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Well today is going to be my 1st therapy session. I'm really nervous. It's with Dr. Ken Levy. I would have preferd a women. But hopeful he be just as caring and nice. My insurance company is Kaiser of Southern California . If anyone's ever heard of Dr. Levy any positive or negitive experiences would be greatly aprecitaed.

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JJ

Wishing you luck though I am sure it will be a great experience

Johnny

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Guest Shauna B

Good luck! I hope it is a wonderful experience for you! Keep on honest and open mind and I'm sure it will be great.

Hugs,

Shauna

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Guest Janice Lynn

I'm sure your gender therapist will put you at ease. They understand just

how difficult for us. Don't bring a hankie .... they supply the tissues.

:thumbsup:

Peace, Jan

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Guest Mia J

That is great news. The relief I felt after starting to see a GT was wonderful. Let us know how it goes.

Mia

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Guest XFaelanX

Well my 1st visit with a therapist went well. It was just an in take interview but luckly there was an appiontment open later today with the person that will be my therapist. I m sure that this one will go just as well. The most important thing is that I feel a lot better and happy that I have taken my 1st steps in my transition.

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Guest Elizabeth K

A very very good first step. Please tell us how everything goes.

Lizzie

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Guest XFaelanX

My 1st therapy session was great I even went dressed. No makeup though but it felt good to go out as me for once. The Dr was very nice and very understanding and it felt good to be taking the 1st steps in my journey to womenhood.

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