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Would I see that Fire

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When I pass you by, will I see that fire in your eyes

And If I watched you cry, would I know that you and I, would be happy, if only, we could meet.

If I walked down the corner, would I miss you walking by

If I took lunch just early, would I barely catch your eye

Maybe you're at the dog show

Or walking in a parade

Or maybe you're in formal business

Selling stock all day

When I look in your eyes, will time stop for me?

Will everyone go right by, while you stick by me?

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Guest angels wings

:) beautiful

Angel :)

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Guest miss kindheart

A lovely poem Maria :wub:

Future love, so high above

It flies just like, a pretty dove

When one day, It just won't say

That you will find love so far away

And you will hear, it oh so clear

And hold it in, and keep it dear

For you will see, what it will be

And then you'll say it's inside me

<<< hug >>>

:wub: vanna

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