I came out to a very close friend this morning

[Beatriz]

 

I had never come out to anyone (SO, family, friends, work colleagues) and I made the decision to come out to a very close friend of mine who is a wonderful person. He’s a great listener, kind, very empathic.

 

Perhaps it’s because I choose an easy audience, but it went better than I could have ever dreamt of! It took me a while to get to the crux of the matter – I had like a terrible knot in my stomach – but then everything poured out. He was absolutely nice, receptive and supportive. There was not a hint of discomfort, awkwardness or any negative feeling.

 

Now I feel like a big weight has been lifted off my chest and tummy. I feel very happy and relieved. I know it’s just the beginning of a long and still uncertain road, but it’s the best beginning I could hope for.

 

Thanks to all of you! You and my therapist have been key for me to take this step forward. You are wonderful people! Big hugs!

 

[Heather Shay]

@Beatriz That is amazing news. I remember I did the same thing. Came out to a close friend - who lived a long distance from me - in case he didn't accept me. He did and the relief was so wonderful. That helped me take the next steps and it has gotten easier with each person I tell. 

 

CONGRATULATIONS that is the biggest step in the WORLD.

 

Heather Shay

[Davie]

Great to hear these stories--they help me do it, too—and do it with some grace. I came out to a friend this week, and it couldn't have gone better. So good I cried. And I feel lighter. I wasn't as nervous because I've heard how well your stories went. Getting more comfortable in my body today. That's important. Thanks again.

 

Yours,

Davie

[Ethan Ripp]

That's awesome, I'm so happy for you?. 

I had a similar experience with a couple of my good friends. I was scared silly for no reason. Their response was full of love and support. 

Thanks for sharing!