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Red_Lauren.

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Well I wasn't planning on going full time for a while now, but hormones, my current job, and other plans. Have bumped every thing up. Which is all okay. I knew my transition was fluid, and could change. 

 

I'm just excited to have a interview. At a job where I can be my self. I've actually met a few of the workers last week as a customer, and they didn't care. They treated me like any other woman. 

 

 

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That sounds like good news! Congratulations!

 

Being just one of the girls is fantastic. Well, I find it fantastic anyway. I hope you will as well.

 

Hugs!

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1 hour ago, Jackie C. said:

That sounds like good news! Congratulations!

 

Being just one of the girls is fantastic. Well, I find it fantastic anyway. I hope you will as well.

 

Hugs!

When I was in there last week. I told them I applied, and was hoping to work with them soon. They seemed really excited. 

 

Sorta related to being seen as a woman. I was getting my nails done today, and as she was doing them. We were talking about my facial hair removal, and the pain of electrolysis. She laughed, and said I don't know why you guys want to become a woman its painful. She doesn't hate trans people fyi. She then went on a tiny rant about getting her legs and underarms waxed. Which she knows I do. She then was like I wish I could be a man, and just let it go. I then joked I don't think your husband would like that, and she was like nope. She was also jealous of how slender, and womanly my hands look, and joked a nice ring would look beautiful here as she was holding my left hand.  

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Well she's not wrong, but it's more painful to keep pretending to be a dude, y'know?

 

I'm starting take two of my new job next week so good luck to both of us!

 

Hugs!

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1 hour ago, Jackie C. said:

Well she's not wrong, but it's more painful to keep pretending to be a dude, y'know?

 

I'm starting take two of my new job next week so good luck to both of us!

 

Hugs!

I miss certain aspects of my male life, but the positives don't out weight the negatives. A positive I miss about being a man. Going to a barber for a last minute hair cut, and finding one. Ive been looking all afternoon for a hairdresser that can get me in Monday before my interview. Just to style it as im clueless in that department, and mine is in Florida till next week. Yea, welcome to womanhood. 

 

Good luck on your job also. 

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Congratulations!

 

Hugs!

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7 hours ago, Red_Lauren. said:

Well I got the job. 

 

That's GREAT Lauren it's not so much what you do as WHO you do it with!

 

      I took a part time job last fall, my son and daughter-in-law work there as well, and while I suspect everybody KNOWS how much I enjoy "the feminine side" - due friendly jokes and laughs - still find that I am very well respected & liked!

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I'm excited for you Lauren.  I often fantasize about working as a woman but I'm not sure I'd go any farther than just dreaming about it.  I am serious about finding volunteer work as Sally though, and I am hunting for the right opportunity. 

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That is wonderful!  

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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11 hours ago, Red_Lauren. said:

Well I got the job. 

Congratulations 

 

On 3/26/2021 at 4:23 PM, Red_Lauren. said:

She then was like I wish I could be a man, and just let it go.

Well…  My ex never shaved, and I always liked it.  Furry pits are kinda sexy.

I also have a daughter who doesn't - but she is a bit radical LOL

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3 hours ago, Jandi said:

Well…  My ex never shaved, and I always liked it.  Furry pits are kinda sexy.

I also have a daughter who doesn't - but she is a bit radical LOL

To be fair she works in the beauty industry. Even though it just is nails. She dose have to appear a certain way, and with me now working at a womans clothing store. I have to appear at least some what put together my self. 

 

Thanks ladies. I am so happy about this. 

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1 hour ago, Red_Lauren. said:

She dose have to appear a certain way, and with me now working at a womans clothing store. I have to appear at least some what put together my self. 

It's just life.   We do what we have to to get along in this world.

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1 hour ago, Jandi said:

It's just life.   We do what we have to to get along in this world.

Yep, I will admit I got real lazy this winter with waxing, but after almost two years of waxing. It pretty munch has became all blonde. While I can feel hairs. They are hard to see.

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On 3/31/2021 at 8:20 PM, Red_Lauren. said:

Well I got the job. 

Well Done @Red_Lauren.?

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1 hour ago, Susan R said:

Well Done @Red_Lauren.?

Thanks. Its a step I wasn't planning on taking yet, but it had to happen. Hopefully the next 8 months all go to plan, and ill be full-time by the end of year now vs next year at this time. 

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