Thats not how I wanted to come out.

[Red_Lauren.]

I am doing informand consent through planned parent hood. Its been going real well till today. They sent mail to me. Some thing they aren't suppose to do, because of me living with 85 year grandmother. She figured I got some woman knocked up, and we were having a abortion. She was ready to ready to kill me. 

 

I told her I haven't had sex in like 2 years. The letter was for me, and im trans. She had questions like any one would. We also probably had the most blunt and adult conversation we have ever had because of it. In the end she's happy im happy. I truly don't believe it. I know her well enough. I guess only time will tell. 

[VickySGV]

Sounds like it was a win.  Nosy old gal though.

[Susan R]

Wow, @Red_Lauren. that’s scary. Years ago, I used PP for the first few months of HRT before I told my wife. I was scared to death they were going to do this exact thing that happened to you with sending me mail. Luckily, it never happened. I guess it was destiny that she was to find out. Maybe it will bring your relationship with your grandmother to new highs.

 

Susan R?

[Vidanjali]

Geez, under different circumstances that could have been disastrous. Life is so strange. What a blessing it turned out to be an opportunity to glean that understanding and acceptance from your grandmother. 

[Red_Lauren.]

10 hours ago, VickySGV said:

Sounds like it was a win.  Nosy old gal though.

Yea she's nosy. She could probably tell you everything going on in the neighborhood. 

 

7 hours ago, Susan R said:

Wow, @Red_Lauren. that’s scary. Years ago, I used PP for the first few months of HRT before I told my wife. I was scared to death they were going to do this exact thing that happened to you with sending me mail. Luckily, it never happened. I guess it was destiny that she was to find out. Maybe it will bring your relationship with your grandmother to new highs.

 

Susan R?

Yea my grandma asked why I went through planned parent hood. I told her way to munch gatekeeping, and cost at a regular dr. I told her my labs are like 100 bucks, and she was like I pay around 300 after insurance.