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(Somewhat) possible passing moment :-)


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I ust had a great experience that brought a smile to my face :-D - Me and a girlfriend from work went out to lunch. I am still in guy-mode while at work but several times our server said "How are you doing ladies, or is there anything else I can get for your ladies?" OMG! Just feels amazing that this is happening more and more for me when I am not even trying and shows that what I am doing IS working even though I do not see it most of the time. Just wanted to share my happy moment for the day :-D

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That is always wonderful. How did your coworker react? Hopefully you have an ally there or certainly after todays lunch you may.

Hugs,

Charlie

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That is always wonderful. How did your coworker react? Hopefully you have an ally there or certainly after todays lunch you may.

Hugs,

Charlie

She knows about me and is VERY supportive. I did come out to my HR department recently about my plans to transition, so there are a few others that know as well until it goes out throughout the whole company. My friend was not surprised to hear I was calld Ma'am since she already thinks I am passable? She was like - OMG will you just go full-time already! LOL

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Lovely! So if that's what you want go for it. In my case it changed my life and made it possible to be honest with the world and myself.

Hugs,

Charlie

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Guest LizMarie

Emily! Emily! I told you elsewhere that I think you've already rocked the house! You are amazing so run with it! Take it and run with it as soon as you can! You've been patient, worked very hard, and every time I read about you or see new pics, you look more and more amazing.

You've got this, girl! You've got this!

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MALE FAIL When we get to a certain point it does begin, and it goes whole hawg!!

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Guest Megan_Lynn

Male fail is a beautiful thing for sure. I was on HRt for around two years before I just gave up pretending to be a guy. The reason I gave up pretending is no matter how I dressed was called ma'am , miss ect . so why even try anymore I thought. Congrats on your moment.

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Congratulations! - That must make you feel really nice :)

It must relax you quite a bit, and the more relaxed you are with how you want to be the easier it will be to get there

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Guest Emily_MI

Emily! Emily! I told you elsewhere that I think you've already rocked the house! You are amazing so run with it! Take it and run with it as soon as you can! You've been patient, worked very hard, and every time I read about you or see new pics, you look more and more amazing.

You've got this, girl! You've got this!

Awww thanks girl. I know I have to stop doubting myself because I know if I keep doing what I am doing with keep beating myself up I will never be able to transition any further. Some things I just cannot hide any longer with some of the physical changes from being on HRT for as long as I have. For work I have to wear a very baggy shirt and either a sports bra or a breast binder to hold back my little guys :-P - Constantly being called Ma'am though is defiantly helping my self-image though and is really forcing me into moving towards going full-time closer and closer :-)

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