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Inspiration

What inspires you today? I’m not sure myself what inspires me. OK, I’m trying to write stories about the only non-binary trans bi-gender person I know (don’t know). I’m trying to be inspired, but trying doesn’t seem to work. I don’t feel inspired yet. So I’m asking myself—and the only answer now is coming right here to TransPulse.
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Davie

 

 

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Having a goal. I recently failed to overcome hiding the truth and it hurt me deeply as it did my wife. After living 69 years in the dark - staying in the light is so hard but I am INSPIRED to overcome my weakness, if for no other reason, then to life free.

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I feel inspired by having faced my fears and showed up to my doctor appointment face-to-face. I know I have a natural fear of doctors after I was abused by one when I was young. (Instead of a tall scary white guy, I now have a short, non-white, female doctor . . . and she couldn't be more helpful and respectful and smart and sweet and caring). And her medical advice is top notch. I feel great medically from her care and also her thoughtful acceptance and support about me coming out as trans non-binary. All good. Today, I'm allowing all the good things to inspire me and not questioning everything.

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Davie

 

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@Davie that is wonderful news. I am so happy for you.

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Every time i am honest about my life i am inspired to be more open.  Somehow those moments have given me the energy and desire to continue on.  I have been blessed to find help in sobriety and with the help of many here have managed to open up and find honesty about myself.

It is funny how inspiration has lead me in different directions over my lifetime.  Everything from designing and building through art (painting, sculpture) to farming has required some goals and the energy to move forward.  Life seems to evolve, twist and change.  What an amazing ride!

 

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Searching for inspiration to continue today.  I'm not especially -excited- for guys, or girls.  T is low, considring no blocker.  So wondering if surgery is worth it anymore.  if youre not gonna use it, why have the operations and maintenence care?

so im watching porn for inspiration.  To see how bad i want it.  its been so long.  i love looking female and want to do more about it.

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@Maddee I understand, believe me - what I'm working on now is called ACT (Acceptance Commitment Therapy) with my therapist and it is helping me get inspired. I don't think doubts ever fully leave.

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