotten a legal change yet, but I already get mail for Jandi since I mostly use it as my "delivery" address. I'm even of a number of mailing lists now - they usually want money. LOL But lately I am working toward a legal name and gender change. It is intimidating, even if desired. -
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By Carolyn Marie · Posted
Excellent article, Vicky. Thanks! Carolyn -
By Jandi · Posted
My ex and I had split before I faced my own transness. She was the first one I talked about it with. She wasn't much surprised. We never got back together, but are still friends. -
By Shay · Posted
Always liked this Dave Clark Five song and like it even better hearing Tom Petty doing it.............. -
By miz miranda · Posted
@Shay As a congenital nonconformist, I love the rebellion! I also think a monkees shirt and a leather skirt with heels matching the shirt would make a great outfit. A second odd pairing of bands . This also occurred in 1967 when the Doors opened for Simon and Garfunkel. Doors opened with and one of my favorite songs -
By Jandi · Posted
I like sports bras because the cup size isn't much of an issue. It's fine under a sweater or some cool weather clothes, but I'll switch off to something else with a lighter top - or lower neckline. -
By Confused1 · Posted
Correction, GCS in about two months, not one. Mike -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
I can echo all the above, and you may have read how I did it- Strangest ways of coming out... Not totally recommended if your relationship isn't as "Creative" as mine. The worst one I had to do was actually my boss. Everyone in the office knew about me and so I went to talk with my boss who is bit of a dinosaur. Nice fella, but opinionated. I told him about my depression and how it was started by low testosterone and some realisation about myself, when he interrupted me... "Well, we all get problems as we get older. the ones I don't get are those F*king Perves. Forty, married, Couple of kids. Suddenly decide they want to be a F*king woman! What's that all about?". I told him I would speak with him later and crept out of his office about 3" high. It took me six months to try again, and after several "Are you sure about this" and with 10 other members of staff looking on through the window, he eventually looked back at me and gave me a hug. He admitted he was a dinosaur, but said he wasn't afraid to evolve with my help. Actually, he's never failed to call me Tamsyn or call me She / her. in the six months since. I think the answer is- give her a chance. You need to be you. If it fails, it fails. Nothing can change that. -
By Tasha Marie · Posted
It is exciting and very scary too. I just wish I would have been true to myself so many years ago. I knew who I was. Just scared to live. I had no support system then. I had many gay friends but that’s the point they were gay and I’m trans. I do hate these titles so much. I am a women inside so even though we were very close and they didn’t get me, I was an outsider in the gay community funny how that works isn’t it at least my experience we are all in little groups segregated why can’t we all just be who we are. So. I’m slowly taking the mask down letting my true self hopefully shine through this is going to be a very long long process but it is a process that needs to happen. I thank all of you who listen.
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