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Milly

Man Dies In Movie Screening.

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Not to make a mockery of a man's death, but there's so many people I want to show that article to :blink

You make it sound as though there's the possibility of someone tying you down and propping your eyelids open with matchsticks in order to force you to watch it. :P I hope your friends and relatives aren't quite that Twilight obsessed! :lol:

I'm sad to say, two of my friends actually plied me with alcohol, got my arms in a death grip, and led me into the cinema. Fortunately I don't think I was the only one to face such a fate, there were a number of people in the audience who spent the whole time making derisive comments :lol:

I find it creepy that 50% of the fans are house wives. Who knew there was so many female pedophiles?

I was a little weirded out the last time my 50 year old neighbour came to visit and spent a good 10 minutes singing praises of a teenage boy's muscles.

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Guest TaraD

Ok. that is the funniest thing i have heard in a long time. That series ruined vampires.

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Guest degrassifan_13

wow...i would of said The guy from The Crow...:( RIP BRANDON LEE...(I think)

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Milly

Yes indeeed rip brandon lee. I think it was the scene with pretty boy where he died. The magnum he stood in front of... not sure. Haven't looked it up tbh. It was on my list of stuff to google but I just gravitate here when I get the net to work :P

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Haven't seen this thread in awhile. This made me laugh all over again.

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wow...i would of said The guy from The Crow...:( RIP BRANDON LEE...(I think)

ya its brandon lee. I would so date him if he was alive. One of the best Dark movie ever.

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