Father and I are working things out

[Guest candiceh]

My father and I are working things out,about my crossdressing I started in January.He did not like it at first and had a few issues about it.My supportive mother and sister including my wife had enough of it and finally convinced my father to know my female side that came out.It was with a therapist yesterday and I came out to how I felt about him not wanting to see my female side to know her.He thought this is what gay men do,therapist said that was not true.Explained to him it is a heterosexual man dressing as a woman that is straight.My mother,sister and wife were there too and doing this as a group.It is going to take time,one step at a time and my father needs to know I love my new lifestyle.Therapist wants to see me come in dressed as my female side during sessions,not just yet doing this and I will do this in the 3rd or 4th session.

[Guest Elizabeth K]

Very good progress!

Lizzy

[Charlize]

Sounds like your therapist is helping and your dad's learning..Great stuff!

Hugs, Charlie

[Guest candiceh]

Therapist is helping out a lot and educating my father very well.My mother,sister and wife had a say to him about this too saying stereo typing me is wrong and I agreed with them on this.

[Guest rikkicd64]

Candi, glad to hear your going to therapy, it was and is the best thing I ever did, plus belonging to LP. You are on the right track.

Rikki...

[Guest Clair Dufour]

I realy think that this something only you and your wife should be working out. Your wife sounds like she can work with you on this and might even enjoy it.