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My dysphoria is usually focused more around my chest, but recently I’ve been feeling a lot of bottom dysphoria and IT’S WAY WORSE THAN THE CHEST DYSPHORIA AND I HATE IT SO MUCH- I’ve tried distracting myself but nothing seems to be making it go away. It’s gotten to the point where it’s making me angry that I do not have a... y’know. Puberty combined with dysphoria is wack (IF ONLY MY BODY WOULD MAYBE JUST,,,,,, MAKE THE RIGHT HECKING HORMONES,,,,,,,,PLEASE). How can I beat this back into the hole that it came from?

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I do wish there was some way to get you Puberty Blockers, but it will depend just now on how cooperative and supportive your parents are.  If they are, then your adolescent medicine care team may be able to help you, if you have such a care team.  I am sad and wish I could say and do more, but I am out in California and not one the eastern coast.

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You could try ordering a packer online. They have options from $12 up. They can be lifesavers for bottom dysphagia. If you don't want to or can't have your parents order one with their credit card, you could use PayPal if you have an account.

And, of course, you could always make one out of socks! There are a lot of YouTube tutorials for that.

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On 4/25/2021 at 7:37 PM, whatishappening said:

My dysphoria is usually focused more around my chest, but recently I’ve been feeling a lot of bottom dysphoria and IT’S WAY WORSE THAN THE CHEST DYSPHORIA AND I HATE IT SO MUCH- I’ve tried distracting myself but nothing seems to be making it go away. It’s gotten to the point where it’s making me angry that I do not have a... y’know. Puberty combined with dysphoria is wack (IF ONLY MY BODY WOULD MAYBE JUST,,,,,, MAKE THE RIGHT HECKING HORMONES,,,,,,,,PLEASE). How can I beat this back into the hole that it came from?

I don't wanna post a bunch of unwanted advice, but bottom dysphoria suckkkks cause if you're a trans dude you don't have many options. Packers can help, but I've found that even buying the right underwear helps, so if you have boxers or briefs it can go a long way to helping with the discomfort.

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You body is being pumped full of the wrong hormones and you just want it to stop.   We all go through it so you are not alone.   My hips are wider and I have a big bottom so I am self conscious about that.  Mostly I try to wear baggy pants and hope no one notices.

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