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Hey all....... I'm back I will have some photos up from the wedding. Sorry it took so long to get back on here alot has been going on. Of course the wedding a few months back. I also had srs about 2 weeks after the wedding. I had the surgery performed in Seattle all went well did my post op recovery there for 3 weeks then came back home. The only problem which I should have told my wife I was going through it before I did it. We have had discussions regarding me doing it and she was ok with it but not thrilled. SInce the surgery which I told her I was out of town on business for she has been out of town alot and we have not been intimate so she still does not know. She did make a comment to me that my swimsuit seemed to fit alot better down there. I just said it was a new gaff that I had and that seemed to satisfy her. I'm going to tell her tonight Im just kinda nervouc about it and regretting my decision to not tell her first. If anyone has any suggestions please let me know. I was thinking kinda showing her first by wearing some lingerie fo rher when she gets home but I dont know if that would be too much and I should just be normal. Sorry fir the rant everyonw.

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