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If I Were The Last Person On Earth

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Guest Alex Blitzen

I would still transition, but...

when i ran into another group of people, and one of those people got sick and needed surgery, i would feel guilty and like it was my fault that they couldn't get the surgery then. Because I would have used the surgery robot on myself.... :mellow:

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Guest Evan_J
Wait... am I just your 2nd choice behind Mary Ellen? lol

No :rolleyes: it was that I was clearing up that I was not tryin to proposition you . Site rules. You know. What ? You've never seen the big stick she carries? lol I may be a perv but I know not to screw with her. Sally, Lizzy, and DJ know I'm full of it. Just makin sure its a given and you don't have this face :ph34r: lol

I would still transition, but...

when i ran into another group of people, and one of those people got sick and needed surgery, i would feel guilty and like it was my fault that they couldn't get the surgery then. Because I would have used the surgery robot on myself.... :mellow:

Stop over thinking things.

You're not responsible for the world and it is not for you to eliminate everything that ever may be for you because "someone might need it". I see I'ma have to get you to put Alex first. And you got to. Because if you're not taken care of , even worring about anybody else is destructive. You're 'sticking' them with not just a "regular" human who wouldn't be able to save them anyhow but a "deminished" one cuz you neglected yourself. You are not doing anybody any favors when you do that. People are not meant to be one anothers "rescuers" . In the very best scenario all you are capable of is guiding or teaching someone to take care of themselves. But never ever do it at the expense of yourself.

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Guest AshleyRF

No :rolleyes: it was that I was clearing up that I was not tryin to proposition you . Site rules. You know. What ? You've never seen the big stick she carries? lol I may be a perv but I know not to screw with her. Sally, Lizzy, and DJ know I'm full of it. Just makin sure its a given and you don't have this face :ph34r: lol

So I AM your FIRST choice then? :)

Hugs

Ash

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Guest Princess Elle

YES! I will do it in a heartbeat because I'm doing this for me not others. Even if there were small groups somewhere on the planet with one trans-friendly group and the other being trans-phobic, it's still a YES!

Everybody in real life cannot see me as female anyways, they see me as "that boy is a huge weird who somehow look like a chick and will have his male part snipped off" I do not care at all anymore, because I'm doing this for myself and ONLY myself.

Ooooh also this emoticon which I actually never seen before: :ph34r: looks SO CUTE! Ninjas are cute to me. :lol:

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Guest Emily H

Sounds great, I would do it.

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Guest AylaR

YES YES YES. While how other people view me is a big factor, and a big dysphoria causer how I view myself applies too. The haters wouldn't know, and even if they did let them hate. I would just leave them before they could do anything. All I need is a nice Will Smith I Am Legend-esque canine companion and I'll be set. Come to think of it if there weren't other groups of people I wouldn't need a voice, but I may still practice for the hell of it and maybe the robot surgeon could do that too.

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Guest Leo the First

The answer to question 1:

I would still get the surgery. There's no other people, so anyway, I can't reproduce. And, like Donna said, I don't really need to please anybody else xD Or even repopulate the Earth. Generally speaking, I don't feel that urge of responsibility - just let nature take its course, and let me get meh HRT surgery! Not to be selfish, but if I'm the last person anyway, I don't see the urgent need for me to not get the surgery...

As for question 2:

Hm. Sounds a lot like Earth xDDD Everywhere you go, there's gonna be people who are trans-phobic and trans-friendly, right? So, y'know, why worry?

Earth has it 100% of the time!

Interesting questions, though. :'D

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Guest Robin Winter

Heck yea! And if I was the last person on earth, I'd loot every clothing and shoe store I could find, maybe especially the lingerie sections :D

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Guest vertigo
Hm. Sounds a lot like Earth xDDD

Yeah... :D

Yep. I'd do it. And I would gladly live alone on Earth, actually.

And about the small groups elswhere... Hmm... So I'm not the last person after all? Well, if they're trans-friendly, then it wouldn't be a problem, I guess. If they're transphobic... I don't know. Why would I want to meet them? Why would I want to tell them or anything like that? I'd just... live my life without having anything to do with that group.

But if I found out that they don't know much about this stuff in the first place... I'D LIEEEEE!!!

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