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I start my new job tomorrow,make up artist at a salon.I was working at another salon,previous boss sold out and the new owner and I didn't see eye to eye on things.I left that place and it was a great idea,this was on Monday.An opportunity happened on Tuesday,got an offer I could not turn down.Called her Wendsday and said I would happily start on Monday,she loved hearing that.My new boss,she is very nice,friendly and open minded.She sees I will make her transgender and crossdressing customers feel relieved they are not alone.Knows I am a fulltime crossdresser.Met my new co workers on Friday,they already like me.I have seen the appointments and happy about 3 of them,(2 crossdresser and one 1 transgender).Rest of them are genetic women.One of the appointments,a 15 year old fulltime crossdresser named Alley.Finding out from my boss,her mom including herself are happy to see me tomorrow.Found out Alley is like me,likes wearing girl's clothes finding boy's clothes are boring to wear.She started at age 5 and went fulltime in January.Mom is supportive knowing her youngest son is now her daughter although she still has two older sons still

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So where are you at? My paint job could use a touch up. 😋 (You can PM me so as to not violate site rules. After all, I asked.)



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Up north.Alley,her two older brothers have been great with the changes too.They love her as a sister and do protect her.Mom sees she is much happier too

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