Any Genderfluid Members Willing to Share Their Experiences For a Character?

[GlitchedSalvation]

Hey, so, as a fiction writer; I'd like to write a book with a Genderfluid main character. The only thing is, I don't know anyone in real life to talk with about their experiences, and I'd like to be as thorough and accurate as possible. Anyone willing to deal with my questions?

[awkward-yet-sweet]

I'm intersex and for a while I identified as genderfluid.  Mostly living in my "boy form" now, but it doesn't fit 100%.  You can PM me if you'd like, although everybody's experience is going to vary tremendously.  My sister is also a writer, so I can ask her questions as well.  Let me know what fiction genre you are working with 😊

[GlitchedSalvation]

wow, that would be great! It's probably going to be realistic fiction, but I might add some fantasy elements.

[Salted Caramel]

Hi!

I'm female genderfluid, mostly living my "girl phase", but I can switch between boy, girl and "nothing" within months, days, hours.. (though outside I always appear as a female but would like to be more masculine too). I actually have written stories as a hobby (mostly short stories and poems) for years, currently working on a fantasy novel! 😊Sadly I'm such a new member, that I can't send PM yet (if I got it right), but feel free to ask me anything if you need to! (I think one way would be sending a file with questions and me replying with a file). 

 

Kind regards, Salted Caramel (SC) 

[GlitchedSalvation]

that might work, i'll let you know once I finish brainstorming questions

[Sally Stone]

Hi Glitched,

 

I am MtF genderfluid, although I have identified myself using lots of other labels.  I am mostly male, but possess a very strong female personality who needs plenty of her own time to be fulfilled.  I can honestly say that I live in both gender worlds and for the most part, keep those worlds separate and apart.  It probably sounds complicated, but it is the way I've made peace with my dual genders and it works.  Occasionally, I feel as though I'm cheating, not choosing one gender over another, but then I remind myself that do doing so forces me into the gender binary camp.  That doesn't work for me, because the binary world is too constricting.  My personality is too complex to reside in a singular gender.

[GlitchedSalvation]

wow, that's really interesting!