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Re-introducing Shay as Heather Shay


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I have so many beautiful friends here on the forum. When I first joined I used a name that has been following me since 1982  but as I grew into the REAL TRUE me - the name Heather seemed like a better name for me. Officially on my new birth certificate I'm Heather Michelle Shay (surname) and as you can see I didn't lose Shay but I thought it was time to stop confusing people when they saw my name as Shay but I signed as Heather.

 

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... let's try Heather Shay going forward. What do you think?

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1 hour ago, Heather Shay said:

I have so many beautiful friends here on the forum. When I first joined I used a name that has been following me since 1982  but as I grew into the REAL TRUE me - the name Heather seemed like a better name for me. Officially on my new birth certificate I'm Heather Michelle Shay (surname) and as you can see I didn't lose Shay but I thought it was time to stop confusing people when they saw my name as Shay but I signed as Heather.

 

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO..... let's try Heather Shay going forward. What do you think?

Congratsssss Heather Shay, I´m so happy for you ;)

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1 hour ago, Heather Shay said:

let's try Heather Shay going forward. What do you think?

 

I think that's absolutely fitting!  

 

Be well, and enjoy the real true you!

 

Astrid

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Hi Heather Shay. 
 

Heather suits you, as I have been using it all along now. Coming into your own is a fine example for me. You’re one of my top five favorite bass players named Heather ? . 
hugs, sister. 
Davie 

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@Heather Shay, This is so you! ? It’s fitting to have your chosen name atop this beautiful new avatar image here. I’m happy to see you so happy in the image. Love the hair too..it frames your face so well!!

 

Always My Best,

Susan R?

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Congratulations on a new birth name while saving the past.  Heather Shay is a beautiful name. 

I did a somewhat similar thing with Charlize.  He is still a part of me.   Soon your head will turn when folks call for Heather.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

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I wish - I've only my friends here, my therapist and 1 friend who gets is right 25% of the time.

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3 hours ago, Davie said:

Excellent mnemonic device,@Vidanjali What's a Davie?

 

The Da of Davie spelled phonetically is Dei referring to the Divine. Vie means life. So Davie means Divine life implying one who is guided by inspiration. ?

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Yea, congrats Heather. I've always thought that was the way we should be referring to you since you sign Heather.  I LOVE the nes profile pic. You look amazing and so Happy.

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7 hours ago, Vidanjali said:

 

The Da of Davie spelled phonetically is Dei referring to the Divine. Vie means life. So Davie means Divine life implying one who is guided by inspiration. ?

"Davie means Divine life implying one who is guided by inspiration."

I'll take that for sure, @Vidanjali. Also, in Hebrew it means "beloved."

Thanks 

Davie

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13 hours ago, Davie said:

"Davie means Divine life implying one who is guided by inspiration."

I'll take that for sure, @Vidanjali. Also, in Hebrew it means "beloved."

Thanks 

Davie

 

I was told that if I had been born with parts so as to have been amab, I would have been named David. So, I'm a fellow Davie in spirit. 

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