First time out in public dressed

[Guest Ade6589]

Just now, Daisy Mae said:

It still needs to be brought out in the open and communicated between the both of you. If you both decide that an open marriage is the way to go than that is both fine, but going behind each others back without telling each other is just plain old cheating and that can just destroy the both of you. You both have to stop thinking about yourselves and solely thinking about the safety and the well being of your kids. I am sorry that may sound harsh, but I am just speaking from my heart.

Yes I know and thanks for your concern 

I will speak to her as the kids always come first as they will always be my kids no matter what 

I guess I hate her to be honest 

I did love her once 15 years ago 

but even before I met her I had a first great gay experience 

At  24 

 

 

[Daisy Mae]

Honesty is the biggest part of marriage and I haven't even ever been married yet.  Once you and your partner start hiding things in a marriage or even a relationship it just snowballs from there and it is bound to be doomed. You need to be honest and upfront about everything and I mean everything right now or it could end in disaster. So let me ask you this, this great gay experience before you were married to your wife were you honest about that and did you tell her about that? 

[Guest Ade6589]

Just now, Daisy Mae said:

Honesty is the biggest part of marriage and I haven't even ever been married yet.  Once you and your partner start hiding things in a marriage or even a relationship it just snowballs from there and it is bound to be doomed. You need to be honest and upfront about everything and I mean everything right now or it could end in disaster. So let me ask you this, this great gay experience before you were married to your wife were you honest about that and did you tell her about that? 

Yes I totally understand what your saying and belive that 

I did not tell her about my gay experience but early on in the married caught me on the gay phone chat to meet service 

[Daisy Mae]

Just now, Ade6589 said:

Yes I totally understand what your saying and belive that 

I did not tell her about my gay experience but early on in the married caught me on the gay phone chat to meet service 

I am only stating these things because I hate to see people getting hurt and hiding issues like the ones that are being hidden in your life and your wive life is bound to hurt not only the both of you but also your kids. 

[Guest Ade6589]

Just now, Daisy Mae said:

I am only stating these things because I hate to see people getting hurt and hiding issues like the ones that are being hidden in your life and your wive life is bound to hurt not only the both of you but also your kids. 

Yes I know babe and thanks for caring 

I will sort something out 

and it won’t be no open relationship as I don’t feel attracted to her .

i want to meet a man and go from their but first I must fully transition 

[Daisy Mae]

32 minutes ago, Ade6589 said:

Yes I know babe and thanks for caring 

I will sort something out 

and it won’t be no open relationship as I don’t feel attracted to her .

i want to meet a man and go from their but first I must fully transition 

I always seem to care and get involved too much so if I am just tell me to shut the hell up. If there is no attraction and you suspect your wife is also cheating on you than what are you doing this marriage thing for any longer? Are you keeping it together solely for the kids? I can understand that somewhat but unless they are babies they can see what is going on and see things are not right between mom and dad. Trust me, I knew when my mom and dad were fighting the instant they were doing it and they were a loving couple. Staying together could be the worst thing you could do for your kids if that is why you are staying together.