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Wow.  That's....really frightening.  IDK how you can sleep at night with that going on just a stone's throw away.  :eek:

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How destructively powerful the fires are. I can't wrap my head around how many people have lost everything to fire and flood this past year.

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I'm so sorry for all of those in your area Vicky.  
I'm glad you are safe but the smoke and worry must take a toll!  I just heard a report on problems in the LA area about water quality.

Be safe!

 

Hugs.

 

Charlize

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Vicky, I’m happy that you’re safe as of now. That’s very scary I send my prayers to you, your family and everyone else who is being impacted by the fire. Stay safe.

Silas

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Glad you are safe for now.

This is an epic disaster.  LA is a major city, and it's not over yet.

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Just now, Charlize said:

I'm glad you are safe but the smoke and worry must take a toll!  I just heard a report on problems in the LA area about water quality.

 

This is real and it is in areas where the public water supply comes from surface level reservoirs that are not covered.  Again I am lucky that my water is from ground wells deep in the aquifer which is several hundred feet worth of filtering.

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I'm glad you're okay, I have relatives in LA, prayers be with you and family.

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