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By Sarahnr1 · Posted
belive me i know its a living pain in the ..... It has managed to put my life on hols d as well JUST when i finaly began to get somewhere ( found a LOVELY partner and well we are on hold until things calm down over here HOPFULLY tho were able to finaly meet this spring ) I understand its hard (despite all the garbage you most likely read about Sweden we are as close to total lock down as can be right now and we have had restrictions ever since ) Yeah we have that BS over here as well (only its with the Astra vaccine They are working on it tho and as more adults have takend the vaccine will be shielded by those that have takend it . Just read today that youre predident have declared that its expected thet the majority of US citizens WILL be vaccinated by June so its not that there isent a light in this tunnel dear (infact same goal is over here by Midsummer PROVIDING we get our doses alredy contracted ) BUT as i said just because the vaccin is in you DONT mean youre immune to this and sadly i would say we need to accept that there will be some restrictions needed in one form or level or another for a the rest of this year (This DONT mean full lock down and restrictions will be lowerd im shore come summer as more and more have been vaccinated. And you should also know that US have WAY faster rate and vaccine then we have over here in EU So its most definetly on in US to get better my friend. The problem is if restrictions are removed or lowerd to fast or to much you risk getting hit again (we are actually now in wave 3 ) And we havent lowerd only increased as the sitution have changed. So what we all need to try is to have some patince my friend and remember one year ago NOONE belived we would have vaccines done alredy. And belive me i agree its frustrating as ..... waiting for the darn vaccine and all the flipping restrictions messing up the entire world so i understand youre frustration BUT go as far as suicide due to it NA thats just stupid my friend. & you know as well as i do that you actually dont want to either. HANG in there it WILL get better my friend THAT i can guarantee you and its not that far of either -
By Myles97 · Posted
I personally feel my self-doubt through the roof right now. Thoughts about my gender are literally consuming me. I think it’s because I have been trying to come out to my parents the last three days and can’t work up the nerve to do it. It’s making me so angry at myself. It’s starting to get to be a bit too much. I thought telling a friend would ease a bit of the burden but it didn’t. I still feel overwhelming dread for having to tell my parents and it has me consumed with self doubt. I guess my brains way of trying to convince me to just stay in the closet. -
By Jackie C. · Posted
In my personal experience, when a tech realizes she's wearing a skirt and is therefore unable to modestly, for example, crawl under desks to attend to cables, she grabs a male co-worker and makes him do it. This method probably won't work for you in the field, so you'll need to pack a male co-worker (or at least someone wearing pants) in your truck for deployment as needed. I suppose you could also wear leggings, boy-shorts or other appropriate garments under your skirt. That would mean you vacuum-packed a co-worker for nothing though. Hugs! -
By ElizabethStar · Posted
I don't know, so far it hasn't happened. I have a pair of jeans in my trunk just in case but I haven't worn them in a couple years. -
By Myles97 · Posted
@VickySGV and @Carolyn Marie thank you both for sharing that with me. That makes me feel a lot better. I’m from the south and I don’t see a lot of out trans professors around here. I totally understand why, but it had me so worried that maybe there weren’t any. Thanks for giving me hope!!! I definitely want to move either up north or to California after graduation. -
By Transgirlkatie · Posted
This things has been going on for a year now, I can't stand social distancing and wearing masks past the summer. And what I'm concerned about is that too many people will refuse the vaccine, sadly in the USA theres a bunch of anti vaxxers, and then there's the issue of we don't have a vaccine for kids yet, and it might take till next year to get one. And we can't vaccinate that many till we can vaccinate kids because they're 22 percent of the population -
By Willow · Posted
Hi, catching up here, well skinning mostly. Y’all been pretty prolific writers. I don’t have my pilots license, I started that with my son as my instructor. He is a commercial airline pilot with more ratings than I can keep up with. He paid a lot of his way through Embry Riddle by instructing other students. We had to stop when 911 hit. The school he taught at was too close to Dulles and was in the exclusion zone. I have my motorcycle endorsement. I used to ride a Harley Ultra Classic. But it became unsafe for me to continue riding it after I tore up my shoulder. Some days I miss riding but mostly not. @KymmieL I hope not being able to get to Spokane for that interview didn’t set you back. I've been doing outdoor spring clean up now that we have a break in the rain. The rivers are finally receding. We had some flooding at the marina, four to eight inches of water covered the road in. Everything here is tidal so now it just floods at high tide. Hopefully that will be gone by Monday. I continue to add people to my coming out. So far so good. until next time Willow -
By Bri2020 · Posted
I feel ya sister. everywhere I turned the last few days I felt attacked. Damn algorithms figured out I'm trans/LGBT and have filled my news feeds with all the negative news. I know there's positive movement happening for us but it gets so drowned out by the hate. I had to call in someone to take over for me at work because I spiraled down so bad. Continuing the other topics of flying and bikes, I gave up my bike a few years back when it just became too painful to ride with my back issues. I hope someday to go get my single engine license someday. I miss flying from my Army days. I was a Huey crewchief back then and 99% of the time a passenger but occasionally got some stick time on maintance check out flights by some less than by the books pilots . They're justification was I should know the basics in case they were shot. Never could hover but I got to the point where I think I could bring her back and land if I had to. -
By Jamie68 · Posted
I'm a retired sheet metal worker of 40+ years. A skirt just wouldn't do. What do you do when you have to climb up a ladder? -
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By LusciousTheLock · Posted
Yep, the news gets you like that. I try not to read anything regarding LGBT+ anymore, as its always negative. -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
This is a great thread. My self doubt came from the fact that I had tried so hard to be a cis male. What a great bloke I was. Bought my first house at 24, married at 25, four children. Worked hard, played hard. Petrol-head and sex addict. We even made adult movies in my 20's! It was all lies, and I was hiding from the truth. The self doubt was always am I mad? What happens when someone finds out? later it became am I too old to do something about it? I can pretty much mirror Jackie C's timeline. Thank god World of Warcraft had bald female orcs! -
By LusciousTheLock · Posted
I've also worked crazy hard my whole adult life. A few years back, when I came out to my wife, things were tough and thinking that was the end of our relationship, my wife went back to work after 15yrs (We've got four children). Now things have settled down between us, we've got twice the income coming in and money is not a problem. Last night I had a callout at 2am for four hours and I sat there in my lorry and questioned. What's the point? I don't need to do this anymore. I don't need to work my ass off for little reward in a job I hate, working silly hours, phone ringing 24/7, thinking all week about what's happening next week and preparing or worrying about that. I'm considering giving it all up and doing something I would enjoy. Maybe a Postman / Woman? I love walking Then have more time for myself, not bringing stress home and yes, cracking on with projects. -
By RhondaS · Posted
Got a little depressed last night...long couple days of work, which means these days alone in a room with an occasional phone talk or email about the work, then get on the internet to see what the news is and some Republican was trying to attach a ban of trans people from sports law to the COVID relief package. Just decades of denial followed by now months of waiting for more progress to get to a point where people will hate me for what I am the more I present as what I need to be. ugh -
By RhondaS · Posted
I was worried when I was getting the medical part of the transition started that it was weird that I wasn't having that many doubts, especially compared to the amount of anguish I put myself through to get to that point. Have found that my results so far have matched Elizabeth's...I feel more connected to the people I've come out to...don't have much interaction with the rest of the world under current conditions. -
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