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Hello everyone, As I am still new here and just starting to come out into the world I find sometimes i am more confused now than i ever was. At first dressing at home was enough for me never really had the desire to go out and see the world. Now after being fully dressed in front of my wife and seeing there is nothing bad or wrong about it, I find I am starting to get curious about the world outside my front door. My wife sugested we go out but honestly in maine I would have no idea where to go "a safe place". If anyone else is from maine or knows any places in maine I would love to find out about them so i could prepare for the next step. While I am here I am also thinking about it being nice to spend a full day as a lady. Does anyone know how to do that being able to leave home but not really having to go out. It probably doesn't make sense right now I am both scared and excited. As always thank you for your help :D hugs Alexis

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Mary Ellen grew up in Maine and I am sure she will be full of info. for you. Keep posting us and stay curious and happy. You are definitly on the right track...................Mia.

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I'd be very, very careful about stepping outside your door if I were you. I'm originally from a small town in northwest central Maine. Total redneck country. Where the "good ole boys" drive around in pickup trucks with a rifle in a rifle rack in the rear window. If you live in the general area that I described you'll know what I'm talking about. If you want to go out dressed, I'd go to Portland or at least to Bangor. It would be a lot safer. Good luck.

MaryEllen

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Yikes...that sounds a lot like where I used to live out in the swamps here in Florida years ago...airboat revving contests starting Friday night with emphasis on RPM's acheived and noise generated (wha u mean put a Gosh darned muffler on my baby..you some kinda crazy Yankee?)...the early Sunday morning shotgun call and response wake-up calls...and my absolute favorite...the time a few of the locals made a potato cannon and pelted my trailer from like 150' away from behind another trailer...took me quite a while to figure out what the heck was going on with THAT one...used a spotter in what I believe is referred to as enfilade fire. That's still making me laugh. I would have thought that there would be a better class of redneck up that way but apparently I'm wrong there. Perhaps the genus southern redneck is more gentlemanly/gallant in nature than genus northern redneck...hmmmm lemme think about that a minnit...LOL the images from parties back then and the bar at the end of the road on the river (picture the Hatfields and McCoys hanging out together as a group getting drunk and getting along). When it comes down to it rednecks can be O.K. people but they can also turn on a dime depending on any number of things that are fueling them at that particular moment...maybe I was like Jane Goodall (whom I met once at a lecture at CalTech) and her chimpanzie studies...Hmmmm <_< Best to listen to MaryEllen she knows THAT genus best...wanders off pondering the evolutionary tree and possible branches of the American Redneck Phenom...Kelly Ann

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