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Hello, I'm Kaiden and I'm 17 years old.  I think that I'm bigender however this is relatively knew to me as I only thought of the possibility a few days ago. Before then I had come out as a trans man but that just doesn't feel right anymore. 

 

I love fashion and making clothes, I started sewing when I was 6 and I've never stopped. My dream is to open a clothing shop that specializes in gender fluid clothing and statement clothing. I make most of the clothes I wear and most of them are very stand out pieces. Often when I go out people look at me because I overdress for everything, it used to make me feel awkward but now I just think that there jealous of my clothes. 

 

I also love food and cooking. My mum works late every night so I started to cook supper so that she could rest at the end of the day and I have cooked every night since I started. I enjoy making up my own recipes and experimenting the most but some of the results are a bit strange. I have never eaten fast food or had a takeaway and everyone I know tries to take me to MacDonald's and they say I will like it but I refuse to try anything out of principal.

 

I also love music sooo much, probably more than anything. At the moment I am listening to K-pop a lot but I have discovered that it is a lot more than pop groups. I also really like the music video's as they are often very over the top and I get a lot of inspiration for fashion from them.  

 

I love animals as well (starting to think I love everything while writing this), I have 3 cats that are all monsters as they bring home a variety of animals but they are all very fluffy and cute so I don't mind. I also have 2 bunnies, one of them has burrowed its way out of its hutch and it travels to the neighbors garden and the kid who lives there feeds it brussels sprouts.  As well as this I have taken in a total of 6 hedgehogs and if they are injured I look after them and release them later on.

 

I look foreword to talking to everyone and I hope that you are all happy and healthy and eating well. ;)

 

 

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Jackie C.

Salutations @Kaiden and welcome to TransPulse!

 

1 hour ago, Kaiden said:

I love fashion and making clothes, I started sewing when I was 6 and I've never stopped. My dream is to open a clothing shop that specializes in gender fluid clothing and statement clothing. I make most of the clothes I wear and most of them are very stand out pieces. Often when I go out people look at me because I overdress for everything, it used to make me feel awkward but now I just think that there jealous of my clothes. 

 

I don't know why, but when you mention this I think of a hoodie that turns into a sundress when you pull a cord. Probably not practical, but kind of awesome. 🦊

Good on you for looking for ways to help the community.

 

So yeah, we're glad you're here. Please feel free to join in the discussion and post as the mood takes you. I look forward to getting to know you better!

 

Hugs!

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Delcina B

Welcome Kaiden! This is a great forum to explore & find others looking for answers as well as those who have found them.

 

Again welcome!

Delcina

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SheenaT
2 hours ago, Kaiden said:

Hello, I'm Kaiden and I'm 17 years old.  I think that I'm bigender however this is relatively knew to me as I only thought of the possibility a few days ago. Before then I had come out as a trans man but that just doesn't feel right anymore. 

 

I love fashion and making clothes, I started sewing when I was 6 and I've never stopped. My dream is to open a clothing shop that specializes in gender fluid clothing and statement clothing. I make most of the clothes I wear and most of them are very stand out pieces. Often when I go out people look at me because I overdress for everything, it used to make me feel awkward but now I just think that there jealous of my clothes. 

 

I also love food and cooking. My mum works late every night so I started to cook supper so that she could rest at the end of the day and I have cooked every night since I started. I enjoy making up my own recipes and experimenting the most but some of the results are a bit strange. I have never eaten fast food or had a takeaway and everyone I know tries to take me to MacDonald's and they say I will like it but I refuse to try anything out of principal.

 

I also love music sooo much, probably more than anything. At the moment I am listening to K-pop a lot but I have discovered that it is a lot more than pop groups. I also really like the music video's as they are often very over the top and I get a lot of inspiration for fashion from them.  

 

I love animals as well (starting to think I love everything while writing this), I have 3 cats that are all monsters as they bring home a variety of animals but they are all very fluffy and cute so I don't mind. I also have 2 bunnies, one of them has burrowed its way out of its hutch and it travels to the neighbors garden and the kid who lives there feeds it brussels sprouts.  As well as this I have taken in a total of 6 hedgehogs and if they are injured I look after them and release them later on.

 

I look foreword to talking to everyone and I hope that you are all happy and healthy and eating well. ;)

 

 

Welcome from another newbie. I am loving being here.

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Confused1

Hi Kaiden,

 

Welcome to Trans Pulse. I think you find some friendly people here to talk to and who will support you.

 

Hugs,

Mike

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