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Transgenderism And M.p .disorder

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Seemsfor me that Muliptiple personality disorder other wise by the old name of skysopheria .

is link with my Transgenderism.

For this other person lives inside of me.

Be cause seems this person wants to come out and :"Play"most often now.

This person is a she, for SHE comes out when i get excited, many times when i at my job.

Doing motion picture set dressing or anything that could be considered Femme on that job or at home.

but this causes trauma for the man's body she pocessess.

Because she a woman and she has female desires. and she is a seperate indenity from nuckles So clothing has to been provided for her.

Because to the non learned it would consider it at diviated (homo)activity., with out female attire or costuming

I was just wondering am I alone in delimmia here in the threads

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Hi Michelle/Nuckles:

Well it's all foreign to me. I've only got enough material for one personality. It may not be much, but it's all I've got.

I've never really understood how people can maintain a his and a her persona. It seems like the upkeep would be prohibitive.

Even having two names seems like a lot of work to me. If I ever changed my name, I'd still only have one.

This was probably no help at all, although I'm sure there are people here who can relate to your situation.

Z.

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