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So a girl messaged me on one of my social medias, just hitting me up. We start talking and she's pretty chill, so we have been talking for almost a full week now and I've discovered a lot about her. She is so sweet and funny, and she's so confident. But the only thing is she lives in Texas. We have video chatted multiple times, so I know it's actually her, and of course I've reversed searches the pictures she posts. They lead back to her, and she doesn't hesitate to call me or anything. We've both kinds fallen for each other and I'm super happy but I don't know how it's going to work out. I know long distance is terrible, but my mom would freak out of I told her I was dating a girl in Texas just for the shear fact that I haven't met her. I think we will end up just being friends, but maybe once we are 18 we could meet. It's honestly just so reassuring that these random people will talk to me because they think I'm interesting. So I'm definitely very optimistic right now. There's just these butterflies man, it's crazy
If i was questining where my older brother and sister stood as far as trans people go today made it clear. We were standing in line in front of a trans woman which sparked the conversation. It started light hearted and about the cost of transitional surgeries. Fair enough but things got hairy fast. My brother started delibrately calling the woman a he (not to her face we were in the car at that point) and me and sister argued with him as he shook his head stating "if you're born a man you're a man" fantastic. My sister then stated that the idea of being trans was just disgusting going forth to state "being gay doesnt bother me but-" which is the way most homophobes who think homophobia is only punching a gay person in the face and lynching them asked why they wouldnt want the puh tang when they were that handsome? And all of my fellow gay bretheren shook our heads thinking of the wholesome beuty of the male figure. I dont thonk theyre bad people by any means and while this most certainly mean i wont have the smoothest coming out they wpuld never hate me. My brother cares deeply about my tourettes and seizures and so doea my sister my brother often asking about side affects and advising me on things to do and generally being supportive on the whole out of the blue absentia seizure thing but this dpes mean ill have to be thw teacher of this stuff to them. I'm not gonna pull my haira out with arguements but ill definately calmy explain to them why im transitioning and see where it all leads from there. All i know at this point is 2018 is gonna be one hell of a ride. And if the thing on their being a kind of coming of age in your teen years are true i think its gonna happen real soon.