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Kali-Ann Gills

Ragged cuticles.

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Kali-Ann Gills

Hi everyone, 

Ragged cuticles will always ruin nice nails. There are many things that can affect the cuticles however one of the more common is dryness.

Use cuticle oil morning and night massage gently into the cuticle DON'T rub hard. Continue the massaging motion into the nail plate and surrounding skin. This encourages blood flow to the cuticles and nails. The result is a higher depositing of nutrients to the nails. Ergo healthy nails and a beautiful smooth cuticle area.


Kali-Ann 💋 xx 



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