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Eight families with transgender and gender non-conforming children ranging in ages from 5 to 25 share their stories. With the healthy development of their children at stake, parents must confront binary perceptions of gender, widespread transphobia and controversial parenting decisions.

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MaryEllen

What a wonderful video, Paula. Thank you so much for posting this. :)

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Guest Mia J

Thank you Paula I finally had a chance to watch this. What wonderful parents. Maybe all parents of gender questioning children should watch this. I think the most important message the parents had was to just support them and let them be what they want to be.

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Guest Angelica Alice

Yay! I was looking for this link, I was lazy to see the video the first time I found it! :)

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Guest Gregg Jameson

Hi Paula,

Thanks so much for sharing this with us! :D

With Gratitude,

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JenniferB

Here is an follow-up article on one of the transgender children in the video.

"One Little Girl"

http://www.metroweekly.com/news/opinion/?ak=7229

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Guest Jenny C

OOOH I had missed this video... Great !!!! Times changes so much... We were so far away when I was young... Can not imagine what my life would have been. Oh... ... .... .... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...

Love,

Jenny

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