Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Neck Hair


Guest ValerieD

Recommended Posts

Guest ValerieD

Is there any way to deal with neck hair? I can't do any form of hair removal with the way my life is right now (the short of it is... there's no place nearby and I can't afford it), so I'm stuck with shaving, but for some reason I can't shave my neck. I just get a large, bright red rash and no hairs get cut. I don't know what I'm supposed to do! I go full time in just a month yet I have shadow everywhere!

It's worth mentioning that I have no clue how to shave with a razor. My hair was too fine when coming in for a razor (strange, since it's very coarse now to the point where bringing a razor anywhere near my face is extremely painful), so I got stuck with the electric shaver thing that hasn't given me a close shave since the first year or two I had it (it's now nearly a decade old).

Link to comment
Guest ValerieD

I hope to start in 3-4 weeks, which brings its own issues with weight loss (there's no way I'm getting anywhere close to my target weight in that time frame; in fact, I haven't lost anything despite dieting for four months!).

Am I just paranoid? I apparently pass to people who don't know me even with the shadow; not sure how; it is the first thing people who do know me notice. Maybe people are just lowering their standards because the gender ratio at my college in unfavorable (engineering school). At least I'm doing my part to change that!

Link to comment
Guest Jenny C

Good question... Do not know for sure... others might have better advice...

Maybe it is the type of blades or the gel you use or the way you shave...

Also, you must change the blades of an electric razor pretty often... At least once a year...

Love,

Jenny

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K

Yuppers - bit paranoid maybe. We are our own worst critics.

And

You can still lose weight after you go on HRT, for about 2-3 months. After that it gets tough to lose weight.

Lizzy

Link to comment
Guest Izzybell

I have the exact same problem. I'd always end up with huge patches of razor burn, and still there'd be stubble. >.< I've found that using a single blade razor works best to cut down on any razor burn and irritation, mainly because it doesn't cut into the hair follicle . Also, you can try washing your face and neck before and after you shave, but be sure not to scrub. You just want to make sure the area is bacteria free as pores tend to be more open after shaving.

And I would recommend going with the grain for the first few shaves. That really cuts down on the razor burn. I've heard using various toners and aftershaves help, but I've never tried them so I can't really say much in that aspect. Hope this helps! :)

-Isabella

Link to comment
Guest ValerieD

Well, I'm gonna have to change something then... I haven't lost so much as a pound in four months! Don't really know what to do besides cutting back to one meal per day. Maybe it will get better once I'm finally able to work out (can't now as I own no workout clothes and refuse to buy something I won't be wearing once full time) but I'm not that optimistic.

Link to comment
Guest Joann-Sydney

for the neck hair i use clippers and others places i use clippers it does remove it completly but doesnt leave a rash or razor burn

Link to comment
Guest angels wings

My partner uses two things a razor that has three blades on it . Having a hot shower before hand softens the hair making it easier to remove.my partner got herself an emjoy hair remover it takes time but seems to be working . The hair doesn't seem so hard now . Maybe applying some sorbelene cream once you have shaved may help the irration . U may wonder how I know all this ? It's because I have shaved my partner many times . Electric razors never did it for my partner .

Link to comment
Guest Kendra K

Have you tried "wetshaving", that is shaving using a shaving brush and a safety razor? I seem to recall the electric razors are terrible for your skin.

Wetshaving the goal is "hair reduction", not hair eliminiation. By making a few passes (2 or 3, instead of just one) it's better for your skin. Plus with safety razors, instead of those Mach 3 or whatever they're on, there's the added benefit of them being much cheaper (I got a pack of 100 blades for $25). The usual shaving cremes in cans are also bad for your skin, since they have additives that dry out your skin.

Try watching

, it's what got me started.
Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
  • Admin

A makeup artist who gives presentations at the major TG conventions got me to use the 5 blade manual razors, but, use regular rinse out hair conditioner on the area instead of shaving soap or shaving cream. One of the Aloe hair conditioners will help with the dry skin. Immediately after the shave, rinse off the area and apply a moisturizing cream to it. OTC hydrocortisone cream can also help cut down on the rash.

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   4 Members, 0 Anonymous, 148 Guests (See full list)

    • EasyE
    • Lorelei
    • KathyLauren
    • awkward-yet-sweet
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.5k
    • Total Posts
      767.2k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      11,945
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Melissa_J
    Newest Member
    Melissa_J
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Amyjay
      Amyjay
      (58 years old)
    2. bettyjean
      bettyjean
    3. Breanna
      Breanna
      (52 years old)
    4. Emily Ayla
      Emily Ayla
    5. JET182
      JET182
  • Posts

    • EasyE
      So, I jumped on the "E" train last week and am about 10 days into my HRT journey. I have the tiniest patch available. I laughed when I opened it. "This little thing is supposed to give me more feminine characteristics?"   I haven't really felt much of anything so far, not that I expected to at this point. I am really, really tired but that may be other factors (like staying up too late to watch NCAA basketball every night). The one noticeable difference is that my libido seems to be a lot more subdued. Not that I am proud of this, but the big M was a practically a daily part of life for me. My daily comfort and way to get an endorphin hit or just deal with loneliness. The past week, though, has been, "meh." Is that the HRT tamping things down? Or just a normal down cycle for me? Not sure yet. Time will tell.   I have been very quiet about things overall. Only a few people know. No one in my immediate family. I fear the backlash I will get when they find out. Worst- case scenario, my daughters stop talking to me. That would kill me. I hope I can show them over time, "See, I am still me."   Met with my endo on Wednesday. He is good for me to up the dose when I feel comfortable. For now, I think I am going to stand pat and take things nice and slow. Of course, I could see myself tomorrow asking him to send in the script for the higher dose...   I keep asking myself, what is the end game with all of this. Unlike many on here, I don't have a concrete answer yet. I am not convinced I will "go all the way" and change my name and ID, etc. Part of me would love to soldier on just as I am but with a lot more feminine physical characteristics and a more distinctly feminine wardrobe. What does that make me? Non-binary? Not sure.  Again, I am just me, as unorthodox as that is...   All I know is that this is something I want to do. I am comfortable walking this path for now. Again, we'll see. As always, would appreciate any feedback the more experienced folks may have. Blessings to all!    EasyE
    • Ivy
      I grew up with it, my mother's side were Germans.  I still like cabbage.  I make a sweet/sour dish with vinegar and brown sugar, add some bacon if you have it.  And in warmer weather, slaw.  I like that better if it's a few days old, and has worked off a little.
    • Ivy
      Pity that we can't just respect each other and get along.
    • Willow
      Good Friday Morning    I will be spending a good portion of my day at church today.  I don’t know how any of my family would have been with me.  They all passed before I figured myself out.  I often think my mother and sister may have figured it out before I did but maybe it was just my depression that they saw.  I don’t know and never will.  My grandfather Young unconditionally loved me but he passed when I was 9.   Same with my wife’s parents, both gone before.  We’ve never had the greatest relationship with my wife’s brother but we do see them occasionally.  They words and actions aren’t always in sink when it comes to me.   Sour kraut or boil cabbage were never big even with my parents so that was something we were never expected to eat.  Nor was anything with mustard.  My mother hated mustard and it turns my stomach. My wife tried to sneak it into things early in our marriage but I could always tell.  She stopped after a while.   well I wave to go get ready to go to church.  I have a committee meeting at 10 and then we have a Good Friday Service at noon.   Willow
    • Mmindy
      Good morning everyone,   @KymmieLI hope you're misreading your bosses communications. As you say keep plugging a long. Don't give them signs that you're slow quitting, just to collect unemployment.   I have a few things to do business wise, and will be driving to the St. Louis, MO area for two family gatherings.   Have a great day,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • KymmieL
      Good morning everyone, TGIFF   It seems like I am the one keeping or shop from being the best. According to the boss. I don't know if my days are numbered or not. But anymore I am waiting for the axe to fall. Time will tell.   I keep plugging a long.   Kymmie
    • KymmieL
      In the warmer weather, Mine is hitting the road on the bike. Just me, the bike, and the road. Other is it music or working on one of my many projects.   Kymmie
    • LC
      That is wonderful. Congratulations!
    • Heather Shay
      What is relaxation to you? Nature? Movie? Reading? Cuddling with a pet? Music?
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      Having just a normal emotional day.
    • Heather Shay
      AMUSEMENT The feeling when you encounter something silly, ironic, witty, or absurd, which makes you laugh. You have the urge to be playful and share the joke with others. Similar words: Mirth Amusement is the emotional reaction to humor. This can be something that is intended to be humorous, like when someone tells a good joke or when a friend dresses up in a ridiculous costume. But it can also be something that you find funny that was not intended to be humorous, like when you read a sign with a spelling error that turns it into an ironic pun. For millennia, philosophers and scholars have been attempting to explain what exactly it is that makes something funny. This has led to several different theories. Nowadays, the most widely accepted one is the Incongruity Theory, which states that something is amusing if it violates our standards of how things are supposed to be. For example, Charlie Chaplin-style slapstick is funny because it violates our norms of competence and proper conduct, while Monty Python-style absurdity is funny because it violates reason and logic. However, not every standard or norm violation is necessarily funny. Violations can also evoke confusion, indignation, or shock. An important condition for amusement is that there is a certain psychological distance to the violation. One of the ways to achieve this is captured by the statement ‘comedy is tragedy plus time’. A dreadful mistake today may become a funny story a year from now. But it can also be distant in other ways, for instance, because it happened to someone you do not know, or because it happens in fiction instead of in real life. Amusement also needs a safe and relaxed environment: people who are relaxed and among friends are much more likely to feel amused by something. A violation and sufficient psychological distance are the basic ingredients for amusement, but what any one person find funny will depend on their taste and sense of humor. There are dozens of ‘humor genres’, such as observational comedy, deadpan, toilet humor, and black comedy. Amusement is contagious: in groups, people are more prone to be amused and express their amusement more overtly. People are more likely to share amusement when they are with friends or like-minded people. For these reasons, amusement is often considered a social emotion. It encourages people to engage in social interactions and it promotes social bonding. Many people consider amusement to be good for the body and the soul. By the end of the 20th century, humor and laughter were considered important for mental and physical health, even by psychoneuroimmunology researchers who suggested that emotions influenced immunity. This precipitated the ‘humor and health movement’ among health care providers who believed that humor and laughter help speed recovery, including in patients suffering from cancer1). However, the evidence for health benefits of humor and laughter is less conclusive than commonly believed2. Amusement is a frequent target of regulation: we down-regulate it by shifting our attention to avoid inappropriate laughter, or up-regulate it by focusing on a humorous aspect of a negative situation. Interestingly, amusement that is purposefully up-regulated has been found to have the same beneficial physical and psychological effects as the naturally experienced emotion. Amusement has a few clear expressions that emerge depending on the intensity of the emotion. When people are mildly amused, they tend to smile or chuckle. When amusement intensifies, people laugh out loud and tilt or bob their head. The most extreme bouts of amusement may be accompanied by uncontrollable laughter, tears, and rolling on the floor. Most cultures welcome and endorse amusement. Many people even consider a ‘good sense of humor’ as one of the most desirable characteristics in a partner. At the same time, most cultures have (implicit) rules about what is the right time and place for amusement. For example, displays of amusement may be deemed inappropriate in situations that demand seriousness or solemness, such as at work or during religious rituals.
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...