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Is There Any Ways To Be More Feminine Looking?


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Guest renee24

hi im very new to the group so im still alittle shy. im 24, 5 11, only 135 lbs, delicate thin frame.my waist is a 29. i was wondering if there was anything i could do to start looking and acting more feminine. i know this probably seems like a dumb question but i would like to start taking care of myself in a more female manner. im growing my hair longer buts thats all ive thought about. please any help or advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated. thanks ladies. Love, Renee

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Guest Elizabeth K

This question comes up a lot!

I am older, but i was 6'3 and 140 when I was 20 years old. I cross dressed back then, or that's what I thought it was. I passed pretty well, but I didn't have a lot of money to buy the right clothes. This was 40 years ago - dear - times have changed.

If I were you I would go androgynous - its easy today. Do your hair as you know, but consider thinning you eyebrows just a touch, maybe black nail polish and really high fashion Metrosex clothing and accessories. Have you watched American Idol? And watch your grooming, be pristine in your presentation. Cosmetics may be extreme but perhaps just a touch of eyeliner and such to keep everyone guessing. When you get the middle-sex image down you may want to feminize part or all the way.

Just an idea or two - slip into your femininity - feel like a girl and you will more easily look like a girl as all your feminine ways will be natural. And watch what girls your age wear - tht's the key - blend in.

Live the life you love.

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi Renee,

For me, what makes me feel most feminine, is my scent. If you have a scent of a woman, you are already getting close. Perfume (very, very, lightly applied!) or lightly scented feminine deoderant will work. My favorite is Nature's Gate Organics fruit blend deoderant. Additionally, womens clothing works too ;-). Accessories are important too (bracelets, hair thongs, etc). Never feel that a question you have is "dumb". Your questions are very important. Feel free to ask anything.

Your friend,

bernie

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Guest renee24
Hi Renee,

For me, what makes me feel most feminine, is my scent. If you have a scent of a woman, you are already getting close. Perfume (very, very, lightly applied!) or lightly scented feminine deoderant will work. My favorite is Nature's Gate Organics fruit blend deoderant. Additionally, womens clothing works too ;-). Accessories are important too (bracelets, hair thongs, etc). Never feel that a question you have is "dumb". Your questions are very important. Feel free to ask anything.

Your friend,

bernie

What are the best products available that help moisten and soften the skin? im not out yet so im not really close to HRT but i want pretty and soft skin.

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi Renee,

The best product to soften skin (in my opinion) is Aveeno skin lotion. Believe it or not simple Vaseline works wonders too. If your skin is really dry, then try Corn Huskers lotion.

bernie

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