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I always shave mine, but they just go hairy again. Still an inconvenience to have to shave, but to me it is much better than the horrible black thick hairs everywhere. They're my main cause for dysphoria.
hi, i keep having thoughts that i'm not trans, even though i know that i am. i think its influenced by some of my family and other people that i know, who try to deny it. is there any way to stop these thoughts and reassure myself?
thats just ridiculous to be honest, i already hate schools stopping students from wearing certain clothes (unless theyre offensive) or having certain hair etc... but when they kick a student out just for something that they can't change, its too much.
So a lot of threads here are about the challenges of coming out and the such. One thing in all the therapy I have done over and over, is that we should try and look for good things. Now, their are struggles, and the other posts serve functions in helping people understand what they are about to face, and how they might deal with it. But, I thought it would be cool if we had a list of things from people of all the things that make them smile, or have bouts of joy that can only occur because they are out!
-When someone calls me Mackenzie or she/her it makes me feel good.
-When I see a dress that looks wonderful, I get to say, "Yeah, I am going to buy that" instead of "Damn, I wish I could get that."
-The look of my body when it is hairless, and I am wearing my feminine clothing, and I see a women in front of me in the mirror.
Those are just the tip of the ice burgs! Share yours, and lets couple the advice in this forum with some highlights and silver linings!
sorry this is quite a bit late, but yes, a nurse should understand. the nurses in my school are great, but i know some teachers who are just plain ignorant. at least your friend Will and your teacher is supportive, its good to have friends.
I was exhausted after the movie Endtime I went to bed right away, actually sleeping til 5am. I couldn’t go back to sleep so I drove to a 24hr Mexican food drive through and bought a breakfast burrito, and drove to a drive thu Starbucks, 😂🚙🌯☕️. Then the a/c technician called early, amazing, so I had to 🚙💨 over to my friends house to help. She doesn’t like to home alone with technicians, I don’t mind. That took a while. Then dropped an electric razor for my dad, then shopping for groceries, made it out of Costco with spending over $100, then finally back home to eat lunch.
My breast forms became uncomfortable pretty fast when I began HRT. Charlize idea about the "adds one size" type of silicone enhancers did work for a time as well. Another product that I used are called petals which have s sticky silicone surface on one side that keeps the nipples from being as obvious when you are not wearing a bra. An old riddle that I have posted here a time or two that does have truth to it:
What is the difference between a Trans woman and a Cross Dresser? The Cross Dresser can't wait to get home to put her bra ON, a Trans woman can't wait to get home and take her bra OFF.
I have maxed out (after 10 years) at a B and find the front closing bras to work better for me. Part of my tissue is under my arms and the Front Close pushes that forward.