Sudden Fear - or the Joys of Being Imperfect Androgyne

[tracy_j]

Today I was answering the call of nature and was dressed very feminine with knitted dress and leggings plus women's quilted jacket. I was in the men's stalls.

I suddenly had a great fear that I was really in the wrong place and likely attract great attention when I came out so I waited until I could hear no sound until I came out.

These days I feel very natural in my feminine clothing such that I can move to and fro around dress shops etc without generally attracting attention but, although I am often pass as female I do not pass close scrutiny.

As such I would be wary of womens and as I mentioned above male toilets are also becoming a no no. To cap this I had a bit of an experience recently at the local hospital where I had very bad looks from a disabled women as I came out of the disabled toilet (probably as I am able bodied)!

I suspect a great many others have this issue but sometimes I do think there are advantages for going the whole way to mtf (or ftm)

Well it does make life interesting

Tracy

[Charlize]

There are certainly advantages to being male or female and not in the middle. I know i was always concerned as i was moving between. Pity but we still have a society that is totally binary in most places. That may change but it is a good way in the future. At least in appearance we are pressured to make a decision. Pity.

Hugs,

Charlize

[Guest Jamie61]

When I was driving myself and my sister to a GT appointment ( my sister is great for wanting to go with ) we pulled into a McDonald's to get coffee and to use the bathroom. As we got out of the car my sister said she wanted a coffee and I said I had to use the ladies room. This gave her a moment of pause, everything about me being new to her, and she said maybe she didn't have to go.... Well I told her to go ahead and that I could wait, which I could see was pleasing to her bladder. A few minutes later and she hops and the car and announces excitedly " you should have gone to the bathroom!" "And why was that?" I asked. "Because the men's was closed and the sign said everyone must use the ladies room :)" and to that she gave me just the brightest smile. It made me think, I wish everyplace had a unisex bathroom.

[tracy_j]

I find it confusing how almost everyone can accept a unisex bathroom (and mixed changing in cubicles at swimming pools) but under normal circumstances have issues! I had a work collegue complaining yesterday about women using the mens stall in our department and leaving the seat down. The ladies alongside is well used as there are far more women in the building so a queue is not unusual.

Why!

Tracy